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19 August 2026 04:00

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Yo guys so I was talking to this 1 girl we weren't in a relationship but we were very close to each other at first i used to pull back because she was all over me and that felt weird how fast she became attached to me then after a while i let my guard down and became attached to her too to the point that she's always in my mind but after some time she jus started getting colder and colder towards me she replies to my message after a day or two i called her yesterday and she literally hang up on me but everytime i say I'm done and i leave her alone she texts me and calls out of nowhere ..i always keep thinking of what exact moment lead to this what did i do wrong but i don't get it she probably an avoidant that's what im thinking I'm not sure tho

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19 August 2026 04:00

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Heyy,I need to vent
I'm Highschool student n I'm kinda sekay kemibalu iska 10th class n 10th lay i started enjoyn n chilln life wz them n sus mna mn wustm gebiche tebeleshaw fr😭 n now I'm 12 i wanna prepare exactly for entrance, but i can't study, alchalkum after yehone minute wede scrolln wey demo lela negr lay i waste ma time, plzzzzzz help me🥲

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19 August 2026 04:00

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Im female 26 and written by gpt but the idea is mine 😭
So here’s the thing… I really like this man It’s been a year since we’ve known each other, and I’m really comfortable with him. He’s amazing tall, handsome, attractive, hardworking literally everything But the problem is, I feel like I can’t be as open with him as I want to be
It’s not that I don’t enjoy being around him or that I don’t like talking to him. I just don’t know… I’m like that in my head. In my mind, I know what I want and what I feel, but when it comes to actually expressing it, I struggle so much. I don’t know if it’s a communication problem or what sometimes I just don’t have the energy, and sometimes I genuinely don’t know what to talk about.
I’m not even shy, that’s the funny part. I just don’t know how to be social or how to keep a conversation going. I’m really not that sociable, and I hate that sometimes because I know I have so much in my head, I just don’t know how to get it out.
And honestly, I don’t wanna lose him because of this. I can tell he’s getting annoyed because he’s always the one carrying the conversation and keeping things going. I really do understand why that would be frustrating for him, and I wish I knew how to help. It’s not because I don’t care or I’m not interested. I really do want to change and get better at communicating with him. I just don’t know how to start 😭

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19 August 2026 04:00

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I honestly dont understand how our brain works when it comes to intimacy🤣. I have been sexually active since i was 23 and with every single woman i have been with, it is the same gimmick everytime. We start slow and nice then it gets really really rough, it is like i cant control myself then after it ends it is back to cuddling and being warm/intimate. How does our brain change so fast from Normal to absolutely crazy! Dimo iko it isnt just me it is also the women i have been with, indwm one girl was insistent on me being rougher during the deed and after she is cuddly asf and wants to be treated with the utmost care, which i find hot but it is still so crazy how a person is completely different during intimacy. I have many life stories and evidences regarding this but that would be too long.

Anyways can someone tell me the science behind this and dont say it is about trauama. Becasue it is not both me and them dont have a single trauma, we have loving families. Also No media brainwashing either. So why is it?

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19 August 2026 04:00

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The rebelious neck...
I was 21 in a ሙሽራ ቀሚስ, when you told me "ልኬ ነሽ" so I played right into your fantasy፣ I was a good girl so I sit tight ከልክህ ላለመውጣት፣ አመሸህ ካላልኩ then we can’t fight,  I was just a word in a your sentence that fills your blank,  የአንተን የአባወራዬን ቡራኬ ከእጅህ ተቀብዬ እንደከንፈር ወዳጄ ስሜ አፌ ልከት የተሰየምኩ፣ ስትፀልይ አሜን፣ ስትቆጣ እሺ፣ ስታዝ ይሁን ልል የተመደብኩ፣ ድምፅህን ከፍ ስታደርግ ድምጼን ዝቅ እንዳደርግ ሲነገረኝ የኖርኩ፣ ልጆች እንድወልድልህ፣ ሲያመኝ ላስታምምህ ፣ህመሜን ረስቼ እንድስቅልህ፣ ደክሞኝ ምግብህን እንዳሞቅልህ፣ ደብሮኝ ልብስህን እንዳጥብልህ የተሰራሁ ረዳት ተዋናይ። "እንዴት? ለምን? አይሆንም!" ጥያቄና ውሳኔ ያላቸውን  ቃላትን እንዳላነሳ "ወንድ ልጅ የቤት ራስ ነው!" እየተባልሁ  የተገሰፅሁ፡፡  አንገትነቴን የናቅኩ ታዛዥ ሎሌህ ነበርኩ።
I was never the girl ነጠላ ለብሳ ቄጤማ አንጠልጥላ አንገቷን ወደግራ 67 ዲግሪ ዘመም አድርጋ በሰንበት ጥግ ጥጉን ፤ ከጥጉም የአባን ስብከት ላለመጣስ  በቀኙ ጥግ የምትሄደዋ ሄዋን፡፡ እምልበት በነበረው ጭቁኑ መልአክ ልማልልህ ያንንም ለአንተ ብዬ የሞከርኩ ነበርኩ። ያልሆንኩትን ልሆን ስንቱን ሱሪዬን ለሰው መፀወትኩ፣ እግሮቼ ደስ እንዳላቸው እንዳይረግጡ አሳቀኳቸው፣ ከፊትና ሁዋላ እንደተሰሩ ነገር አቀዳደምኳቸው፣ አንገቴን ደፋሁ አይኖቼን ሰበርኩ፣ ሁህ በረዳትነትም ቢሆን መተወን እንዴት ይከብዳል አንተው? No i was never that girl.
I looked in the mirror now I can’t believe, I forgot I was a bad bitch,
tragic,
breaking all the rules cause they were only habits.
  I am the bad guy ገድሉ እንደማይወራው  የቅኔ ፃህፍት እንደዘነጉት ተዋነይ፣  I am the bad bitch as Lilith the holy bible denies.
ልክህ ቦታህ ጠቧታል።
Eve is dead now.
Lilith  killed her፡)
Call me the rebelious neck that keeps crushing all the stupid heads.

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19 August 2026 04:00

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Hi people

So, I recently changed my job and my salary is almost 3× higher but I’ve never felt this unhappy at work. I used to be confident, motivated and one of the best performers in my previous job. Now I constantly doubt myself, especially because of the comments and attitude I get from my boss.
The money is great, but I’m starting to wonder: is 3× the salary worth losing your peace, motivation and confidence?

Hasabachun setugn

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18 August 2026 04:00

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Are there any other girls out there who are just completely exhausted by how people treat us for loving fiction? It feels like the second you mention you like reading, people either call you basic, treat your hobbies like a joke, or assume you’re totally detached from reality. I’m so tired of the double standards and the constant side eye just for enjoying a good story. If any girls are interested in screaming into the void about this or just want a safe space to talk about our favorite books without the judgment, please let me know. I really just want to find my people.

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18 August 2026 04:00

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Honestly, I really just need to be around live music again. I’d love to pull up to a Christian band’s jam session or worship rehearsal, even if it’s just sitting in the back taking it all in while they practice. As a musician myself, I’m so ready to connect with other faith-based artists and make some real musician friends. If anyone knows a group jamming or practicing, hit me up!"

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18 August 2026 04:00

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Honestly don’t even know how to salvage friendships with Nimo10...anymore, and it is just devastating to realize how incredibly selfish people has become. It is deeply exhausting to always be the one reaching out and holding the bond together, only to realize that some people truly don't know how to appreciate the people in their lives until it's too late. Finally done making excuses for people's behavior, because watching a close friendship turn into a one way street where they only care about themselves is just too painful. One day, the hype will fade, they'll will look around their empty life, and finally realize that they traded genuine loyalty for absolute nothingness and by then, nobody will be left to care that Nimo is entirely alone.🖤

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18 August 2026 04:00

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ስለ ጥሩዎቹ ቀኖች አስባለሁ። ደስ እንል ነበር። በጣም። ቢሰምርልን ታሪካችን በየጎጆው እንደተቀለሰው ከአንድ ባህር የተቀዳን አንድ አይነት አልነበርንም። በተደላደለ ልብ ማንንም ባልተፈላሰሰበት ሞልቶልን የተዋደድን አልነበርንም። ካለቀበት ፍቅር ላይ ተፈናቅለን በየአንካሳ ልቦቻችን ነበር የገጠምነው። ስባሪዬ ከስባሪው የገጠመ ነበር። ወጣት እና ቆንጆ ስንሆን ግዜን በኪሳችን ቀብድ ሰጥተን ያስቀመጥናት ይመስለናል። አማራጮች ያሉን ፤ ቡኒው ቢቀር ቀዩ የሚመጣ አይነት ህም... አንዳንድ የማይደገሙ ሰዎች አሉ። ስለመውደድ ስናስብ በሰባራም ልብ ቢሆን አእምራችን ሮጦ የሚቆምባቸው፤ የልባችን ግድግዳ ላይ በትልቁ ፈርመው ያለፉ... እንደእሱ እና እንደ እኔ ያለን መንገድ አንዴ የሚያመጣን ክስተቶች ...በሄድንበት መንገድ መመለስ ሽንፈት የሚሆንብን አለን።
እንደማይረሳኝ አውቃለሁ። እንደማይመጣም አውቃለሁ። ይቅርታ ለደካሞች አትሆንም። ለእኔም ለእሱም። ግን እውነት ደካሞች ብቻ አይደለንም፤ ቂም ላይ እንዴት ያለን ጎበዞች ነን! ሁላችንም ብርቱ ጎን አለን አይደል? አዎ እኔም እሱም ቂም ላይ ብርቱዎች ነን። ህመማችንን እንደገና ዛፍ ፣እንደቄንጠኛ ሴት ገላ፣ እንደ ጋለሪ ግድግዳ ስናሸበርቀው ጎበዝ የሆንን።  ገነትን እያሳዩ ቃል ቢገቡልኝ ይቅር እንደማልለው አውቃለሁ። ይህንን ማጅራቱን ተብሎ ተስፋውን የተሰረቀ ይረዳኛል። የምፀልየው ጌታ በልቡ አድሮ ለይቅርታ ደጄ እንዳይደርስ ነው። አምላክዬ ሆይ አደራህን ቂሜን እንዳታስፈታኝ እለዋለሁ። እንዳይረሳ ደጋግሜ ደጋግሜ አስታውሰዋለሁ። ሲበላ፣ ሲራመድ ፣ የሌላ ሴት የዳሌ ቅንብብ ሲያይ ትዝ እንደምለው አውቃለሁ። በየሴቷ ጉድጓድ ውስጥ እንደሚፈልገኝ አውቃለሁ ምናልባት አንዷን <<እንደሱ አትሳቂ>> ብሏት ይሆናል። የእኔን ፈገግታ አስታውሶት፣ ምናልባት አንዷን ቀጥሯት ቀርቶ ይሆናል፤ የምወደው ቦታ ላይ ቀጥራው.. የሚረሳኝ አይነት ቀላል ቁርኝት አልነበረንም፤ ሊረሳኝ ግን  እየለፋ ነው። ያለመምጣቱ ነገር የሚያስመጣው ምክንያት ጠፍቶ ወይ የተሸረሸረች የፍቅር መንገድ አጥቶ አይደለም። አብረን የረመረምናትን መንደር እንዳይረግጣት እየለፋ ስለሆነ እንጂ። አደራህን ጌታሆይ ጥረቱን ቁጠርለት፤ ደግ ምስሌን ሰርዝና አእምሮው ላይ ክፋ ክፋዬን አትምበት። እሱን ይቅር ካልኩ ራሴን ይቅር አልልም። ከእሱ ተጣልቼ መኖር ችዬበታለሁ ከእኔ ጋር ግን አልችልም።

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እኔም አልሄድ አልረሳለት።

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18 August 2026 04:00

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እናንተዬ ስለ ተተው ነፍሶች መቼ ነው የምናወራው….ዓለም ወረተኛ ናት እኮ ኣ ? በብልጭልጭ ትታለላለች….ድሮ ላይ በአብለጭላጭነቱ አጀብ የተባለለት የነበረ ሁሉ ዛሬ አንዱ ጥግ ተወርውሮ ነው የሚገኘው።

ሁሉም የቀደመ ነገር አዲስ ተሽሎ በቀረበ ይተካል። አዲስ ቤት ፣ አዲስ አልጋ ፣ አዲስ ቲቪ ፣ አዲስ ጫማ ፣ አዲስ ልብስ ፣ አዲስ ሳምሰንግ ፣ አዲስ አይፎን….አሮጌ የተባለ ሁሉ ፤ ከአገልጋይነት ወጥቶ ፤ ቅራቅንቦ እና ደካማ የሚባል ታርጋ እየተለጠፈበት ይሰናበታል። አንዳንዱ በክብርም ያይደለ ፣ ለያዛቸዉ ታሪኮች የሚመጥን ባይደለ መልኩ አንዱ ጢሻ ስር ይሆናል — መጨረሻው።

እኛም እንዲው ነን በወጣትነት ዘመናችን ምድሩም ፣ ሳሩም ፣ ቅጠሉም ፣ ሴቱም ፣ ወንዱም ፣ ቀጣሪውም ፣ ገዢውም….ሁሉም ይፈልጉናል። ሳናውቀው ፤ ወደ ኋላ ስናይ የዓይን ጥቅሻ የምታክል ቅፅበትን በአዕምሯችን አስቀርተን የዘመናችን ማብቂያ እርግናው ይመጣል። ያኔማ….ያኔማ ማን ይፈልገናል። ሁሉም ሩጫው ላይ ሆኖ ይተወናል። ይደንቀናል…!ወራት በሚመስሉ ጥቂት አመታት ከየት ወደየት እንደተለወጥን ይገርመናል…!

ዓለም የምትፈልገው ምርጡ አንተን ነው። ምድር የምታረግደው ለዘመኑ ምርጥ ነው። እኔ እኔ ግን ነፍሴ ትናንት የተጨበጨበላቸው የዛሬ ውዳቂዎች (አዎ በዓለም ቋንቋ ዛሬ የምትሻል ካልሆነ ውዳቂ ፣ የተጣልክ ነህ ልዩነቱ አጣጣሉ ብቻ ነው) ጋር ነው።

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18 August 2026 04:00

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Hi there,
Today I'm going to share my relationship journey with you. We have been in a relationship for almost four years, and we met in college when we were third-year students. After graduation, we struggled to find jobs, but after a few months, we both secured employment. However, he was unable to keep a job for more than two months. Since then, he hasn't worked for almost three years and has been spending all his time at his friend's workplace to avoid family arguments.
On my side, I'm struggling for a better life; I have responsibilities in my family. Most of the time, we argue about his situation. He often tells me that I should strive for improvement, but he hasn't made any efforts himself.
We don't have many good memories together; we don't celebrate birthdays or anniversaries. He frequently says he can't remember these occasions, and even when they pass, he doesn’t make an effort to celebrate or apologize. He didn't give me any gifts for my birthday, even though I remember his.
He doesn't seem to be trying to find a job, and I don't know what to do. We don’t have trust issues, but I can't envision a future with him.

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17 August 2026 04:00

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Hi guys I'm 22 f, from AAU.
I genuinely want to join a girls friend group😊.. if you have one (አስገቡኝ pls😁). Lately, I realized I'm not experiencing my wetatinet not going out self isolated mnamin. But I want endene aynet mindset yalachew friends.. like I am a good christian (orth) and academically good as well. I believe in thriving for success. Andande strict family wst stadgu kebad new hulu neger yidereglachuhal gin sra mesrat mnamn btfelgu enkuan mn bewetash new mtbalut eziga I'm so grateful for them eyamarerku aydelem eshi. Gin tinish mnm sle life alawkm. I want to have a good circle of friends to inspire me for growth. I really love it if you guys are my peers.. 22 or more.

Sooo if you accept my friendship proposal I'll be a good supportive friend coz I'm a girls girl fr😉❤️

#muchlove🫶

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17 August 2026 04:00

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Why do you think people don't want to be in a real relationship? Why do they choose fake relationships instead of genuine ones? Why do they cheat on each other? Why do they lie? Why aren't they honest with each other?

Let's put the other reasons aside. Let's talk about PAST TRAUMA.

I guess this generation has a common problem when it comes to this issue.

You start a relationship in the first place. You are innocent. You are careful not to break their heart. You take good care of them because you don't want to hurt them. You are good, gentle, and kind to them. You think they will be your forever partner, your supporter, and your person in every situation.

You try to make them feel loved. You make them happy in every way you can. And above all, you tell them every piece of your secret, thinking that they are you in another body. You dream of so many things for both of you.

In return, what you get is betrayal.

They betray you like a stranger. They make you feel small, as if you aren't enough to love or be loved. They underestimate your efforts and make your care feel worthless. They break you into pieces. They hurt you as if you were their enemy. They treat you like a dog.

In the end, they write their name on your heart with a blade, leaving you bleeding.

And then, they leave.

You are hurting. You are bleeding. You are ALONE.

And now, it has become a memory.

You have learned your lesson. You don't want to be like that anymore. So you choose to be fake instead.

You start casual relationships so that you won't get hurt. You become a liar, a cheater, and a dishonest person.

Because of your PAST TRAUMA, you become the person you never wanted to be.

...

So, knowing about these issues, I think we should ask ourselves whether we can truly be in a serious relationship anymore. I'm afraid everyone is choosing this path to protect themselves.

How can we be in a serious relationship after going through all of this? Isn't it concerning? 😟

How can we heal from that TRAUMA?

If you think there is a way for us to restart, heal, and become our true selves again, let me know. ☺️

Thanks for coming this far. 🙏

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17 August 2026 04:00

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Hey all , I'm 24F mnm ne behiwot yemenor flagt yelelgne nbs kawekubet gize jemero mnor alflgm bchegna lij ngne bchayen nw yarekut ke enatea ga .ke abatea ga siteawek yetwegnal bye nbr gn alhonm ahunm alflgm even Univercity eyalhum bzu gize suciadal thought nbrgne ahunm endezawe. Bka mewsen endalbgne yesemagnal berase lay yezin gize kebad headache nw miyzegne bka urgency to do it. Church mnmn hedalhu betam subae , kidase ,gedam mnmn nothing changed. I tried to pray every day still nothing changed. I never been in relationship. I am not even interst to be. Yehone gize I fall in love with a guy but he gave me a mixed signal kza twekut bka.pls any one related how to deal with this thought yewest chuhet

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19 August 2026 04:00

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I am just curious: what percentage of women do not want to have children?I want a couple to spend all their time, energy, and money on each other. I want the relationship to be the most important thing. I do not want parenting to change that. Simply put, I want the honeymoon phase to last forever.I dated a girl. We met because of a friend I met on a bus. I do not know all the details, but that friend said great things about me to her group. The girl I dated became curious and messaged me online. She was very bold, and we were intimate on our second date. She told me to stop talking to her friend, so I blocked the friend.At that time, I felt she was exactly what I wanted. I was totally focused on her. I texted her "good morning" and "good night" every single day. I replied to her messages in less than a minute. I complimented her in person and on every photo she posted. I called her more than four times a day, and I always wanted to see her. However, I am not always this romantic. I become cold when she does not want to have sex. But she never received this much attention from other guys, so she always came back to me.During sex, I was always very careful. I always used a condom. I have never had unprotected sex in my life because I am deeply afraid of making someone pregnant. I was so careful that after sex, I filled the condom with water and squeezed it to check for tiny holes.After three years, her parents started pressuring her to get married and move out. During our three years together, her family did not know I existed. We kept our relationship a secret. She pressured me to marry her, but I said no. She loves kids very much, and I do not like kids at all. That is when our arguments started. The fights got worse, and we finally broke up.I did everything I could to keep her, so I do not regret anything. I only wanted to give her my all and wanted her to do the same for me. I did that, but I could not make it last for the long term because of these differences.

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19 August 2026 04:00

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Hello guys
21F, So the thing is ig leloch setochm relate yaregutal yhen neger like kebet senota mnmn taxi west menged lay mnmn senhed leloch setoch gelmetmet miyaregun lmndnew endee whats wrong with you guys metgelamtu setoch mn aregnachu new yetlye yetganene neger salbes enkuan ayaders new as a muslim women hijab ale kemis ale mnmn fite bitay new nothing special gn gelmchaw betely muslim set le muslim set mnale selam alykum benbabal kmngelmamet lmangawm adebu!!!

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19 August 2026 04:00

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Hey lovely people. If you’re anyone who’s had any mental health struggles please read this. I moved to the US for my studies years ago and i’m graduating with a psychology degree. My dream is to make mental health more accessible and less stigmatized in our community and i’m interested in researching how our community deals with these issues to better provide support. I’ve experienced first hand how our society invalidates, shames, and disregards mental health issues. For those of you living in Ethiopia, have you found any professional support like therapy, counseling, or medications? what are some of the barriers you’re facing regarding getting support? are people more open to hearing you out or is it still hostile? what do you think would help you feel more supported?

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19 August 2026 04:00

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This is for the girls only please i need you opinion on something and idk like try to understand where im coming from.
So here is the thing there is this girl that i really really love like we been together for almost 3 years and we been friends for over 2 years before that and i love her so much. I have a job but i won't lie i don't have much money saved, i don't have a house or a car or anything else but im a hard working guy im on medical field. Im 26 yo and she's 22, 2nd year student. We(i) used to argue about getting married i mean i wanna marry her but she told me to wait imagine it isn't a one time thing i have asked her multiple times for 1 year and half to be exact, i even said to her that at least let us tell to our families( introduce them) like idk putting on a promise ring and stuff that her and my parents know about but she said no to this too. I get it she might be young and still studying and im not financially stable i get that. I kinda understand her on some ways but idk lately I'm developing this fear like what if she doesn't love me like how i love her. For real I would do anything for her i even i didn't ask her to be intimate with me like i have never pushed her to do anything that she doesn't want to within this 3 year being together. Now the thing is i want her to be intimate with me like i want the experience and all but im afraid to ask her to do anything she doesn't want to with me, i mean what if she think i was with her for just to get to lay down with her and on the other hand i real wanna see if she's willing to do that because idk in some kinda way i would make me feel that she really loves me and she really meant it when she told me to wait everytime i asked her to marry me. She tells me that she loves me amd i do believe her i know she loves me but no to the point that it will make me believe her to be with me if she found someone better and stable. What do you girls think, should i ask her or not? And please please im not using her or anything i mean i want to marry her it isn't like im only here to use her or anything so

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19 August 2026 04:00

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ከቅርብ አመታት ወዲህ…ረዥም ዘመን የኖራችሁ መስሎ አይሰማችሁም ?

የገ‍ዜ መለኪያ የሚባሉት (ሰዓት ፣ ወራት ፣ አመታት) ከምንጊዜውም በላይ እየፈጠኑ ነው በሚባልበት በዚህ ጊዜከላይ ያነሳሁት ጥያቄ ከዚህ የዘመኑን መነጋገሪያ ጉዳይ ጋር ፈፅሞ የሚቃረን ይመስላል ግን አይደለም። አዎ የጊዜመፍጠን በዓለም ዙሪያ ሳይቀር ትልቁ መነጋገሪያ ጉዳይ ነው። እንዲህም ሆኖ ግን ወደኋላ መለስ ብላችሁነገሮችን ለማስታወስ ስትሞክሩ አያሌ ክስተቶች ከመከሰታቸው የተነሳ ረዥም ዘመን በምድር ያሳለፋችሁሊመስላችሁ ይችላል።

መስከረም ላይ የሆነን አንድ ክስተት ወደኋላ መለስ ብለን ስናስታውስ በዚህኛው ይሁን ባለፈው አመተ ምህረትእንደሆነ እስኪያወዛግበን ድረስ ሩቅ ጊዜ መስሎ ነው የሚሰማን።
ይሄንን ነው እያልኩ ያለሁት!! ጊዜው እየፈጠነ ነው ግን በዛው ልክ ወደኋላ ተመልሰን ስናስበው ደሞ ሩቅ የሆነመስሎ ነው በአይነ ህሊናችን የሚታየን። ይሄ ቀረብ ባለ ጊዜ የቀረበ ምሳሌ ነው። 5-10 አመት ወደ ኋላ ብንመለስደሞ አያሌ አመታትን የተንሸራተትን ነው የሚመስለን። እሱንም ከ10 አመት በፊት የነበሩ ጉዳዮችን ማስታወስከቻልን ነው።

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በዘመናችን መረጃ በገፍ ነው ወደ እኛ የሚፈሰው። የሚጠቅመንም ፣ የማይጠቅመንም ፤ የሚመለከተንም ፣የማይመለከተንም መረጃ በየቀኑ አሸን ሆኖ ከቤታችን ይፈሳል። በቲክቶኩም ፣ ፌስቡኩም ፣ ዩቲዩቡም አዳዲስአጀንዳዎች እየተፈበረኩ ከኛ ዘንድ ይደርሳሉ። በየቀኑ በእጅ ስልካችን ከሚደርሱን መረጃዎች ውስጥ እኛንበቀጥታ የሚመለከቱ ጉዳዮች በፐርሰንት እናስቀምጣቸው ብንል 1% የሚሞሉ አይመስለኝም። ሌሎቹ ግንየአእምሯችንን ሼልፍ ከማጨናነቅ ያለፈ ግብር አላቸው ብዬ አላስብም።

ምን ልላችሁ ነው መሰላችሁ…እነዚህ ወደ ውስጣችን የሚገቡ መረጃዎች ቢሆኑስ “ረዥም ዘመን” የኖርንመስሎ እንዲሰማን ሚያደርጉን። ራሳችንን በሶስተኛ ወገን ሆነን ካየነው ማህበራዊ ሚዲያ ላይ በማይመለከቱንነገሮች ላይ ነው “ስናዝን ፣ ስንደሰት ፣ ስንነታረክ” የምንገኘው። እነዚህ በእጅ ስልካችን ውስጥ ያሉ መረጃዎችበተጨባጩ አለማችንም ላይ አውርደናቸዋል። በቀን ተቀን ኑሯችንም ላይ ስለእነሱ ስናስብ ፣ ስንወያይእንገኛለን። የራሳችንን ብቻ ሳይሆን የብዙዎችን ኑሮ ነው አብረን እየኖርን ያለነው።

ታዲያ አእምሯችን ከልክ በላይ መረጃዎችን በየደቂቃው መቃረሙ ብሎም እኛ በንቃት ሆነን ካላገድነው ደግሞየሰማውን ሁሉ ወደ እውነታ አለማችን ላይ ማምጣቱ እና በአካል የማናውቃቸውን ሰዎች ኑሮ አብረን የኖርንያህል እንዲሰማን መሆኑ ከላይ መነሻ ላደረግሁት ጥያቄ አንዱ ምላሽ ነው ብዬ አስባለሁ።

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19 August 2026 04:00

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ታውቃላቹ ዩኒቨርሲቲ ለመጀመርያ ጊዜ በዚህ አመት ስገባ i was so excited ግን በጊዜ ሂደት በጣም ከመጠን በላይ ሰው ማጣት እና የብቸኝነት ስሜት ይሰማኝ ነበር so as a normal person ቤቴ መመለስ ይናፍቀኝ ነበር በጣም በተለይ ከ እናቴ ጋር መሆን ግን እዚ ለክረምት ስመጣ ለምን እዛ የሰው ሀገር ቤቴን ትቼ መሄድን እንደወሰንኩ ነው ያስታወሰችኝ እናቴ ናት ። እነደ እናት ሳጠፋ መናገር ልክ አላት ግን ጭቅጭቋ በሆነው ባልሆነው እነሆነ መጣ አሞኝ ስተኛ እንኳን "አንድ ገንዘብ የተባለ እንዳጠይቂኝ ...የፀጉር ...የልብስ ምናምን..." mind you እኔ ሲበዛ ሼመኛ ነኝ እንኳን ከባዳ ከገዛ ወልጆቼ ብር ለመጠየቅ እሳቀቃለው ከቻልኩ ሰርቼ አመጣዋለው ካልሆነ ይቀራል ። ግን እንዲ ስትናገረኝ ለሰማ በወርቅ አንባር አጊጠውኝ እኔ እጅ እግሬን አጣጥፌ ምኖር ነው ሚመስለው ነገሩ ግን የተገላቢጦሽ ነው ኑሯችን ጥሩ ሆኖ ሳለ የምለፋው ግን በተለየ ነው ። ይሄን መሏን ስለማውቅ ከ ዩኒቨርሲቲ የመጀመርያ አመት ትምህርቴን ጨርሼ ስመጣ ክረምቱን ለማረፍ እራሱ አልሞከርኩም ወዲያው ነበር ስራ ማፈላለግ የተያያዝኩት ሆኖም ሳላገኝ ወር አለፈኝ በመጨረሻ ግን አገኘው ስራው ጥሩ ሆኖ ሳለ የደሞዝ ጊዜው መስከረም ግማሽ ላይ ሆነብኝ የዛን ጊዜ ደግሞ እኔ ዩኒቨርስቲ መሄጃ ጊዜዬ ነው እናም withdrawal አርጌ አመት ሰርቼ የሆነ ያህል ገንዘብ ሰርቼ ለመሄድ አማከርኳቸው ግን አልተስማሙም ሆኖም አሁን የዩንቨርስ ወጪሽ በዛ እያሉ መጨቃጨቁን ተያይዘውታል። ቢኖረኝ እግሬ ከቤት በወጣ ተመልሼ ወደኋላ ባልመለከት እላለው ጠልቻት አይደለም ሲበዛ እወዳታለሁ ግን ከሷ በኩል ለተመለከተው ከኔጋር ያያያዛት የእናትነት ግዴታ እንጂ ፍቅር ወይ ውዴታ አይ መስለም። በርግጥ ኑሮ ላይ ብዙ ሚያሳስባት ነገር ሊኖር ይችላል ከዳር ሆኜ መፍረድ አልችልም ግን ሳልመርጥ የተወለድኩባት ባመጣችው ጣጣ እኔላይ መበርታቷ ይገርመኛል። having a toxic family isnt for the weak ብዙ ነገር አበላሽቶብኛል my mental health , relationship , friendships , my confidence ....እና ብዙ ብዙ ...እሺ ማን ላይ ልፍረድ ለማን ልናገር ። አሁን እራሱ ዩኒቨርስቲ ሄጄ ለ እርፍት ጓደኞቼ እና የዩንቨርስቲው ተማሪዎች ወደየቤታቸው ሲመለሱ እኔ እዚህ ያለውን ነገር ፍራቻ ለብቻዬ እዛ እደምቀር ሳስብ ይከፋኛል ። የምኖርበት ቤት የ ምስቅበት , የማዝንበት ,ሲከፋኝ የምሮጥበት ሊሆን ሲገባው .....የተገላቢጦሽ ከዚ መራቅ መጥፋት መፈለጌ ያሳዝነኛል ሲበዛ ። i just wish deep in my heart ልቧን እንዲያራራልኝ otherwise ከዚህ አርቆ እንዲወስደኝ💔

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18 August 2026 04:00

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The absolute audacity of the average guy is honestly a psychological mystery. Like, where does that unearned confidence even come from? It is a universal human experience to watch a man walk into a room, take up three seats, and immediately start lecturing everyone on a topic he literally looked up two minutes ago on his phone. They have this bulletproof self assurance that they could somehow fly a commercial plane in an emergency or fight off a wolf, but the second they stand in front of a brightly lit, fully stocked refrigerator, they become legally blind. They will stare directly at the butter, scream that it doesn't exist, and act like the entire household is gaslighting them.And don't even get me started on the weaponized incompetence. They will botch the simplest task like putting a single bowl face up in the dishwasher so it fills with dirty water just so they never get asked to do it again. It’s a flawless strategy disguised as being clueless. But if they do manage to do something basic, like take out the trash, they expect a literal parade and a medal for bravery. Meanwhile, heaven forbid they catch a minor head cold. The entire world has to stop. They act like a stuffy nose is a terminal illness requiring ambient lighting and whispered voices, while women are out here running entire operations with a high fever without saying a word.The egos are just so incredibly fragile. Try giving a guy a tiny piece of gentle feedback, and you’re suddenly trapped in a three hour debate bro trial where he uses fake logic to prove he's mathematically incapable of being wrong. Or, he just goes completely silent and pouts for two days. They genuinely love to call themselves the "logical, rational gender," completely ignoring the fact that screaming at a television screen because a guy dropped a sports ball is a literal toddler temper tantrum. They just coast through life letting the women around them handle 100% of the emotional labor, remembering birthdays, buying gifts, managing schedules, only to sign their name on the card at the last second and take half the credit. They walk down crowded sidewalks expecting everyone else to step into the mud to let them pass, and they confidently interrupt actual experts just to repeat the exact same point louder. It is just an endless, exhausting cycle of selective blindness, and honestly, it’s a miracle they were ever put in charge of anything. Seriously, what kind of broken simulation are y'all even trapped in to be walking around with that much unearned, trashy confidence?

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18 August 2026 04:00

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It is genuinely exhausting dealing with people who claim to be expert software engineers but just use AI to copy paste garbage code, vanish, or stall the second it's time to actually get the work done. If you are going to take on assignments, agree to the terms, and accept payment strictly after the project is 100% completed, then actually show up and do the work instead of wasting everyone's time with AI generated templates that don't even compile. Don't hide behind a bio full of technical skills if you can't even write original code, handle a simple upfront negotiation, or deliver a working codebase when it matters most. If you want to discuss the price and project details in the inbox, then be responsive and professional about it, because some of us actually have deadlines to meet and don't have time for your lazy prompts and endless waiting games.

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18 August 2026 04:00

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Hi People ✌️i just want some online friends based on these conditions (don't say i am weird  just asking😁)
1,I need an online girl that can cheer me up,talk to me and other (NOT GIRLFRIEND JUST SISTER Vibe girl i don't care about her age just if there some who could talk they can)
2,i need any one who plays blood strike game(a shooting game like pubg)so i just want to play while communicating with each other
#these winter is so boring that why its time to make new friends if you interested put your username so i can contact you guys ✌️
Notice:i classified the gender here because most online game players are boys📱📱📱🍱

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18 August 2026 04:00

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Hi everyone 21 F
here is the thing university ተማሪ ነበርኩ withdrawal ሞልቻለዉ እራሴን የጠበቁት ቦታ አለማግኘቴ depressed እያደረገኝ ነዉ so አሁን ከ እናንተ እምፈልገዉ ከ ሀገር ለመውጣት ስለሆነ plane ምን ማድረግ እንዳለብኝ እንድትነግሩኝ ነዉ

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18 August 2026 04:00

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Idk man, I feel like people don’t really understand how real a friendship between a guy and a girl can be. Like, not everything has to turn into “oh he likes her” or “she likes him.” Sometimes two people just genuinely care about each other and become best friends.

And yeah, I’m a guy, but I actually wanna know what it feels like to have a girl as a best friend. Someone you can talk to about literally anything, laugh with over the dumbest shit, check on each other, have each other’s back, and just be there without making everything complicated.

There’s a different kind of love in a real friendship. Not romantic love, not some hidden intention… just that genuine “I got you no matter what” type of love.

So if you’re a girl who’s looking for a genuine guy best friend, maybe we can actually build something real. No weird intentions, no fake vibes, no “let’s see where this goes.” Just two people becoming genuinely close and being there for each other.

Because honestly, having a real best friend of the opposite gender sounds underrated asf. 😭so who wants to try?

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18 August 2026 04:00

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Heyy yall I need ur honest opinion so me and this guy have been dating for about 5 months and we just kissed for the first time last month and couple days before he kiss me endlessly and said I can’t get enough of you mnm altegbshem mnamn and when I meet him all my apitite is gone sometimes when he’s talking to me about stn endwm vomit liyrgegn rasu yeflgal and I really don’t know wats happening to me like yehone time we were talking in the txt and we argue and when I ask him what’s he’s trying to do he said eyetetalan kza i vomit so hard and my hand started shaking after a while we good but we fight always about little things and then we became good again buttt yesterday he ask me to meet him in a room and I never dated anyone before never been in a room with a guy like I wanna see what’s look like but u know wat if stn happen I don’t want that’s my fear and I told him I just don’t want be there and I don’t feel comfortable to be in a room and he said Eskemech eshururu endemtbay alaklshm even though I don’t get it what he exactly wanna say like it might be normal eko gn what if he don’t love me like he said what if all words he says to me is fake and he don’t mean any of them just because I like him I don’t want him to take my love for granted and am not a phone caller I never call him all this months do u guys think it’s bad and it makes him feel I don’t love him or not and am 22f who have kinda strict parents and he’s my first kisser 🫣🤦🏾‍♂️I just want ur honest advice like a big sis or brother don’t be mean

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17 August 2026 04:00

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I hope this message finds you well. I am currently a third-year student majoring in Marketing Management, hailing from a low-income family. Each day, I reflect on how I can transform my life and improve my family's circumstances. My family has always been my pillar of support, yet they face significant financial challenges and have encouraged me to pursue my education, steering clear of the path they tread. I have been diligently working towards bettering our situation, but oftentimes, my efforts seem to yield limited progress. Nevertheless, I remain steadfast in my pursuit of opportunities to uplift our lives.
Today, I am reaching out for assistance. Two years ago, I completed a video editing course and acquired valuable skills in this area. However, I currently lack a laptop to execute my projects effectively. While my phone is functional but not optimal, my determination to succeed remains unwavering.
I am aware that there are many accomplished individuals within this community who might have an extra laptop or resources they could part with. Any assistance would be immensely appreciated
Ena ebakachu...🙏🙏

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17 August 2026 04:00

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19M I have girlfriend and we have been together almost 3 years and at that time i wasn’t really in love she was really depressed coz her mom passed away ena keza befit she asked me to be her bf ena I couldn’t say no asazenachign Eshii biye rship wust geban keza 11 th cerasin we were in deep love and I trusted her betam ena ene boarding nbrkugn yemimarew ena long distance nw keza kremt lay engenagnalen and sefar nen slahone keza endeza 11th kremt aleka and then 12 th endezaw keza ene uni gebawgn ena kremt lay dero betam nbr yemnaweraw betam 24/7 keza uni sgeba I couldn’t do that u know everything is new academically pressure ale gn endezam bihon Enaweralen daily Enaweralen mnamn nbr gn Enda kremtu 24/7 Aydelam keza esuam like after 1 month gebach weda uni keza ketalin then this day she asked me what makes you breakup with me and I told her ….keza she choudnt keep it and told me when she got there she met this guy and he asked her to go out just to show her the city blah blah and then he drugged her and ….she said I was really mad what made you go out with him and she said u didn’t give me much attention I needed but to be honest I gave her all I had but she said I saw him just as a friend and then she can’t stand the guilty told me all of this like after 4 months of the accident I understood her coz she was rap@ mnamn ena beka smoothly rship endayalk ketalin and she was v and it was taken by Him manmn slahone she always say u deserve better gn ene v mehonua alemehonua care alarekum nbr cause she didn’t do it intentionally ena beka endeza alefa kremt derase mnamn almost 6 wer aleka ena almost le and samnt breakup argen nbr keza she reached me out mnamn temalasin she has back and forth behavior mn mareg endalebat atakm gn my trust was really broken honom gn be Kelalu yemtwedaw sew lay give up mareg aychalm ena endetm rasen asamigne ketalin keza recently she told me that whenever I see ur eyes alchlm mkniyatum I have lied to you many things and also cheated on you coz I can’t lose you I lied to you to keep you she said keza betam debaregn Egzibihern imagine keeping a lie for 6 months Yezane ewunet meslogn nbr ena idk Wht to do rn she said I want to start a everything with you Enem esuan lose mareg alchalkum keza lemme try for one last time biye ketalin 1 week rasu alhonem yhen ke negarechign ena every time i see her her texts i feel the betrayal and esuam betam regret argalech mnamn gn sorry can’t change anything aydela ….bcha guys what do you say to me should I give her second chance she is struggling with fam prob her moms grief and so on

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17 August 2026 04:00

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I am 24M I wanna say smt I have gf more than 4 but the 2tun vergin nachew wesejewalehu ena adua aseratua temechegn ena lagebat eyasebku neber family gn ayihonm eyale nw ena Canada nech andegnawa esua litmeta nw sraye setoch ga bzu gize yagenagnegnal I am a doctor ena solutions sle miset candawan ga lihun family esun nw mifelgew gn ezi betam mitwedegn erasuan asalfa yesetechign lij alech andegnawan enkuan tchatalehu wetolatal mn yishalal guys litsedbugn endehone akalehu eski yeteshale understanding yalew enji with in experience

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