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I’m 22 f and sometimes I just sit and wonder 🤔 how did we become this selfish? It feels like somewhere along the way, we failed each other as a society. People walk around so wrapped up in their own insecurities that they look at others like stranger species 👿to avoid, not humans to care about. Empathy feels rare. Everyone seems numb to other people’s pain, but quick to expect service, attention, and validation for themselves also feels like the idea of winning has changed. Now it’s like if somebody wins, somebody else has to lose. Even love has started to feel like an ego contest ⚔️ the one who cares less, the one who gives a shit, somehow “wins.” As if indifference became a badge of honor and vulnerability became weakness. And what worries me most is seeing it in people my age. We talk about changing the world, but when things get hard, many of us are ready to save ourselves first and take the easiest way out. Shortcuts everywhere. Do what’s convenient, not what’s right.

But principles…?? principles should matter more than quick gains. Because shortcuts might feel like winning in the moment, but there’s no real victory in them. Eventually they cost us something deeper.

Maybe the real change doesn’t start with pointing fingers. Maybe it starts when we’re brave enough to look at ourselves and ask the uncomfortable question

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So guys I really need your help in decision making and tell me what to do it's about my rship so I met this girl online she's ethiopian but in England we met on a game and we were friends at first just normal but after 4 months we started dating I really liked her she's soooo out of my leauge & all her friends were againist us saying am dissapointed in u I think it's bc am in ethiopa or am not rich idk but yeah and she got so mad at them told them to shut up and comforted me and reassured me she was kinda the one who initiated the relationship and she's soo nice that's why I loved her she cared bout my feelings and she wants to be loved too that's what I liked about her tiny details like she dosent like it when I say good morning or night to her with out ♥ emojies the point anyways is she cares this much and I was so happy and now it's my 4th month dating her and am in 🔥HELL🔥 helppp she has changed completely and am already too attached she is a nice person but a bad girlfriend maybe am crazy it's like am not her boyfriend but just a random guy in her dms I say good morning and she dosent even say hey good morning she just goes straight to conversation only says gn at night imagine this is the girl who hated if I don't add emojies in my textes she is soo dry always mostly leaving with just a liked messge I say have a good day and not even a you too she's just likes it and in short if u look at our dms it just looks like a guy begging a random girl to date him not a bf and a gf talking and most of what I hate is she gets mad easily out of no where for no reason and becomes rude sometimes she does something bad and I get mad and be like why? Guess what she gets mad at me for getting mad at her even tho it's her fault and gives me silent treatment and torture me even tho it's her fault this is crazy am getting tierd I even hate her sometimes I swear am starting to belive that she has no feeling for me anymore she treats me really badly (btw am a really nice guy maybe thats the problem) and so i asked her multiple times if she's bord and if she wants to break up she gets mad and says I would have if I wanted stop asking this questions and she gets jealous or mad when she sees I follow pretty girls and stuff so am so fuckimg confused I don't think she knows it but she's treating me really poorly why not break up with me?? I swear am 90% always feeling down in this rship not a single joy and we were supposed to meet this summer when she comes to ethiopa and I can keep sucking it up and be with her until she dumps me or I can just walk away but I want to keep being in this rship and how how can I fix this broken rship what do i doooo how do i fix her what happend
its her first rship btw if that's true

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It's me again i just like to yap and who to yap to better than vent here. Am I right?
Becha the boy that wanted to be FWB with me i stopped talking to him it's been 2 weeks i think,and now everywhere i go he's there cafe,class... He's just there and he doesn't even look away when i get in the room he stares into my soul and that I don't like besides I'm starting to think the girl i met in class has a crush on him or something she cannot stop talking about him,even i told her that he isn't the person i thought at first, it's like she doesn't care
+ They r both protestant and she's like I'll pray for him mnamn like gurl please 😒 becha idk what to say to her anymore i have decided not to Mendel in her business she can do whatever she wants
Tnx for reading 🤭🩷

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am not being a racist or choosy but i prefer to marry a gurage muslim women...unfortunately all i happen to come across are not. what did you guys suggest

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Hey there
So I hope y'all are fine.
What I want to write about today is , how it sometimes I am feeling lonely after reading a book without having to share it with someone. Like-minded, people. Yes, I tried joining book clubs, but not satisfying. So I guess it is going to be me and my book journal for a while.
Just wanted to vent.

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I have a question for the men out there who have dated older women. Recently, I was dating a guy who is younger than me, and we had amazing chemistry; we clicked immediately. We used to talk for hours every day, and he always made sure to call or text me, even when he was busy. One time during our conversation, he mentioned that I am so naive and that I'm not like other girls my age. I was happy to hear that, but at the same time, I got confused, assuming he had dated an older woman before.

He is smart, handsome, and charismatic, and sometimes I wonder why he wants to be with me. He knew about our age difference from the moment we met, and we were cool with it and continued seeing each other. After a while, I started to fall in love, and it became obvious to him. Then, he began to pull away. One time, I asked him what was going on and confronted him about whether he wanted to be with me or not. He said that this relationship wasn't right for either of us due to the age difference. He mentioned that he couldn't introduce me to his family and that even if he did, they wouldn't accept it.

I reminded him that he knew about the age difference from the beginning, but he said he thought it could work out. Ultimately, he concluded that it would be better for both of us to end the relationship. And said we can be just friends. So my question is: do you guys date older women for fun, or have there been times when you had real feelings? I'm confused because I thought what we had was real.

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Hello guys I’m female
I’ve been in a relationship for about a month now gn something has been bothering me. We don’t communicate that much, and He’s a very introverted person, so he doesn’t call every day maybe every two or three days and our texts can feel dry. I’m not really sure what to do about it. Gn demo endaltewew he treats me well bedemb spoils yaregegnal and he has a lot of good qualities. It’s just this lack of communication that’s confusing me and making me feel unsure sometimes what do u guys think eyekeledebgn nw wys mn larg I want genuine opinion
Thank you😊

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Hey endat nacu first time venting let me get to my point am M23 .... i used to go out mnmn befit ena ahun i am trying to cut the circle i have and trying to focus on my self. i get to gym beca am trying to focus on my self and ahun lay i got no one i cut all my jeles b/c i have to do i want to change kalwbet nger mewtat albge so ahun betam like i need yhone mawraw sew as a frd eflgalew kenberkubt nger bande sewta i got bord i think. ena if there is any one or any idea share that will be good for me tnx ..

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Hello

Have you ever want some one to talk about any thing in life . Nothing romantic just some one you can flirt with , talk and act Goofy with them . Some one that can listen to you about ur day and complain .let's not forget no judgment😊. Someone who can have coffee with you, go to cinema or hiking . Don't get me wrong am not a coffee or cinema person 😂 but want to have one. Someone who can motivate u and keep you accountable to your goals. Like someone who can grow with you .who i share my happiness or stupid days . I want some one i can talk to 24hr . Someone i can cry with. Nothing romantic or sexual just someone that can be their self around me and me feeling safe with them.


I don't know if it is because am getting old 🤔 .

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I Need help with my faith
I grew up orthodox Christian. I attended mass, did all the fasting and all that but It was never me it was just something I had to do because my mom said so not because I wanted to, which made me drift away from the church. Now I want to discover the faith on my own but I dont where to start, what to do or say. I have forgotten most of the liturgy stuff. I dont even remember basic worship hymns anymore. The bible seems so huge to unpack and all the liturgy books are all in geez which is also intimidating. I need to relearn everything from scratch. But Im literally in my 20s. I'm lowkey embarrassed to attend sunday school at my big age. I'm also scared of being judged by people for forgetting basic things. Its all in my head I know and you'll probably think its silly or stupid to say this but I'm really worried about this stuff. its something I struggle with everyday. I want know about the Lord but I feel like there is a huge mountain in front of me and I dont know how to climb it. Any suggestion is helpful.

Thx💞

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I was in a relationship with a guy for a year he used to tell me he loved me he will never love anyone like me and say I should think about getting married and I would say it's too early and I am in school still and we fought one day and I told him to move on find someone else but I apologized the same day and the next few days he was not the same he said I am done because you said to move on and when I pushed him to tell me the reason he told me he was introduced to another girl by his pleading mother he is with her now and he can't be with me anymore I begged him for a whole month and more he said there is no going back he made a promise to the girl's family and his own and I recently asked if he loves me and he said no and he is becoming meaner to me like disrespectful towards me he has blocked me everywhere now
I am heartbroken because I feel lied too I feel like he never loved me every thing was fake he was with me until something better came along and he found an excuse to leave and discarded me and the crazy thing is we never did the did but we were close to doing it and he is deacon too. He never loved me did he? I am in love with him and I thought he was too but guess not

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I wish my mother didn’t have to experience this much pain because of my dad. I wish my father would think about us and be a strong father. In our house, my mother is the one who acts like the father. I wish he cared about us and that we didn’t have to live in so much poverty. I wish my mother had chosen her peace and divorced him at least we wouldn’t be this poor. I wish I had something so I could help my mother. This is so fucked up. Life sucks and my father sucks.

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I want to get this off my chest:

When I think back to my time in university, I was 28 years old and madly in love with my girlfriend who was 23 years old at the time, studying to be a lawyer 4th year of uni. We were living outside Addis Ababa and spent most of our time together on campus studying, dreaming about the future and being there for each other during times when exam pressures caused stress. She supported me, loved me and had complete faith in my abilities. Both of us had a vision for a future together and wanted to create a life together.

On one particular evening, we had an argument that started off small but became exaggerated because of the fact I didn't want to admit to being wrong /pride. I said some terrible things that caused her to get upset with me. She lived about 2.5 hours away from the university and decided after our fight that she would go home for the weekend to get away from everything and give herself some time to think. I didn’t try and convince her otherwise, nor did I say sorry . I continued to hold onto my anger and let her leave.

That night while she was en route back to her family, the vehicle she was in was involved in a deadly car accident.

Ever since then, I have held on to a large number of regrets from that date. The only memory that I have of us is an instance when I used my words to hurt her and not to express love or kindness. Although people say time heals, from time-to-time I would like to go back in time and to reword what I previously said to her on that occasion.

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Hi there. I am a 20 year old, soon to be 21 male. Lately I noticed myself idk feeling weird and like looking for a relationship. And that made me see how much people are in relationships. And those people seem interesting. Like everyone seems so...maybe their job, maybe their lifestyle, charisma or whatnot. But when it turn the camera to myself, I got nothing interesting going in my life. When hanging out with friends or coffee break, everyone has something to talk about except me. Ena that made me think if I ever... eventually approach a woman to ask her out, what would make me seem or be interesting. I've never been in a relationship before. I saw a woman on social media and she is gorgeous, knows God's word well... in general she has a feminine energy that interested me like any othe woman I've seen before.



Now my question is, how can I be interesting while balancing it with my hustle to be great and change my life. God bless.

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You can skip this if you hate boring family drama. So my family situation is not normal, my parents are divorced but are living together for the sake of raising me until I graduate from uni, and I'm graduating this year so armageddon is near, my dad seems eager to finally be on his own and live the bachelor life without me and my mom getting in his way. I mean it is his right to find love but his problem is he is the type of man who looks for under privileged women to date and to "save" them, I've never seen him with a regular woman his age, he always looks for disowned young women to pray on ( he's a good person other than that) and the house we live in now is under his name so his casa but aint our casa so after my graduation he has the right to ask my mom to leave, and my mom is a woman who never had a childhood because she was married off at 14 since then her body suffered from pregnancy birth and miscarriages. She wasn't able to continue her education because of all of that, she makes a living by selling crafts she makes herself while fighting chronic illness and if we(me and my mom )have to leave it will be hard and All I want in this whole wide world is to provide for my mom so she doesn't have to worry about money or housing but the payment for my dumbass degree isn't really much. I wish genies were real, it's a lazy thing to say but I wish I could wish all these insecurities away and give my mom the house and life of her dreams to make up for the child she didnt get to be.

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I broke up with my ex about a year ago. After some time, I tried to date someone else. She was wonderful in every way, but the truth is, I couldn’t see myself with anyone but her. So I ended it before it could become something real. I guess I wasn’t healed. Maybe I still haven’t fully moved on.
Instead, I buried myself in work. I worked day and night, almost 24/7, with no breaks pushing my mind and body until there was nothing left to give. In many ways, it totally paid off. Now I’m doing well. I’m earning good money, and I have many of the things people my peers wish they had. But now that I finally have time and the means to enjoy it,I realize something strange. Instead of celebrating what I’ve built, I find myself missing her.
Sometimes I wish she were here, sharing these quiet moments with me sharing the life I worked so hard to create. It’s been over a year, and somehow the feeling still lingers. And yet, deep down, I know the truth some people remain a part of your heart, even when they can no longer be a part of your life. It's hard now than ever.

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Hey there i heard about a video that’s going viral on TikTok about men “can we got to know how you loved her?” And since i don’t use TikTok anymore here goes mine: . such a beautiful thing btw im here to talk about the comments on this vent where some guys where like oh if she knows u love her this much its done for mnamn type shit like where r yall getting this from is it from another man. like me personally ive never seen a relationship where the women dont love or gets tired of her partner who is truley in love loyal n open about it like if its a situation where the feelings where not mutual n one sided there is littrally nothing to do but in a relationship where the women feels loved n safe....like hello is this red pill guys?

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Hey am F protestant
College student, almost 23, and low-key looking for a bestie. Someone to go to church with, talk about school, work, and life, hang out, and laugh about random things. If you’re looking for a good friend(pretty bestie)too…dm me😛

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"We met too early because we were never meant to grow old together " sometimes life gives us a lesson need to learn early on in life to help propel us into the future

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Hey there i heard about a video that’s going viral on TikTok about men “can we got to know how you loved her?” And since i don’t use TikTok anymore here goes mine: Tbh idk if i even have words enough to explain her but she was a dream come true, she was the light in the dark, i knew that i loved her when i knew i was even scared of kissing her I didn’t want her to feel like i wanted her for other reasons cause i really wanted to love her and marry her the moment i saw her ig when uk uk… but yeah i wanted to be there for her as she was for me i was willing to lose my identity if she was at the end of the journey, my love for her was never limited it was truly from the bottom of my heart and never conditional i loved her through the fights through the disappointments and through everything in between she was my best friend, my lover, she was Gods blessing to me and i was hoping Egziabher fekdo she would’ve been my beloved wife and id get to make her happy for the rest of my life she made me feel complete, she made me become better in every way possible, i wanted to rush everything that i did in life so i could just skip to the part where we end up getting married and with kids… honestly i could keep going and write a whole book about her and that wouldn’t even be enough to describe a glimpse of her but yeah i loved her i loved her to the point where i even stopped praying for myself and would just pray all about her, and i still do tbh i still do love her very much its like shes a part of me not just someone that was a part of my life and idk if this type of love fades away or ever goes away ig i will keep reminiscing her for the rest of my life I love you so much my love please always be safe 💕

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Do you understand what death means? Yes, I am asking YOU, the one claiming someone should be punished for his wrongdoing by it. Can you tell us how it can cure your pain? Can you tell us how you can be sure it is a proportional act to the sin YOU are accusing?
DEATH is irreversible, and the intensity of your hate, pain, and struggle could be beyond measure, but that didn’t stop YOU from living. YOU choose to live bearing all those pains. Because, as sane as a person is, you know we are not in charge of the ENDING. It is something beyond us. Only insane people do that to others. Sane people like me and YOU, writing that into law c’mon!
That is insanity.

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Hey y'all I hope you're doing well
I'm 22F and Here's the thing. Im so so so SO SO awkward. Like actually nerfed at social skills. I cannot sustain a conversation even if it costed my left pinky toe. Y'all idk what happened. Baby me was so extroverted like where did that go TT I'm blaming covid and all the bs dubbed anime I binge watched. I'm in my fourth year of college now and I only have close to 5 people I'd call my friends and that's because they forcefully adopted me into their group. someone needs to help me understand the missing component of charisma and being interesting or idk. I feel like an alien that snuck onto earth when I watch "how to talk to people" or "kill shyness instantly" videos on yt. And how does one meet new people ?? I don't mind challenging myself I'll do it !!

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This is more than a vent; it’s a release. In this day and age, how can a man win when everything seems designed to keep him stuck in a bubble? It feels like no one dreams of coming together to build something beautiful anymore. I’m not even angry; I’m just wondering.
​Here’s a bit of my story: I graduated a year ago. During my third year of university, I started working for a company. Even though the pay was low, it was my escape from wasting time at game zones with my friends. We used to spend our energy and money on mindless games, and I took that job specifically to avoid falling into that trap.
​Fast forward to graduation: I suddenly came into a lot of money, which messed with my head. I burned through 100k in six months with a friend. He’s wealthy and could afford it, but my situation was different—I was wasting resources I didn't truly have. Currently, I still have a decent amount in the bank, but I lack a stable, consistent stream of income. For example, I made 150k on a single project last month, so while the money is there, the consistency isn't.
​In a desperate attempt to feel secure, I started teaching at a college for 15k. Now, two problems have surfaced. First, I no longer have the time to dedicate to my high-earning personal projects. Second, I’m struggling with the people I try to hire for my side businesses. Everyone seems to be looking for a shortcut to make exaggerated amounts of money. they say they’ll do the work, but then they disappear or make excuses. It’s frustrating to hear people complain about a lack of work while they avoid actual labor at any cost.
​Finally, there’s the usual struggle: where do you meet decent women? Approaching someone at a cafe or on the street can make you feel like a creep, so I avoid it entirely. If you have your life together—decent looks, financial stability, and a strong passion for your work—where are the smart, driven dreamers? I’m tired of meeting people without goals. I may not be traditionally religious, but I am God-fearing, and I’m looking for someone who shares that depth and ambition. Where is my type?

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It is a vent and not a TikTok back and forth, please keep your negative and baseless critics to yourself. P.s I won't ask your id so I would appreciate if you just comment( if you feel the need to) with no ask my id phrase.




Back to my point, so I am sitting in my dorm. Struggling with insomnia. Yes, it is a curse. I always fancied myself for being able to stay up late. I was wrong. It is bad , to the point I can't function properly anymore.



Next to that is, the heaviness inside of me. The hopeful me who got in trouble. I saw vents here saying about their future spouses or wanting a connection. Wanting depth. Have you found it? Is it even there? I tried to wait. Alright. I tried. It is not getting any better. I ask myself, am I escaping something so bad that I want to find solace in others? Is it really important? Why can't I focus on what matters? But what I know deep down is not what I want to live right now. I know the truth. I just can't handle it anymore.


I wished for a hug just once. Not the kind that is light, but the one who holds together. No questions asked. Where you don't have to be constantly in survival mode. Not searching for traces of lies, manipulations , inconsistencies. Just to be fully present. I have always been the safe space for people. I am not complaining on that, but these days, I am terrified, I would end up in one of those surface level things or better, alone. Because I don't see people being genuinely curious about the other. The lack of effort is so terrifying, unless I lower myself to that, I don't think I can fit in. Maybe that's why it is hitting me harder than ever. I am not blaming anyone for their preference. No. I am saying what I want isn't just there. The more I try to suppress it, the harder it gets to be confined.



The more I want to open up to people, the more I get the reason why I have kept it to myself in the first place and suffer.

" I never removed anyone from my life, but they all died in the accident of trust." F. D

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Addiction is getting scary, ive been on canabis for a year and its starting to look bad , college student and unemployed no flow of money yet addicted to substance. yeah its cool untill its not , its hard to tell where i wanna go from here
It's hard to articulate how its going but at least we got faith

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I broke up with my ex a year ago but I can’t stop thinking about him , I really wanna go back with him what’s ur advise

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hey i really wish u  read this
i miss u so much i know i  messed up i dont think i will ever get over you i love you so much to the end of my day be happy  hulem you deserve that.
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