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Heyy ya'll
So i got a qxn specifically for the boys,
Do u guys feel genuine love without doing lustful stuff while in relationship?
Like I jus got blocked cuz of this 😭 and it ain't my first time.
I really don't know what's wrong with me, I'm starting to believe that I'm the problem here , ik it's ur partner and all, but I don't have to let u crack jus to feel loved , idk bicha at this point I don't even know the diff bn love and lust. Like last time I was with my ex in a ride , keza I was admiring the nature by the window until I felt a hand down there and I didn't wanna do anything so I told him to stop but bro doesn't listen , bicha it was awkward ride ever, I blocked him as soon as I get home, gin eshi is this normal ? Was he trying to show love ? Ene personally whenever a guy ask for lustful thing while being relationship I feel like he's using me for my body.
I'm asking for genuine advice ya'll be nice 😭
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Living with religious family and working in religious based organization after deconstructing religion is not for the weak, i feel bad for myself because I can't live the way I want. I mourn for who I could have become if I had lived freely as my authentic self, without any judgment😭
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Hi ye 25 amet set ngn ena hiv postive mehonen kaweku 1 amet honognal be agatami nber yawekut keza medhanit jemeri silugn enbi bye wetahu ena ortodox ngn tsebel mnamn hedku betam etsely nber endiyadengn fetari 😭😭 ena semonun temlshe heje semeremr medhanit tolo mejmer endalbgn ngerew setugn ena gera nw yegbagn ena ke enega temesasay situation lay yalachu sewoch endet nw yhen gize yalefachehut እህታችሁን እርዱዋት😭
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So, i've always got some attention from girls since we were kids more than other kids.
Then i turned 18 and the attention started to increase. for some context i'm tall, wide shoulder, curly hair, deep voice. Sometimes even older woman in theif 30's stare at me. At some point i was thinking if its the revese and they're staring because i look bad, but i don't! I look average.
Thats what confuses me. I don't hear most man saying they receive attention to the level i do, some of them literally never have romantic life.
Now i'm in my 20's and its the same as before. I'm in a situationship with a lot of girls. I tried a dating app and the amount of girls i linked with was a lot to the point i just save their user and move on in case i need it for some other time.
Collecting cute girls contact has become my part time job. For a long time i used to tell myself that i'm broke and need to forget about girls and focus on myself but it just become harder and harder to the point i start to crave that feminine energy from girls.
I recently sent a screenshot of my telegram chat list to my friend and he was indirectly calling me a man whore😂. I don't blame him. The amount of girls i talked to is beyond my capacity.
I'm a broke guy and i almost always let the girls know that but it seems like they're fine with that. Maybe its because they see me making efforts.
This is not to flex, i just want to vent and receive opinions from you guys.
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26 f
I dont know from where people get those nice, cheerful and caring friends but for me its very hard. I have many friends but not true friendship its full of jelousy and rn i want to build real friendships anyone around my age and looking for a friend i am happy to connect
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Hey yall first time venting I'm here to vent about my dad I'm 23 female and I don't have a good rsp with him I will tell you one or two things first he's very disrespectful for the outsiders he seems very respectful guy but nah only I know what he is like he's rude for waiters,redats and even my mom the other thing is alcohol he don't know his limit so he becomes bechbacha drinker today he comes home 5 seat kemshtu tnbez blo sekrual guess what he's head was bleeding his cloth were dirty I can smell the alcohol from miles away they took his phone his cloth mnamn seeing your dad like that is the worst pain I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy I can't hate him fully because there's somedays he can be a good person too bcha today I promised to myself I will not take a sip of alcohol or use any kind of drugs!
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22 f
I dont know from where people get those nice, cheerful and caring friends but for me its very hard. I have many friends but not true friendship its full of jelousy and rn i want to build real friendships anyone around my age and looking for a friend i am happy to connect👍
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Being alone is not the act of rebellion, no the act of showing my solitude as enjoyable nor comfortable. But it is rather a reminder for myself that i have been rejected way too many times. That i was not the first priority, i was not the first choice.... nah, i was never in the choice option... and THAT in itself is a reminder that i am nothing except... that a blank canvas that people come around paint their memories and go. That is all that i am. I am not worth to ask them to stay, ask them to be with me, go with me, be in their picture, to let me paint on their canvas.
So i needed to be alone, to enjoy things alone, not as proclaiming my independence, or to be that different girl. The only reason was because the situations, the one event and the other led to this. Could i have changed the things i wanted to do , wait till the people, my people becomes available ??? Yes yes, i can always postpone things, wait for them .. yeah but that is just pathetic..even in my unworthiness i have a little value.
And you might suggest that there are a lot of people, other people out there. Yes!! I mean if we count there are 8billion people!!! Even we leave the world saturated down to all the people i KNOW there are hundreds ...but you know ... they are not mine. They don't know me inside and out, they don't have the good intentions for me, most are really selfish, other are just bored and wanted to pass time, others wanna brag, other wanna compete, ... i don't know them inside and out, i am too quite, have a bit controversial opinions, and yeah .... energy doesn't much most of time.
All in all my loneliness and solitudes didn't come intentionally, but a mer coincidences. And often it is a reminder. That with or without people i want to feel, to be.
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Hey, I'm a 22-year-old male uni student in Addis. Straight to the point: I'm about tired of dealing with women of this generation, and I'm trying a new thing I'm very curious about. ማሳጅ ቤት እስቲ ገብቶ ሚያቅ ካለ share a full experience.
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Hey am 25F I need to vent
Ke 1 wer befit guadegnaye aberuat yemisera lij asetewawekechign ena negeroch teru eyehedu neber but when we meet in person I'm not interested malete the way he wear, and he isn't financially good and also when he takes me date menem ayasedestegnem gen demo le tedar yemihon sew nw melkam sew nw, fetarin yeferal, serious neger nw miyasebew ena demo kene fkr yezotal tenesh wer at least 6 wer date aregen fkr kaleyazegn I will tell him eyalku nw gen gera gebtognal mehal bet gebechalew leketel weyes lakum eyalku nw
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24M here
My girlfriend has had a past with a guy for a short while and while they were together he used to finish in her mouth and she had no issues swallowing it. Currently I’m in a conflicted state where I’m pissed off at her about it but also a bit turned on
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To Abu 💜
Hi, endet neh Abu? Maryam betam nafkehegnal, betam. Guadegnayem, wendim eko ante neberk. Your lil sis Nay is missing you so badly 😭
I still wonder sometimes how we ended up like this. You were genuinely one of the best people I’ve ever met. I always wanted to check on you, but… I don’t know. Anyway, I really missed you, wendime Abu. I hope you’re doing well wherever you are. 💜
Your lil sis Nay the only one who calls me Nay. 🥹
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What concerns me is how I get idk the feeling but kind of irritated when ppl are nice to me. I'm 22F and the last time I had a best friend was when I was 15/16
We tried to maintain the friendship-well she tried I was busy messing up my life, she was my best friend and last time we talked was begging of this year and she got married. I texted her, she probably is tierd of me or smth idk
And not Idk how to make friends, am surrounded with teens in class and as I said before I get idk annoyed or irritated when ppl try to be nice and I despise everyone and everything and am failing my parents too. Ik it will pass but I also know it will get harder than it already is before it passes so...whatever ig
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I don’t know what I am doing wrong in life.
I am 27, F and if the person that I mention in this vent read this, I’m doing this for me.
I need to get this off my chest because the sheer level of disrespect is making my blood boil. How does someone look you dead in the eye, make a promise inside a church that no matter what they won’t leave, and then throw the entire relationship away with a late night text? Likeeeeee????
I gave this person my full trust and emotional energy. I stood by him through everything and genuinely thought we were building something real. But the second real life stress and financial pressure hit, instead of talking to me like an adult or working through it as a team, he chose to hide behind a phone screen in the middle of the night to end things rather than face me.
“I’m doing this because I love you”
“You deserve better than me”
I memorized the WHOLE texts he sent.
And the funniest thing is…..I AM NOT THE ONE WHO WANTED THIS RELATIONSHIP IN THE FIRST PLACE
I swear to God I am processing all the emotions all at once. Not step by step, ALL at once.
Maybe I came into this world not to experience love, but to give love?
Idk bcha, it is what it is.
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I'm really not a girly girl
I'm not tomboy kind of girl too
Idk am just me and I want to be loved. I like barry from obx...
Just kiddingggg pope all the way
Im 22F ort. Idk what type of person I am. Im keዥቃዣ n then im not
I want to try punching someone bc i never did. I hv dreams, and flaws
Im the type that needs ppl in her life
I tolo meselchet basic friendships
I just want to find my person ena idk how
Do I just wait? Im starting to believe that im going to be alone for a very long time, because many ppl that ik that are older than me are alone
Idkkk
And don't ask me to DM just tell me here
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አሁን አሁን ላይ ሁሉም ልታይ ልታይ፣ የኔም ሃሳብ ይሰማ ባይ ነው። እኔ ልክ፣እኔ ውብ...የማንለው ነገር አለ ወይ??
ይመስለኛል ድሮ ድሮ ተስእጦም ይኑረን፣ እውቀት፣ ወይንም ውበት፣ ፌዝም ይሁን እሮሮ ብቻ the outlet የሆነ ብዙ ስራን የሚጠይቅ ከማድረግ በፊት 10 ጊዜ እንድናስብ የሚያደርገን፣ነበር። it was life changing. It changes you for the best። እሱም ብቻ አልነበረም። the end goal of every creative work was ሰዎች የሆነ ስሜት እንዲሰማቸው። የማያውቁን እንዲያውቁ፣ እንዲመራመሩ፣ እንገጽጹ...ብቻ ሰዎችን ቀስቀስ የሚያደርግ ነበር።
ከዛ ምን የሚባል ነገር መጣ?social media በቃ ሁላችንም አለን አለን እዪን እዪን አልን። ከዛ ብለን ጸጋው ባይሰጠን፣ እውቀቱ ባይገለጥልን፣ ስንፍና በልባችን ቢነግስ ወርደን ወርደን በራሳች ለመዘባበት በቃን። እ አሱን ደሞ justify ስናደርግ ምን አልን ስግጥ ፍምስ አልን። ድሮ ድሮ ገና content ሚባለው ሲመጣ የቤት ገበናችን ሳይታይ ውስጠ ውስጣችን ሳይታወቅ ጎልቶ የሚወጣው ስራችን ነበር፣ ማስተላለፍ ምንፈልገው ነገር ። አሁን??
አሁን እማ ምኑ ቅጡ፦ ጥራዝ ነጠቅ ጭንቅላታችንን ይዘን በፖለቲካው፣ በሀይማኖቱ፣ በትምህርቱ የኔ ይልቅ እንላለን። ከመሐበረሰቡ ሳንቀላቀል፣ አብረን ሳንኖር ኧረ እንደው በአንድ ጣሪያ ስር አብረውን ከሚኖሩት ጋር እንኳ መግባባት አቅቶን፣ ባህል ለምኔ፣ ወግ ሸክሜ ብለን ያሳመረረን ካባ ወርውረን ጥለናል። ለምን ሲባል በሚያበራ መስኮት ያየናት የምዕራብ አለም "ትበልጣለች" ስለተባለ።
ለጠቅ ሲል ውቤቴ ሀብቴ፣ ሰውነቴ የኔ ብለን እሱን እንደ ሰንደቅ ከፍ አድርገን ለአለም እናውለበልባለን። መገላለጥ፣ ከልክ ያለፈ ማጌጥ፣ በበርሃ እንዳለ እባብ መልመጥመጥ፣ መንቀጥቀጥ፣ መውረግረግ፣ አንዱን ለብሶ ሌላውን መጣል። የኔ ይበልጣል፣ የኔ ይገዝፋል፣ የኔ ይልቃል መኩራራት፣ ሌላውን መናቅ ስራችን ከሆነ ውሎ አደረ
አለን ደሞ። ፍቅርን ክበን ክበን፣ ማፍቀርና ማምለክ የተምታቱብን።በፍቅር ቀልጠን፣ ለፍቅር እንደሻማ በርተን፣ በፍቅር ወይን ሰክረናል የምንል። ከመተቃቀፍ፣ እስከመተሻሸት፣ ከመሳሳም እስከ መርፌና ክር እስከመሆን ለሁሉ ምናሳይ። ስለምወዳት አደረኩላት፣ ተንከባከብኳት፣ የምድርን ሁሉ ሀብት ገዛሁላት ብለን የምመጻደቅ።
ተከተሉኝ፦ ደሞ እዚጋ በራሳችን ችሎታ እንደሆነ ሁሉ እያንዳንዱን ስኬታችንን በራሳችን ደምና ላብ የመጣ የምናስመስል።ቆዩኝማ መልፋትና ለፍተናል፣ጥረን፣ ተጠበን ለፍተናል ግን ውጤቱ የኛ ብቻ ነው ወይ?? ሀይልን የሰጠን ፈጣሪ ከወዴት ረሳነው? እሺ እሱን ተዉት አሁንማ እሱንም እስከመካድ ደርሰናል። ግን በዙሪያችን ያሉት በጣታቸውም ሆነ በክንዳቸው የረዱን፣ የታገሱን፣ ያጽናኑን። በክፉም ቢሆን እልህ ያዚያዙን፣ ሳይረዱን ብቻችንን መወጣት እንዳለብን ያስተማሩን። ለአንድ ውጤት ብዙ ብዙ causing effects እንዳሉ መቼ ነው የምንረዳው?? ብንረዳውማ ከሚገባው በላይ ባልጎረርን፣ እራሳችንን ሰማይ ባልሰበልን።
አሁን እማ ልክ ከማጣታችን ብዛት፣ ከስንፍና አዘቅጠት፣ ከትብኢት ማቅ፣ ግድየለሽ ከመሆን ብዛት በስድብና ዘለፋ መታወቅም ጀምረናል። ሰውን መዝለፍና ማንቋሸሽ የክብር መለያችን ሆኑዋል። መርገም እንደ ፏፏቴ አረፋውን እየደፈቀ ከአፋችን ይተናል። ሰውን መናቅ ማቅለል፣ ማሳነስ፣ ማሸማቀቅ ተክነንበታል። አቤት እንደው ስንችልበት፣ ስንበረታበት። ከዛ ደሞም አልፈን እራሳችንን ማዋረድ ማቅለል፣ ይሳቁልን ይሳቁብን መለየት እኪቸግረን we became the jester of the 21st century.
ይሄ ሁሉ እንግዲ ለመታወቅ፣ ከአንዱ ወደ አንዱ እንደማዕበል መገፋት፣ ሆይይይይ ምንወድ ሆነናል። በቃ ለመፈመስ ከጭቃ ወድቀን፣ በክተን ቆሽሸን፣ አድፈን በስብሰን እሱን እንደወርቅ ሸልመነው እንከባ ደርበነው እንዞራለን
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Oh, it is truly fascinating how the guys with a negative bank account balance and the emotional depth of a puddle suddenly think they are the supreme judges of a woman's "expiration date." Let's be real: who actually gave these absolute bottom of the barrel men the authority to decide when a woman is in her "prime"?
They love to sit online and screech about how women over 25 are "spoiled milk," acting as if they themselves aren't aging like a piece of raw chicken left on a hot sidewalk. It is hilarious watching a man who cannot even wash his own socks correctly try to calculate a woman's biological and social worth. They push this imaginary timeline because it is the only way their fragile, microscopic egos can cope with the fact that a mature, successful woman wouldn't look in their direction with a telescope.
A woman’s "prime" isn’t some arbitrary number invented by podcast bros who live in their mother's basements and survive on energy drinks. Her prime is whenever she is happy, thriving, and smart enough to avoid these walking red flags. It is genuinely embarrassing watching men who bring absolutely nothing to civilization, not money, not looks, not even basic manners, try to dictate the value of a human being. Keep projecting, boys, because your opinion carries the exact same weight as your contribution to society: ZERO.
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im medical student i have terrible studying skills nor studying habit. growing up i was the smart student always been in the top five but med school is the worst and for me I had it rough im literally the bottom student never been there my whole life its like im the lazy student in medicine the reason being my poor study habits no one would understand a medical student would not have good skills at studying when i was in high school i didnt need to study much i always studied for exams at the last minute i would read my excercise book till the exam arrives starting on the exam day it self, i was able to survive even do alright then because of my interpretation skills on the exam questions i can see exam questions from many perspectives i understand whats going through the teachers head when writing the questions thus i kept good grades soley on my skills on doing exam questions but now in medical school you have to read and memorise large volume of books and i never developed my studying skills can u guys tell me how i can do so, how can i study for long hours, how do i study for med school( those of you here in med school any tips from your experience
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I was watching the Lindsey case on TikTok, and honestly, what I’m seeing is so sad. Three children died, and people are talking about the husband as if he definitely did it. Come on she confessed that she did it, the court believes she did it, the husband said she did it, the police believe she did it, and even her own mother believes she was mentally ill when she did it.
The trial isn’t really about whether she is innocent or guilty. It’s about whether she was mentally ill when she killed her children or whether she was mentally competent at the time. Yet somehow, so many women on TikTok believe the husband did it. Every woman I’ve asked says it was the husband’s fault. Make it make sense. 😭
The husband wasn’t even home when it happened. When he came back, he found Lindsey trying to kill herself, and that’s when he discovered the children dead in the basement. Yet TikTok has somehow turned this into a conspiracy theory where the husband is supposedly responsible.
There are basically two arguments I keep seeing.
The first group says she is completely innocent and that the husband did it. They’ve created all kinds of conspiracy theories on TikTok. Some people are even bringing up zodiac signs, saying things like, “Leos don’t kill.” Like, what are we even doing anymore? 😭 King Von was a Leo.
The second group says she was mentally unwell and that the husband should have known better than to leave her alone, or that he somehow encouraged her because of her mental illness. But, mind you, she had been at one of the best mental health hospitals in the U.S., and they determined that she wasn’t a threat to her children. She also saw a psychiatrist the day before the killings and reportedly said she was okay. So how exactly was the husband supposed to know that she was going to suddenly become dangerous?
What really shocks me is how some people are treating her like a celebrity. They’re wearing pink outside the courthouse, supporting her despite the fact that she strangled and killed her three children. They even raised around $1 million from supporters.
Wallahi, our generation is so cooked. 😭😭
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I moved to Addis A for just three weeks, summer until enkutatash. Yesterday I was out for a walk everything was going well for me and on my way I saw some skaters shreddin skateboards in the bike lane near summit. Looked mad fun so I asked one kid to let me hop on. Told him I'm a beginner and never touched a board before. He agreed immediately I thought he was being nice to me but hell naw
We were on the sidewalk pedestrians everywhere fine shyts everywhere they're hot asf and shi then you already know what happened next.
I stepped on the skate, lost balance in 0.2 sec and hit the ground like a nuke. Omg I literally flipped mid air. I'm talking full spread eagle, soul left my body, ground had to file a police report onb😭😭
Everyone laughed. The kid grabbed his board and dipped tf out quickly while dying of laughter. The fine shyts been laughing their ass off. My aura instantly got multiplied by zero. I just couldn't get up from the ground thinking what everyone's face would be. I've never been this embarrassed in my entire life.
Fck you man, it literally is haunting me when I even think about it. Now i can't even live my life without getting embarrassed for a literal second😭🙏. Anyone in here got an old skateboard they don't use anymore and wanna bless a brother with it? Free would be ideal (don't judge 😂), gotta pull a boss move
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Hey everyone 27F
This is for the guys specifically the so called have it all guys, so men who are well educated,successful or has a very stable life , tall handsome and still in touch with God and comes from a decent family, always has it easy with women or even get approached by women more often …..all and all the privileged ones ….what is it that you look for in a woman when it comes to serious relationship or like what makes you want to commit to a single woman while you have this buffet of choices begging for your spark of attention really ? If you have experienced this or know someone let me know please cause I can’t tell if this shit is either a well invested love bombing or a real thing
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Hey, I need to vent. I’m a 28-year-old guy feeling really lonely. I’m not looking to start a relationship right now. I just got out of one. All I want is a friend to talk to.
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So 24f i want a peace beka seraye sewoch family issues betam dekmmm adergognal ena selam eyefeleku nw yalehut some people r really lucky habtam beteseb wst bemeweledachew i envy them in a good way beka andande kesra dekm belogn semeles i was thinking abt this one friend group they dont have to melfat or medkem yehone mifelgutn ngr lemagegnet for me betneshu enkuan kelel yale eske 4k birr mifej ngr befelg i have to wait 4 wey 5 months i hate how people romaticize my life just coz i got work hulu ngr yemolalegn yemeslachewal no am dying here ever since sera keteketerkubet ken jemro my social battery and my mental health eyemote nw i dont even have one friend to talk abt the thing am goin through ale aa beka metfat nw mefelgew lol tefches mn lebela mn lesera beye sasb masebe rasu yaskegnal this one time lerase koy geze lest beye ekub gebaw to have a damn 30k and hawasa heje beka tensh kehywete lemetfat then boom my fam needed some money so it went straight to there account alhamdulilah tho norogn selarekulachew but me beka i have never lived efelgew emegnew yeneberewn heywet and the time is clocking ughhh cheers for us who never had our life for us never had a genuine relationship or friendship🥂
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19F and I’m currently an AAU 2nd-year student. So the thing is, they assigned me to the Education department, which I really fear. I’m so confused because if I stop, I have nothing to do, and my family can’t afford to send me to a private university. But at the same time, I feel like I’m wasting my precious time.
The other bad thing is that my former campus was near my home, so I could tutor kids and not ask my parents for money for my expenses. But now that also won’t work because the campus they assigned me to is too far.
What should I do, guys? I feel so lost. Also, after I graduate, I have to teach for 5 years because that’s the rule.
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21f. (looking for 24+ only). Honestly, just trying to find the others, the creative, passionate people who want a genuine, long term friendship or a tight knit crew that goes way deeper than surface level internet static. Entirely over the superficial connections that start strong but completely fizzle after two days of dry texting. Looking for a consistent, low maintenance but high loyalty dynamic where we actually match each other's energy; Build a reliable presence with people who actually match energy; whether you love screen sharing video editing workflows, debating completely useless pop culture theories, trading custom music playlists, or streaming niche horror movies late at night, down for all of it. Heavily value reciprocity, an ride or die mindset, and a chaotic side of you that makes me question your sanity that slightly unhinged sense of humor above everything else. If you're tired of shallow interactions and want a true friend to hop on discord VCs with, play some games, share rare finds, or just casually vent to after an exhausting day, skip the polite formalities and drop me straight into the middle of your thoughts. send a message that feels like we're already halfway through a conversation, tell me about the rabbit hole you’re currently stuck down, the creative chaos you’re building, or a truth you hold that everyone else thinks is insane. let's just bypass the awkward interview phase entirely and start where it actually gets interesting.
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What concerns me is how I get idk the feeling but kind of irritated when ppl are nice to me. I'm 22F and the last time I had a best friend was when I was 15/16
We tried to maintain the friendship-well she tried I was busy messing up my life, she was my best friend and last time we talked was beginning of this year and she got married. I texted her, she probably is tired of me or smth idk
And now Idk how to make friends, am surrounded with teens in class and as I said before I get annoyed or irritated or smth when ppl try to be nice and I despise everyone and everything
It's not like I am this grumpy haterd person, if you knew me you would never think I feel this way, I'm energetic and all that but there's just a lot happening rn and am failing my parents too. Ik it will pass but I also know it will get harder than it already is before it passes...whatever ig
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I wanted to vent today how life gets harder and harder when you grow up and I want to tell you the situation I am right now I am a women and everybody expects me to get married but I want to work and help my family they have sacrificed a lot for me so I need to help them and I am an only child so everything is on me I have to help my parents at the same time date and get married and give my parents a grandchildren I just don’t know I have big dreams but now I am losing hope coz I don’t know how I can change my life and my parents life at the same time to get married I tried to work many things but things start to fall when ever I try to rise it is getting harder and harder now I don’t want to date, I don’t want to work, I don’t even want to meet with friends I don’t know what will make me happy, things that has made me happier earlier are not making me happy now, I just don’t know what to do any advice?
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I really, REALLY need to let this out. 😭
Back then, my face was so clear and bright. Then I entered this thing called “adult life” and suddenly life decided to kick my ass. am 24f Btw 😂
At first, it was just ONE pimple on my face. I thought, okay, normal, nothing serious. But somehow that one pimple brought its whole family because suddenly my cheek was COVERED in acne. 😭 And it started mostly on one side of my face.I tried everything I could think of. Different face soaps, home remedies, changing my bedsheets constantly, acne gels… EVERYTHING none of it works. After about six months, it finally started fading, and my clear skin started coming back. I was SO happy. I thought, “Finally, it’s over.” 🥹
Then three months later… BAM. Breakout again. This time, not just one side—BOTH sides of my face. 😭😭😭 And honestly, the acne itself is already exhausting, but what makes it so much worse is PEOPLE.
Every single time I meet someone, someone has something to say. “What happened to your face?” “Why is your face like that? Try this. Use this product.You should do this. You should use that ,Do you use makeup?”
BRO. 😭 I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT PRODUCT I'M SUPPOSED TO USE FOR MAKEUP. I barely know anything about makeup!
And the thing is, maybe some people think they're just being helpful, but when you already feel insecure about something, hearing the same comments from almost EVERY person you meet gets exhausting.
Like… I KNOW MY FACE HAS ACNE. 😭I HAVE A MIRROR. I SEE IT EVERY DAY. You don't need to remind me. And please, if you don't actually have a helpful solution, why ask someone about something they're obviously insecure about? Not everything needs to be commented on. Sometimes just SHUT THE FUCK UP. 😭
I used sunscreen properly. I even ask my friend doctor advise , and they recommended doxycycline for 28 days. I tried it,It doesn't work and I'm honestly tired of trying random things and waiting for my skin to maybe decide to cooperate.
The worst part is that this wasn't even an issue for me before. I used to feel confident about my face. Now I'm starting to lose that confidence because I feel like every person I meet is looking at my skin before they're looking at ME.
So yeah… I'm tired. I'm tired of people's opinions. I'm tired of unsolicited advice. I'm tired of people making comments about my face like I don't already know.
If anyone actually knows a good and affordable dermatologist in Addis Ababa, please recommend one. I apricate that
And to everyone who comments on people's appearance without thinking: please remember that you don't know what someone is already struggling with.
Sometimes the kindest thing you can do is just… say nothing. ❤️
Peace ✌🏼
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