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I moved to Addis A for just three weeks, summer until enkutatash. Yesterday I was out for a walk everything was going well for me and on my way I saw some skaters shreddin skateboards in the bike lane near summit. Looked mad fun so I asked one kid to let me hop on. Told him I'm a beginner and never touched a board before. He agreed immediately I thought he was being nice to me but hell naw
We were on the sidewalk pedestrians everywhere fine shyts everywhere they're hot asf and shi then you already know what happened next.
I stepped on the skate, lost balance in 0.2 sec and hit the ground like a nuke. Omg I literally flipped mid air. I'm talking full spread eagle, soul left my body, ground had to file a police report onb😭😭
Everyone laughed. The kid grabbed his board and dipped tf out quickly while dying of laughter. The fine shyts been laughing their ass off. My aura instantly got multiplied by zero. I just couldn't get up from the ground thinking what everyone's face would be. I've never been this embarrassed in my entire life.
Fck you man, it literally is haunting me when I even think about it. Now i can't even live my life without getting embarrassed for a literal second😭🙏. Anyone in here got an old skateboard they don't use anymore and wanna bless a brother with it? Free would be ideal (don't judge 😂), gotta pull a boss move
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Hey everyone 27F
This is for the guys specifically the so called have it all guys, so men who are well educated,successful or has a very stable life , tall handsome and still in touch with God and comes from a decent family, always has it easy with women or even get approached by women more often …..all and all the privileged ones ….what is it that you look for in a woman when it comes to serious relationship or like what makes you want to commit to a single woman while you have this buffet of choices begging for your spark of attention really ? If you have experienced this or know someone let me know please cause I can’t tell if this shit is either a well invested love bombing or a real thing
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Hey, I need to vent. I’m a 28-year-old guy feeling really lonely. I’m not looking to start a relationship right now. I just got out of one. All I want is a friend to talk to.
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Hi
So 24f i want a peace beka seraye sewoch family issues betam dekmmm adergognal ena selam eyefeleku nw yalehut some people r really lucky habtam beteseb wst bemeweledachew i envy them in a good way beka andande kesra dekm belogn semeles i was thinking abt this one friend group they dont have to melfat or medkem yehone mifelgutn ngr lemagegnet for me betneshu enkuan kelel yale eske 4k birr mifej ngr befelg i have to wait 4 wey 5 months i hate how people romaticize my life just coz i got work hulu ngr yemolalegn yemeslachewal no am dying here ever since sera keteketerkubet ken jemro my social battery and my mental health eyemote nw i dont even have one friend to talk abt the thing am goin through ale aa beka metfat nw mefelgew lol tefches mn lebela mn lesera beye sasb masebe rasu yaskegnal this one time lerase koy geze lest beye ekub gebaw to have a damn 30k and hawasa heje beka tensh kehywete lemetfat then boom my fam needed some money so it went straight to there account alhamdulilah tho norogn selarekulachew but me beka i have never lived efelgew emegnew yeneberewn heywet and the time is clocking ughhh cheers for us who never had our life for us never had a genuine relationship or friendship🥂
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19F and I’m currently an AAU 2nd-year student. So the thing is, they assigned me to the Education department, which I really fear. I’m so confused because if I stop, I have nothing to do, and my family can’t afford to send me to a private university. But at the same time, I feel like I’m wasting my precious time.
The other bad thing is that my former campus was near my home, so I could tutor kids and not ask my parents for money for my expenses. But now that also won’t work because the campus they assigned me to is too far.
What should I do, guys? I feel so lost. Also, after I graduate, I have to teach for 5 years because that’s the rule.
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21f. (looking for 24+ only). Honestly, just trying to find the others, the creative, passionate people who want a genuine, long term friendship or a tight knit crew that goes way deeper than surface level internet static. Entirely over the superficial connections that start strong but completely fizzle after two days of dry texting. Looking for a consistent, low maintenance but high loyalty dynamic where we actually match each other's energy; Build a reliable presence with people who actually match energy; whether you love screen sharing video editing workflows, debating completely useless pop culture theories, trading custom music playlists, or streaming niche horror movies late at night, down for all of it. Heavily value reciprocity, an ride or die mindset, and a chaotic side of you that makes me question your sanity that slightly unhinged sense of humor above everything else. If you're tired of shallow interactions and want a true friend to hop on discord VCs with, play some games, share rare finds, or just casually vent to after an exhausting day, skip the polite formalities and drop me straight into the middle of your thoughts. send a message that feels like we're already halfway through a conversation, tell me about the rabbit hole you’re currently stuck down, the creative chaos you’re building, or a truth you hold that everyone else thinks is insane. let's just bypass the awkward interview phase entirely and start where it actually gets interesting.
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What concerns me is how I get idk the feeling but kind of irritated when ppl are nice to me. I'm 22F and the last time I had a best friend was when I was 15/16
We tried to maintain the friendship-well she tried I was busy messing up my life, she was my best friend and last time we talked was beginning of this year and she got married. I texted her, she probably is tired of me or smth idk
And now Idk how to make friends, am surrounded with teens in class and as I said before I get annoyed or irritated or smth when ppl try to be nice and I despise everyone and everything
It's not like I am this grumpy haterd person, if you knew me you would never think I feel this way, I'm energetic and all that but there's just a lot happening rn and am failing my parents too. Ik it will pass but I also know it will get harder than it already is before it passes...whatever ig
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I wanted to vent today how life gets harder and harder when you grow up and I want to tell you the situation I am right now I am a women and everybody expects me to get married but I want to work and help my family they have sacrificed a lot for me so I need to help them and I am an only child so everything is on me I have to help my parents at the same time date and get married and give my parents a grandchildren I just don’t know I have big dreams but now I am losing hope coz I don’t know how I can change my life and my parents life at the same time to get married I tried to work many things but things start to fall when ever I try to rise it is getting harder and harder now I don’t want to date, I don’t want to work, I don’t even want to meet with friends I don’t know what will make me happy, things that has made me happier earlier are not making me happy now, I just don’t know what to do any advice?
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I really, REALLY need to let this out. 😭
Back then, my face was so clear and bright. Then I entered this thing called “adult life” and suddenly life decided to kick my ass. am 24f Btw 😂
At first, it was just ONE pimple on my face. I thought, okay, normal, nothing serious. But somehow that one pimple brought its whole family because suddenly my cheek was COVERED in acne. 😭 And it started mostly on one side of my face.I tried everything I could think of. Different face soaps, home remedies, changing my bedsheets constantly, acne gels… EVERYTHING none of it works. After about six months, it finally started fading, and my clear skin started coming back. I was SO happy. I thought, “Finally, it’s over.” 🥹
Then three months later… BAM. Breakout again. This time, not just one side—BOTH sides of my face. 😭😭😭 And honestly, the acne itself is already exhausting, but what makes it so much worse is PEOPLE.
Every single time I meet someone, someone has something to say. “What happened to your face?” “Why is your face like that? Try this. Use this product.You should do this. You should use that ,Do you use makeup?”
BRO. 😭 I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT PRODUCT I'M SUPPOSED TO USE FOR MAKEUP. I barely know anything about makeup!
And the thing is, maybe some people think they're just being helpful, but when you already feel insecure about something, hearing the same comments from almost EVERY person you meet gets exhausting.
Like… I KNOW MY FACE HAS ACNE. 😭I HAVE A MIRROR. I SEE IT EVERY DAY. You don't need to remind me. And please, if you don't actually have a helpful solution, why ask someone about something they're obviously insecure about? Not everything needs to be commented on. Sometimes just SHUT THE FUCK UP. 😭
I used sunscreen properly. I even ask my friend doctor advise , and they recommended doxycycline for 28 days. I tried it,It doesn't work and I'm honestly tired of trying random things and waiting for my skin to maybe decide to cooperate.
The worst part is that this wasn't even an issue for me before. I used to feel confident about my face. Now I'm starting to lose that confidence because I feel like every person I meet is looking at my skin before they're looking at ME.
So yeah… I'm tired. I'm tired of people's opinions. I'm tired of unsolicited advice. I'm tired of people making comments about my face like I don't already know.
If anyone actually knows a good and affordable dermatologist in Addis Ababa, please recommend one. I apricate that
And to everyone who comments on people's appearance without thinking: please remember that you don't know what someone is already struggling with.
Sometimes the kindest thing you can do is just… say nothing. ❤️
Peace ✌🏼
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hi guys 20f i really want your advice introvert nge ena i hate talking to people ,going out ,beka i don't want any social interaction .i have 2 friends ,when i am with them i am the whole different person.the problem is the field that i am studing needs connection,going to events,team work kinda thing .i want to do that but i can't ,think it as phobia. idk how to explain this introverts can undertand me better
how can someone want oppsite things at the same time.please help me idk how though
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Hey so last night i was jerking off and it was getting pretty tense and suddenly my dick cracked like i don't know if it broken or not but it was like when your cracking your fingers or your neck have u guys ever experienced this type of things btw it didn't hurt if ur wondering
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Hey yall ,so wede gudaye segeba I'm a 21 year old campus student girl and I'm having some issues on the dating life the thing is I talk to men when my time for coming back to addis is near so ke memtate 2 3 samnt befit and then go on dates and stop talking to them when they ask what are we it usually works wonders coz no one like being ghosted by someone they thought they liked them back to but now I'm kinda trapped so I've been talking to this guy on and off this year like talking once a month kinda staff so it's summer break I'm back and we've been seeing each other twice a week for 2 months and I can't lie I liked him a lot like a lot he is 6'1(height)I'm 5'3 he is dark skinned fitted with beards (the muscles on that man uhhhhh😩)so the physical attraction is there if you couldn't tell we be spending 78 hours together each meeting up he has his own company he lives alon he has a car like he is good overalls but the issues is he don't know how to kiss like I said we've been on multiple dates but like we only kiss goodbye like( muha)💋 fastly and that's it but yesterday we kissed and when I tell you it was horrible O M G he sucked both my lips and it was swollen after he vacuumed the shit out of me agecha alkere mn alekere demo lilekeg nw meselachu I'm not saying I'm an expert but that us definitely not how you kiss I was struggling to make him let go of my lips I felt like I was being eaten alive he was starved
so my quastion is
1.what do I do? like I do like him but he's acting like a starved puppy.
2.i still don't want the girlfriend title coz I don't like being claimed and it being long distance
3.how do I stop attracting men that say they don't want a relationship and then all of a sudden they want one with me.
4.how do I make him change how he kisses it actually turning me off and thinking he kissed other people like that just maks me ashamed coz he's hoeing around showing his disability😬 it's humiliating.
Before you come for me I don't want to be a girlfriend because it's going to be long distance and I don't want that.
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Hey yall first time venting I'm here to vent about my dad I'm 23 female and I don't have a good rsp with him I will tell you one or two things first he's very disrespectful for the outsiders he seems very respectful guy but nah only I know what he is like he's rude for waiters,redats and even my mom the other thing is alcohol he don't know his limit so he becomes bechbacha drinker today he comes home 5 seat kemshtu tnbez blo sekrual guess what he's head was bleeding his cloth were dirty I can smell the alcohol from miles away they took his phone his cloth mnamn seeing your dad like that is the worst pain I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy I can't hate him fully because there's somedays he can be a good person too bcha today I promised to myself I will not take a sip of alcohol or use any kind of drugs!
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I dont know from where people get those nice, cheerful and caring friends but for me its very hard. I have many friends but not true friendship its full of jelousy and rn i want to build real friendships anyone around my age and looking for a friend i am happy to connect👍
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Being alone is not the act of rebellion, no the act of showing my solitude as enjoyable nor comfortable. But it is rather a reminder for myself that i have been rejected way too many times. That i was not the first priority, i was not the first choice.... nah, i was never in the choice option... and THAT in itself is a reminder that i am nothing except... that a blank canvas that people come around paint their memories and go. That is all that i am. I am not worth to ask them to stay, ask them to be with me, go with me, be in their picture, to let me paint on their canvas.
So i needed to be alone, to enjoy things alone, not as proclaiming my independence, or to be that different girl. The only reason was because the situations, the one event and the other led to this. Could i have changed the things i wanted to do , wait till the people, my people becomes available ??? Yes yes, i can always postpone things, wait for them .. yeah but that is just pathetic..even in my unworthiness i have a little value.
And you might suggest that there are a lot of people, other people out there. Yes!! I mean if we count there are 8billion people!!! Even we leave the world saturated down to all the people i KNOW there are hundreds ...but you know ... they are not mine. They don't know me inside and out, they don't have the good intentions for me, most are really selfish, other are just bored and wanted to pass time, others wanna brag, other wanna compete, ... i don't know them inside and out, i am too quite, have a bit controversial opinions, and yeah .... energy doesn't much most of time.
All in all my loneliness and solitudes didn't come intentionally, but a mer coincidences. And often it is a reminder. That with or without people i want to feel, to be.
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Hey, I'm a 22-year-old male uni student in Addis. Straight to the point: I'm about tired of dealing with women of this generation, and I'm trying a new thing I'm very curious about. ማሳጅ ቤት እስቲ ገብቶ ሚያቅ ካለ share a full experience.
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Ke 1 wer befit guadegnaye aberuat yemisera lij asetewawekechign ena negeroch teru eyehedu neber but when we meet in person I'm not interested malete the way he wear, and he isn't financially good and also when he takes me date menem ayasedestegnem gen demo le tedar yemihon sew nw melkam sew nw, fetarin yeferal, serious neger nw miyasebew ena demo kene fkr yezotal tenesh wer at least 6 wer date aregen fkr kaleyazegn I will tell him eyalku nw gen gera gebtognal mehal bet gebechalew leketel weyes lakum eyalku nw
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My girlfriend has had a past with a guy for a short while and while they were together he used to finish in her mouth and she had no issues swallowing it. Currently I’m in a conflicted state where I’m pissed off at her about it but also a bit turned on
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To Abu 💜
Hi, endet neh Abu? Maryam betam nafkehegnal, betam. Guadegnayem, wendim eko ante neberk. Your lil sis Nay is missing you so badly 😭
I still wonder sometimes how we ended up like this. You were genuinely one of the best people I’ve ever met. I always wanted to check on you, but… I don’t know. Anyway, I really missed you, wendime Abu. I hope you’re doing well wherever you are. 💜
Your lil sis Nay the only one who calls me Nay. 🥹
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What concerns me is how I get idk the feeling but kind of irritated when ppl are nice to me. I'm 22F and the last time I had a best friend was when I was 15/16
We tried to maintain the friendship-well she tried I was busy messing up my life, she was my best friend and last time we talked was begging of this year and she got married. I texted her, she probably is tierd of me or smth idk
And not Idk how to make friends, am surrounded with teens in class and as I said before I get idk annoyed or irritated when ppl try to be nice and I despise everyone and everything and am failing my parents too. Ik it will pass but I also know it will get harder than it already is before it passes so...whatever ig
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I don’t know what I am doing wrong in life.
I am 27, F and if the person that I mention in this vent read this, I’m doing this for me.
I need to get this off my chest because the sheer level of disrespect is making my blood boil. How does someone look you dead in the eye, make a promise inside a church that no matter what they won’t leave, and then throw the entire relationship away with a late night text? Likeeeeee????
I gave this person my full trust and emotional energy. I stood by him through everything and genuinely thought we were building something real. But the second real life stress and financial pressure hit, instead of talking to me like an adult or working through it as a team, he chose to hide behind a phone screen in the middle of the night to end things rather than face me.
“I’m doing this because I love you”
“You deserve better than me”
I memorized the WHOLE texts he sent.
And the funniest thing is…..I AM NOT THE ONE WHO WANTED THIS RELATIONSHIP IN THE FIRST PLACE
I swear to God I am processing all the emotions all at once. Not step by step, ALL at once.
Maybe I came into this world not to experience love, but to give love?
Idk bcha, it is what it is.
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When I was a little kid, probably about 8 or sum.. they had us paint our feet and stamp it on to a big ahh paper. That was an interesting experience. Imagine you're a teacher and you are in bed the night before thinking about how you're gonna paint little kids feet the next day. Did it bring them shame? Joy? ... This thought has bothered me for 15+ years now.. I think about it often. Did the teachers like our feet? Did they prefer one over the other? Most probably.. did they like my feet? Who knows..
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My father drinks every night, becomes aggressive and paranoid when drunk, and recently tried to push my mother. He provides for the family when sober, but the situation is becoming unbearable. What would you do if you were in my position?
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Right to the point, I'm into rough intimacy. I love taking control and moving the flow so we can both enjoy the moment. It is really fun too i have had fwbs before and whether i talked to them for a week or a day it doesnt matter, during intimacy i can take control and make it the best time for the both of us. But here is my problem after a dozen more time of meeting up, if the girl isnt contributing in a way that makes it fun like for example coming up with some kink we can try, i get bored and i straight up tell them we should stop. And i feel bad about that because they never agree with it and i have to convince them, i feel like im being selfish and i really wanna change that part and enjoy the experience
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እስኪ ምክራችውን ለግሱኝ ገና 20 ዓመቴ ግን ሁሉም ነገር ምንም ነው ለእኔ። ምን እንደማስብ አላውቅም ግን ስለ ነገ ሳስብ ምንም ደስታ አይሰማኝም፣ ተስፋውም ቢሆን ከንቱ ነው ለእኔ።
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So if you read the vent I attached here before , y'all know I wanted to get into Medschool and a lot of you told me it's not worth it. But since I wanted to become a doctor, this time maybe I am opting for dental school because less patient burden, more money and still get to be a doctor. So anyone who have experience in dental school or someone who has similar path as I did and pivoted to dental school here , do you think it's worth it to spend another 5 years in dental school? Thanks for your time and for lame ahh people that commented I was dumb and should stfu pls don't comment.
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Hii guys I'm a girl
I hv a bf ena 2 amet kemnamn hononal be relationship I lv him betam gn bandand mknyatoch altesmamanm alteleyayenm gn anaweram mnamn ena bezih mehal enate yemtakat set alech ena yesua lj dv dersot america kehede koytoal ena mist yfelgal lenatu negroat tfelgletalech mnamn gn esu yefelegew virgin set new ena habtam new mnm neger madreg yemichel sew new gn esu yemifelgewn aynet mist ata ena enatu lenate endeljsh aynet mist new yemifelgew ena yawru aynet neger tlatalech keza lenem tnegregnalech lewedefitsh asbi embi endaty agbtosh wchi ywesdshal neger alechign ena mn endemaderg amakrugn boyfrienden metew alfelgm enatenm masazen alfelgm
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