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16 May 2025 14:17

Hey Unihorse 🦄
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Wsg!

So, I’ve got something on my mind that I just can’t keep to myself anymore, especially for all the fellas out there. As a proud lover girl, I dive headfirst into building connections with men. But in this wild Gen Z jungle, it seems like showing genuine love is treated like a rare Pokémon—everyone's seen it, but no one wants to catch it!

Let’s break it down:

keep in mind while reading this vent that : I’ve been on enough expensive dates to fund a small country. Having meals that I can barely pronounce, getting flowers, chocolates, necklace, you name it.
But here’s the kicker: after all that fine dining and deep conversations about our dreams and aspirations(ik how to hold conversations better than a PM), I’m left wondering if I should be more concerned about my heart or my bank account! Did we just have a lovely evening or am I just thinking?

1. Ghosting?!: You know, that classic move where you think you’ve connected with someone over dessert and suddenly they vanish?!?!?! It’s like I’m in a bad horror movie where the plot twist is that the guy was never really there in the first place. One minute we’re laughing over tiramisu, and the next, I’m left talking to a cat about how “he just wasn’t that into me.”
Spoiler alert: I hate cats but I ended up having that conversation w our neighbors cat who was not a great listener.😭

2. Honestyyyy: If you’re not ready for something real, can we just have a little honesty? I mean, I’d rather you tell me you’re not looking for anything serious than leave me wondering if I should send a search party or hire a private investigator. Let’s skip the drama and just be real!

Honestly, it’s a bit wild to see so many guys in our Habesha community treating love like it’s a game of dodgeball.
Newsflash: We’re not here to be dodged! We deserve some real reciprocity, people! At this rate, I might as well start charging admission for my emotional rollercoaster.

To all the fierce women out there, let’s keep our hearts open, even when the dating scene feels more like a circus. Because if I lose the lover girl in me to this madness, I might just end up becoming the ‘crazy cat lady’ who talks to her plants. And while I love my plants, they don’t exactly provide the best conversation!

Who knows? Maybe one day we’ll find ourselves in a generation that actually values honesty and vulnerability instead of playing hide and seek with emotions.
Don't get my ass, I'm 18🙂

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16 May 2025 14:17

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You're cruel because you're smart. You think your intelligence gives you the right to define what love is and isn’t—as if understanding everything makes you immune to feeling. I opened my heart to you, exposed the rawest parts of my soul, and you had the audacity to call it obsession. But it wasn’t obsession. It was love—unfiltered, imperfect, and real.

I confessed my love to you. I told you the truth—that I couldn’t promise you forever. Not because I didn’t love you, but because I didn’t want to hurt you with empty promises. So I let you go, thinking that was the kindest thing I could do.

But now I understand that forever doesn’t have to mean a lifetime. Sometimes, forever is just today. And in every version of today, you are the only one I want.

There’s a fire in my heart, and it’s your love that started it. You, with your calculated mind, believed it would burn out. Maybe you were right. Maybe it will. But I always knew that risk—and I still chose to love you anyway.

When I think of you, it’s not lust I feel. It’s longing. I miss your presence—the presence I never even had, yet felt so deeply. I fell in love with the way you made me feel seen, with your strange little smile, the one you always wore in the pictures you sent. I didn’t fall for a fantasy. I fell for you.

Love requires sacrifice. Everything meaningful does. When you truly love someone, you become willing to give up anything just to see them safe, happy, at peace.

You should have stayed. You should have helped me grow, guided me with the love you were always so good at giving. You were better than me—stronger, wiser—and you knew I couldn’t win the battle I was in. But still, you walked away. You made the smart choice. You chose yourself. And I don’t blame you for that.

I know I would’ve been a lot of work. Maybe my greatest cruelty was wanting you to stay anyway—hoping you wouldn’t give up on me, wishing you’d walk with me through storms I had no right to drag you into. I know now that it was my battle to fight. And still, I wanted you there.

Two years later, I come back to you—not desperate, not broken, but ready. Ready to sacrifice. Ready to risk. That’s how I know this is love. Not obsession.

You thought I was just lonely. Maybe even just horny. But if that were true, why you? Why someone miles away, unreachable, complicated? If it were just about desire, I would’ve found someone closer. But I didn’t. I wanted only you.

Believe it or not, I loved you. I still do. And I wouldn't have humiliated myself this way if it were anything less.

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16 May 2025 14:17

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Okay i think i need to vent but idk if this is called a vent but here it is i smoke cigarettes and pop up pills( not big pills though just tramadol) and sometimes qaht and weed but i stopped using qaht i don't like it and the thing is my parents think am this perfect son and all of our neighbours see me as this saint. It isn't like am addicted to the pills and smoking though. It's just i don't like hanging out with anyone i prefer to be at my home alone and when i do that it gets lonely sometimes and all i want is to smoke or pop pills because i don't wanna overthink and get over my head and they help me get over those and help me sleep. I tried to stop and i did stop popping pills( or maybe i couldn't find them where i live now) but cigarettes man if i stop for a week something will come up and like fuck it am smoke. Today i throw out my lighter and everything and decided never to smoke again but i have this fear i might smoke. You know what wakes me up at night, the thought of me dying and when my parents came them finding cigarettes in my room( just like why i don't like posting my pic on any social media app because after i passed awy  i don't wanna everybody to take my pic and post RIP, i just wanna be forgotten ofc unless they're my family, i don't want them to forget me) i don't wanna break my families heart specially my moms. I'm the type of guy who you'd wanna be with like the advices i give and the way i see things is different i try to understand where you're coming from and the bad part is I'll agree ( not just i agree i tell you even in more depth or in better way about the things you told me about am mirror you so much)with whatever you say unless i know you well. And i think that's why a person that talked me once or the dude i gave advices off come back again and wanna be my friend and tell me stuff. And my gf thinks am a normal religious guy, she doesn't know i smoke. She woud break up with me if she knew because she is super religious and her parents too like they're super protective and restrict. She asked me to make things official like to buy her ring and stuff and i freaked out like don't get me wrong i love her so much that it actually hurts but i wasn't expecting things to go this fast. I mean i was the one who suggested the putting on rings thing a while a go but shit pile up like i couldn't even survive for a month with the money i get paid and i have this plan like help my family first before i got married and stuff but everytime whe talked i ask her to be here with me to live with me because i misses her so much and when she finally say yeah let's put the rings on and stuff i freaked and all i said was okay tbh i don't have the money even for buying us a ring because I'm in this debt that i have to pay and i said yes I'll buy ring and when i came home we'll make things official. But man i know i can't even if i want too so bad. So what should i do?

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16 May 2025 14:17

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M, 25 here, I just want to let out my feelings since I don’t really have anyone to talk to even though I’m surrounded by people. I always wonder when I see people mention God’s name 10+ times in one paragraph. It makes me feel like I’m not one of the lucky ones. I’m Orthodox, my family is too. I go to church sometimes. I pray sometimes. But I’m not strong in my faith. I don’t fast. The last time yetetemekut erasu le kirstna new.

I’m trying so hard to change my life. But every time I get something, I lose it the very next day. This has happened to me more than I could count. And I’m not talking about small wins, I mean big, life changing achievements. People say lebego new, is it really?

All I’ve ever wanted was to turn my life around and help the people around me. I feel like time is running out on me before I did something I planned to do. But honestly… I’m starting to lose hope in everything :(

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16 May 2025 14:16

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Hey so I’m 24 years old so here is my story i have been in relationship with this guy ke 5 amet befit for one year mejmeriya lay he was betam good guy he understands me yadamtengal mnamn but things don’t go as we planned we break up keza after 6 months I can’t stop thinking about him so i called him he don’t pick up and called me back like we talked for hours he said like everything is his fault he was ashamed meto yikrta lemeyek baregew tifat Afro mnamn after talking for a week mnamn we got back together again for almost 8 months gn Ahunm things were yebelete toxic beka I shouldn’t go back to him at the first place biye beka I told him we don’t work out so we should break up so betam heartbroken honge nber almost 2 amet new yefejebeng to heal ahun lay I think i have healed gn I can’t start a relationship I tried to recently gn found my self at the same toxic relationship so I decided there is life without relationship so now I have started my own business and working gn hule yihe tiyake wuste lay yimetal don’t i deserve good things weys is it my problem or mndnew please amakrung

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16 May 2025 14:16

Hey Unihorse 🦄
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I’m 18 (female)
I really need some advice, guys. I’m confused right now.

So, there’s this guy I met on Telegram. He’s so sweet, mature, and caring like, there are no red flags. He told me his past relationship was toxic, and now he wants to treat me better and make me feel loved.

The thing is, I’ve never been in a relationship before, and honestly, I don’t want to be in one right now. But I feel guilty because he’s head over heels for me, and I’m not giving him the same energy. I don’t want to lose him, but at the same time, I don’t want to waste his time either.

I thought about giving it a try, even though I know deep down it probably won’t work out he’s 27, doesn’t have a job yet, and we’re from different religions. That makes things even harder.

I’ve told him before that we shouldn’t talk anymore, but after a month, he begged me to speak to him again, and I gave in. Now I don’t know what to do.
Should I give it a chance even if there’s no future, or should I stop texting him completely?
Please help me out

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16 May 2025 14:16

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hey I am 23 M, I feel older than my classmates and feel embrassed, actually am older like my voice , my face my acts little my physique malet gizuf hoghe sayhone like u know ke edme kar physicalm tilk yememsel neger all engi on weight scale I am approch to skinny , ena the thing Is I was grade 12 in 2014 but I took matric in 2015 that time 2014 batch hulum October 2015E.C ly nw yewosdw than >470 amtche alefku keza UV gebahu ena I have social anxiety disorder from grade 1 up now I don't have any friends I do things alone ena school life minanin alakim I hide my self from social issues, I don't want to be involved in it I feel like people judge everyday and everyplace , I got may infos form social media mostly telegram, ena my psychology not doing well beka like feeling of fear ,my heart beats races being nervous overthinking yemesaselut ena salfelgw nw nervous emhonw , dinzez nw milew yemawraw negr erasu weird yihonal . Ena like my psychology tiru alhonm .
Ena gibi survive madrge kebedgh beka lehulum neger addis honku, kesew gar endate megbabate endalebgh alawkm lounge meblat alawkm bicha megemeraya ly tinish egbaba ena and Idk how friendship goes beka kewera alalfm, ke ekuyoche gar common yehone neger yeleghm kesw gar erasu endate endemibela alawkm everthing that I do lik yalhonku nw mimeslegh , ena bezi bahrye with loneliness eske 2 year (2016) dires temarku with low grades ena beka engineering neber eyetemarku yenebrw malet I had very low grades that keeps being lower , having social anxiety, the field is engineering , having no connection beka yebase chinket honebgh I was unable to study properly beka chinket ena dibrit hone , then I finished the 2nd year keza AAU autonomous kehone behuala as a self-sponsored lemegbat wesenku eza memels alfelekum Self-sponsored students kedmew neber field mimertut ena I choose CS, IS, SWE respectively ena cut off point alametaum neber then Natural science fresh man gebahu then other health temedebkgh gin yaw my classmates are younger than me ena comfort aysemaghm beka like ignorance yisemaghal salwkw, I am afraid to approch I spent my day alone misa erasu eza salbela nw miwlw andande negeroch yetememubgh nw mimeslgh boring life sometimes my brain don't function well, I got no feeling for nothing min endemiasdestegh alawkm ke timhirt bet nw yene life beka ena, things aren't happening as expected ,salasbw yinegal yimeshal , I really want to change very much but how is the main question for me because I really tried my best not that much gin yaw yetewosene emokralew gin still the same nw I really need ur suggestion specially those who are In the same situation

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11 May 2025 05:26

Hey Unihorse 🦄
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Hey m 22 so i need your help on 2 things, here is the thing i have a gf ena bka keyet endemjemr alawkm gn bka she is btam mrt set in a generation full of lustful women she only strictly follows God and she literally showed me the me depth to love i never knew existed
●1st problem kzi befit relationship lay i was kind of avoidant but this one was so real and she was lovely and genuine i opened up to her ena i feel exposed i mean she opened up too gn eswa endezi aysematm cause maybe giltse sew slehonech yhonal bcha now i started becoming insecure, words i thought never in a million years i would say i started saying them ena bka berase mknyat sabotage ladergew nw this relationship
●2nd one kahun befit for 2 or 3 months i thought she was a manipulator,liar mnmn ena i was heart broken i didn't believe  anything she said ena ewdhalw stl rasu alamnatm nbr eswa gn bka and ken yigebawal bla zm alch kza gn one day bka what if she is telling the truth biye sasbew she was genuine all along ena eshi what the fuck do you call this kza i went to her i cried and apologized for things i said to her eswa gn chgr yelewm rasihn bcha slemtsema nw kzi buhala gn don't do that alchign ena bcha consult liyadergegn michl sew kale pls help me out psychologist kale or normal sewm bihon knowledge yalew amakrugn what i should do before i ruin this, thank you. Here's my at 👉 Change347

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11 May 2025 05:26

Hey Unihorse 🦄
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hey guys F 18 🙃
so the thing is there is this guy that i rly love and we broke up last summer and i begged him not to don't judge me gn even egru lay wedke ykrta teykewalew gn he don't wanna be in a relationship with me so we broke up after that he moved on so fast like he starts dating another girl mnamn stuff gn I can't move on ena i met a new guy he so sweet caring respectful but i don't want him pls guys mn tmekrugnalachu i wanna move on but i can't like all of my friends betam nw misedbugn sleu sawera mnamn nobody gets it idk maybe he was my first hulum neger lay (except sex we don't do that) lezam lihon ychlal pls guys i need some advice specially my girls plsss😭😭😭

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11 May 2025 05:26

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Okey here is the thing I'm 20 years old and keyehonee time jemeroo misemugn semetoch aluuu I have been watching porn Soo much not the regular stuff the crazy stuff new mayew yehonee bdsm shit adelem bekaa unique yehonee nw be amerowachuu matasebut ngr eyetederegee nww sew rekash nw milewen mindset feterebegn esuu lay demooo sew simot sikoret stuff chemerekubet (even my IG fyp is crazy betayut) mnamn I dunno why Im doing this maybe sew rekash mehonun seredaa be netsanet enedefeleku menekesakes yasechelegn yehonal I dunno gn lately psychopath ngr eyehoneku nw like I imagine hitting little kids and some other crazy shits like eyeteramedeku menegelay whether it's old women or teen or normal setoch I just imagine doing crazy stuff and I just laugh about it mnamn ngr enaaa
Ezi weset psychology metaweku orrr bechaa similar stuff misemachu sewoch enaweraaa
Thank you sooo much I hope addmins approves this 🙏🙏🙏

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11 May 2025 05:26

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Hey ya''ll i am 22 male i just wanted to tell you how panicking i am right now, i mean 2 weeks ago i had sex for the second time in my entire life and i am in the doubt that i have been infected with hiv, the thing is with the girl we had sex 3 times but the in third time the condom fell into her urine and stayed there for an hour or half an hour and i asked the girl to buy a new condom but she insisted that we use the 3rd condom as it was not used before and i rubbed it against the bed shit and we had sex, at the moment i felt nothing but a week later i felt milf fever and i was worried it might be hiv and i started looking into the symptoms and i had some of the symptoms like swollen lymph nodes on my groin and neck, then i was deeply worried and i took hiv test and it said negative but the thing is i am deeply worried that i might be infected is there anyone willing to give me some advice or anyone who has passed through this situation. I don't need hate and insult i know i fucked up, i sinned i don't want no body to tell me this again!

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11 May 2025 05:26

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F here Guys i just find out that my mom cheated on my dad like 4 years ago and the dude contacted her this year that's how i find out ena idk what to do with this information he is trying to to get back and shit idk man am freaking out my mom? bro like do i tell my dad? am disgusted i hate her omg i should have moved out when i turn 20 but nooo i stayed and witness this shit am kinda high rn but idk i fucking hate my life rn i wouldn't wish this on my enemy ughhhhhhh anyway what tf am i supposed to do ? I need help ASAP how tf do i erase this shit from my brain

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11 May 2025 05:26

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Hey yall, admis please post this, it’s lowkey urgent 😩. Okay so this is my second time venting, the first time was about a guy I saw on an event and us looking at each other the whole time he had girls around him. Anyway update, he texted me and we’re on a talking stage right now. But there’s this one guy at my local gym that I have been dyingggg to talk to, he’s reallyyy tall handsome betam. And it’s not only me, I can tell he’s also interested in me but it’s just my rbf that’s literally stoping him from talking to me. Ene demo le wend lij bezu fit mestet alwedem ena my gym buddies went to him and asked his number for me, and he was like “tell her to come and talk to me” but I didn’t 😭I was tooo prideful. I mean I had the balls to send my friends over there like isn’t that enough? Anyway this happened before meeting the guy I updated you on. Ena zare demo it was so intense between us like I couldn’t even finish my workout looking at his beautiful eyes and body. And I swear to God I tried to avoid making eye contact but it happens alottttt. And I also noticed him starting at my butt through the mirror multiple times o. different days 😭becha alakm I’m really confused idk how I feel about them both. I know I said we’re just on a talking stage with the other one but he already confessed his love. Becha I venteddddd and helpppp pleaseee I need yalls opinion. Thank yall and admis also!

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16 May 2025 14:17

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ሰላም ሰላም እንዴት አመሻቹ Guys btw am 19 grade 12 እና i wanna ask u Guys how i will be emotionally strong men not boy ሴቶች አደራቹን እንዳት commetu አይመለካታቹም እና በእድሜ ከኔ የምትበልጡ ወንዶች i need ur advice badly cuz በዚ ሰዓት ልፍስፍስና ደካማ ወንድ ነው የበዛው i ain't cuz i am trying to out እና ሁሉም ነገር ወንድ ላይ ያተኮረ ነው ሁሉም social media governmentu የትምህርት systemu ሁሉም ወንድን weak ለማድረግ ታቅደው የተሰሩ ናቸው አሁን ላይ ካሉ teenager እና ወጣቶች 98% am sure Guys fap የሚያደርግ የsocial media ሱሰኛ ፈሪ weak physically በሉት mentally ብቻ በጣም ከባድ ነው እና are we goona be dad, husband , በዚ አይነት ከባድ ነው ብቻ Guys i need ur advice በተለይ በተለይ እድሜያቹ ገፋ ያለና ይሄን ችግር face ያደረጋቹ በኔ ጥያቄ በኩል ብዙ ወንድን ታደጉ thank u y'all 🙌🙌

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16 May 2025 14:17

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early 20s M ,God, I'm so tired. Bone-deep, soul-weary tired. Tired of the dance, the pretense, the endless talking that leads nowhere. Tired of giving pieces of myself away, carefully, thoughtfully, only to watch them be tossed aside like yesterday's news.I know I'm not supposed to care so much. I know I'm supposed to be cool, detached, play the game. But that's not me. I can't. I choose to be present, to be engaged, to offer the best parts of myself. I can't help but care deeply when I connect with someone. It's just how I'm wired.And yet, time and time again, that caring is met with… what? Indifference? Neglect? A fleeting moment of appreciation, quickly followed by the slow fade, the ghosting, the realization that I was just another passing fancy? It's not about wanting someone to worship me or anything like that. It's about wanting… reciprocity. About feeling seen, heard, valued. About knowing that the effort I'm putting in is being met with something equally genuine. But it's not happening. And the constant disappointment is chipping away at something inside me. At my hope, at my optimism, at my willingness to open my heart again.
Man i am this close to shutting off everything like my patience is this close 🤏 to running out. To building walls so high and so thick that no one can ever reach me again. To becoming the very thing I despise – cold, cynical, and completely disconnected. At the end of the day fetari yehonew neger bcha endemihon i know but still people

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16 May 2025 14:17

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hey. just wanna get something off my chest. nothing dramatic—just being real

i come from a small family. it’s just me and my brother and honestly i’ve always been the quiet one. i try to listen, show respect, stay out of trouble. not perfect but i’ve never been the one to bring problems. just trying to do my part

And my brother, he’s the opposite. causes problems, gets into arguments, gets on my dad’s nerves all the time but they still treat him like the favorite like no matter what he does, he gets all the love. all the attention. and i’m just… there. like background noise, not noticed

he’s smart too. school stuff comes easy for him. not for me. and it feels like because of that everything i am just gets ignored.

what makes it harder is… i notice everything. i don’t speak on it, but i see it all. the way they move, the way they say things, the little comments. and sometimes,  they say stuff to me like i don’t have emotions like i’m not there. and even though i smile or act like it doesn’t matter—it cuts deep. like, how could my own mother say that? how could my father, my brother… say stuff that makes me feel like i’m nothing?

and it’s not just about me either. it makes me wonder—how does a parent say something like that to their own child? how can someone raise you, see you grow up, and still say something that tears you apart like that?

i’ve had some quiet, heavy days. nothing dramatic—but days where the weight gets real. i’ve thought a lot. about life, about worth, about how easy it is to feel invisible. and yeah, i’m a guy—but that doesn’t mean i don’t feel it. i just carry it in silence, like i’ve always had to.

and i don’t judge people anymore. i’ve been through enough to know everyone’s carrying something. i try to understand now. even when i don’t get the same understanding back.

so yeah. that’s where i’m at. if you read this, thank you

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16 May 2025 14:17

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Hello I'm 20F.
Well, I had this r/ship with this guy. We met on ig. Talking to him was always fun. We gossip a lott😂. Our sense of humor were almost the same. He told me abt his past r/ships, his wildest stories mnamn. I listened and never judged. He knows I'm a safe space. We met & clicked even more in person beka algebachum. Tbh I never saw him more than a bsf bcz Ik his past is the reddest flag to ever exist. Gn through time, I saw changes ena salasbew betam feeling develop eyareku metaw. The spark grows...

Yehone ken, he confessed. That I changed him mnamn. Keza shitty knbrew life weto rasun value madreg endjmre. Wstu selam endagegne and stuff. I nvr saw him endeza sihon and we kissed that day. Keza gn beka feraw bcz betam kebad risk nbr endi aynet sew ga r/n mjmr. Keza gn he promised to change then I took all the risk and dated him I was madly in love too. Tbh endalew betam tekeyrual. Endeza nonchalant ynbrw guy he became gentleman. He was loving, caring, understanding. So thoughtful and all.

But, there are some qualities I want my future husband to hv right? He doesn't hv those. Malet I rly do appreciate his change eko gn some stuff likeyer alchalem. He's so egoistic, my friends call him princess bcz betam yeset tsebay alew. I mean I tried to understand serious r/ship wst gebto slemayak ena the girls he dated dro pick me slnbru they boosted his ego & now the way he act lek ymeslewal. Bcha I tried to communicate many times. He says okay gn again the same shit happens.

The other issue is his low self esteem. He can't accept esun merche wedjew abrew endalew. He feels like I'll leave him one day when I get someone better. If that was my concern, drom date alaregewm nbr fr. Gn beka ya aytayewm ena ghost yaregegnal. Keza ene mnm balaregm I say ykrta & reassure argew enmelesen. Ahunm over dumb shit insecure yhon ena he treats me bad. Communicate madreg slemaychl when he's mad or upset he treats me like shit ena melso belmena chgrun negrogn I apologize then enketlalen. First bikebdm ykeyeral eyalku eyechalku bzu hedn. Demo through time bzu bzu ngr astekaklual I can't lie.

Keza balefew out of the blue zegagn engenagn slew no ale he treated me like shittt. Keza bcha after too many chaos ahunm besnt mekera agignche steykew he mentioned the day before yaweranewn talk ena ahunm you'll leave arif stagegni new beka his point. Malet guys beka I lost it. What we talked before was some random convo abt girls trust issue before and after sex and masbewn nbr ynegerkut. gn leka sikeneknew nbr ena berasu way interpret argot nbr. Beka dekemegn ykrta meteyekum masredatum malet this never changes beka. it's draining and my heart bzu gize tesebrual trying to change him and prove myself. I said I want to break up. I needed time to heal. All the energy I lost to change him, now I need it to myself. And also I told him to work on himself. Then I blocked him on everything and here I am.

Ik I broke him gn I had no choice. I love him sm I'm having hard time as well eko gn he'll nvr change beka. I wish rasun betam keyro in another life dgami abren mehon bnchl. Am I being delulu? In another life mibalew ngr tamnubetalachu? And did I made the wrong choice. Esu endemilew ykeyeral weys this is part of him that'll nvr change? And you think it's worth the pain to keep our love forever, or to give it another try or to just move on?

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16 May 2025 14:17

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I read yehone vent ezi mender "ጨዋ መሆን ምንም አይጠቅምም..." የሚል እውነት ለመናገር ጨዋ መሆን አይጎዳም

ቤተሰቦቼ ያሳደጉን ያን ያህል ተቆጣጥረውን ምናምን አይደለም the only thing አባቴ ስርዓት ይዘን እንድናድግ ያደረገው ድሮ ህፃናት ሆነን ከእንቅልፍ እንደነቃን ቁርስ ሳንበላ ብዙ ታሪክ ይነግረን ነበር የሚነግረን ታሪክ እውነተኛ መሆኑን ከመጀመሩ በፊት ያሳውቀናል ሁል ጊዜ ጠዋት ጠዋት የምንሰማው ታሪክ አሁን በእኛ ሕይወት ተፅዕኖ እንደፈጠረ መረዳት ችያለው::
በዚያ እድሜ ስለብዙ ነገር እንደታሪክ አድርጎ ይነግረን ነበር ሰው ከእግዚአብሔር ጋር ሊኖረው ስለሚገባው ህብረት, ስለፍቅር, ስለ ክፋት, ስለ ቅናት even አስፈላጊ ስላልሆነ relationship"ልጅህን በሚሄድበት መንገድ ምራው በሸመገለ ጊዜም ከእርሱ ፈቀቅ አይልም" የሚለውን ጥቅስ በእርግጥም ተግብሮታል::

እናም አባቴ ጠዋት ጠዋት እንደ ታሪክ የሚነግረን ይህ እውነት ዛሬ ጨዋ ሆነን እንድንኖር መሰረት ሆኖናል ስለዚህ ጨዋነት ለመደነቅ ወይንም ቤተሰቦቻችንን ለማስመስገን ሳይሆን ለራስ ነዉ rude መሆን እየፈለክ ስለእነሱ ብለህ እንደጨዋ act ካደረክ yeah ጨዋ መሆን ጥቅም አልባ ነዉ for u.

አሁን እኔ ራሴን እማውቅ ጨዋ ሴት ነኝ I do not let people be rude around me, not even my besties.

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16 May 2025 14:16

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I know I am not supposed to vent rather get up and start working. I am not trying to play the victim card here the position I am currently in is not anyone’s fault, it’s completely mine. The multiple visa rejections I got, going to university which is really far from home bcz I was too lazy to study thank god I passed rasu….getting the department I never heard abt before in university before…now I can see me failing because I am too lazy to get committed and get anything done. I hate my life I hate my self for putting my life this way… I tried to suicide last year but I didn’t had enough courage. I wonder how life would have been if I had done so much effort. And what make me angry is I still can’t get over laziness and keeps going in circle. Now things got worse and I get back to the addiction that I got over in hard way. I do watch this disgusting videos day and night.
I hate you. I hate myself. How the tf did I end up in this way? I was too Good in back days.

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16 May 2025 14:16

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Hey guys I'm 17 M and am high school student and akiste gar new minorew xewat tenesaw go to school then came back and kenun mulu bet new masalfew I do fucked thing at home ሴጋ I do today then kenege jemiro alaregim ilalew gin negem yaw neng watching pornography day to day please gimme your advice

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11 May 2025 05:26

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11 May 2025 05:26

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Yo I need to get this off my chest and I really want both girls and guys to weigh in on this.

There’s this girl I’ve been talking to for a while now. We talk almost every day sometimes for an hour, sometimes two. We roast each other, talk about dumb stuff, deep stuff, all of it. She got a 9 to 5 job, but still calls me even when she’s tired. Like... she makes time.

She hits me up with, “I’m bored, call me,” or “come, I wanna see you.” And I always respond 'cause I like the vibe but yo, she never makes it clear what she actually feels.

Then it gets weirder: she once texted me anonymously (like I didn’t know it was her) asking, “do you have a girlfriend?” I said, “nah, I don’t.”
Later I find out it was her and she hits me with, “oh that was a mistake, I meant to send that to someone else.” 😐 For real?

She also once told me, “you’re the perfect man, don’t change.” But then acts like we’re just cool friends the next day. No flirting that’s super obvious, but definitely not dry either.

Now I’m sitting here asking myself: is this just deep friendship vibes or is she lowkey into me? Like is this how girls act with just their guy friends?

I’m trying not to overthink it or make it awkward, but I’m stuck in this weird “what are we?” zone without even dating her.

So help me out ladies, would you do all that for just a friend? And fellas, what do you see here? Is she into me or am I just the go to when she’s bored?
Be real with me. Thank y’all

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11 May 2025 05:26

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Helloow 18 F here soo ive been feeling a bit overwhelmed. I recently got a scholarship to study Software Engineering in Seoul, South Korea. I haven’t left yet, but the thought of moving to a completely new country is really starting to sink in and to be honest, it’s scary since I don’t know any one who went to Korea. Apart from social media I have no idea how the culture there is.

I’m super grateful for the opportunity, but at the same time, I keep wondering… how do people actually cope with being far from home, in a new culture and language, away from everyone they know?

If there’s anyone reading this who’s currently studying in Korea, I’d love to hear how you adjusted and what helped you settle in. Even if you’re an international student in another country, I’d still really appreciate your advice. What got you through the hard days? What helped you build a life in a new place? Do you still have the lifestyle you had in Addis there or not?

Just needed to get this off my chest and hopefully connect with others who’ve been through something similar. Thanks for reading.

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11 May 2025 05:26

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Hi guys endet nachu am 22F Ena ye gebi temari negn.let me share you my friend’s story. the thing is eske yehone gize dres my friend straight neber metmeslegn even eskahun selezi topic ketenesa she acts like straight endehonech Ena Endezi ayent neger des endemaylat gn i found out girlfriend endalechat yehone Ken photo Enday setagn “my love gebash? good night Yene konjo “ yemil text anebebku.it was not normal 2 set guadegnamoch endemisasafut aynet . Keza Ken buhala miyaregut neger normal alneberem andande erasu abeba tesetatalech btw the other girl is tomboy betam. even she gave her bra bracelet.keza and Ken selkuan setagn toilet hedech kefche message’achewn sanebew “i miss you, i miss kissing you Miste “ mil text ayew kezan ken buhala lesbian endehonech aweku.ene endemak atakem esua ena she acts like Endezi aynet neger endemaymechat . Guys ene Tsebel wesejat mnamn endatelugn esu teftogn adelem. Gn endet arge laskumat please amakrugn thank you

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11 May 2025 05:26

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Hey y’all, I’m a 22-year-old Orthodox Christian and this scene from Young Sheldon really stuck with me:

> Sheldon: “Did you know that if gravity were slightly more powerful, the universe would collapse into a ball?”
Mary: “I did not.”
Sheldon: “Also, if gravity were slightly less powerful, the universe would fly apart, and there would be no stars or planets.”
Mary: “Where are you going with this, Sheldon?”
Sheldon: “It’s just that gravity is precisely as strong as it needs to be. And if the ratio of the electromagnetic force to the strong force wasn’t one percent, life wouldn’t exist. What are the odds that would happen all by itself?”
Mary: “Why are you trying to convince me to believe in God? You don’t believe in God.”
Sheldon: “I don’t, but the precision of the universe at least makes it logical to conclude there’s a creator.”



I believe in God, but I do think He plays favorites—because look around: some people seem way smarter, some are rich, others are poor, and most of us fall somewhere in between. Why does this inequality—even in talent, looks, opportunity—exist? It shakes my faith sometimes. I mean, damn, I’d love to be rich, super smart, and have a girlfriend. So why aren’t I one of those people? Why, huh?

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11 May 2025 05:26

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Here is the thing i’ve been in relationship with this guy since about for 8 months i really love him and imagine my future with him i mean i am so obsessed with him he also tells me he loves me buys me chocolate and flowers in every date but yesterday morning we were ok even sometimes his messages melt my heart i know he is not a player because i approached him first but when he came back from work he text me as usual and when i told him about how my day was i just started posting these videos in tiktok and replayed some comments like hey beautiful mnamn stuff comments but that was just for the engagement if you know how tiktok works and i think he was not happy about that and i don’t want to make him sad so i deleted them immediately then he said i don’t think our personalities fit together we should end it here i mean we fight and fix it whenever something happens between us but last night he just decide and told me that(didn’t even try to fix that) what do you think is this a valid reason to break up or he never loved me at all

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11 May 2025 05:26

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It’s crazy how I’m 24 in college surrounded by people every day and still feel like I don’t have a single real friend. I talk 2 people I sit with them I even laugh when they laugh but none of it feels real. It’s like I’m just there a background character in everyone else’s life. I’m always polite i try to be warm easy to talk to but it never turns into anything deeper. No one ever really chooses me. Amd it’s exhausting always being part of things but never in them.
I just want someone I can sit with and not feel like I’m faking it. Someone who gets me. Someone I don’t have to try so hard around. I’m tired of surface level conversations and temporary closeness. I want to be seen. Reallyyyy seen.
And on top of all that I’ve been carrying this hate for how I look for as long as I can remember. It’s not a phase. It’s not something I just started feeling. I’ve always hated my appearance. I can’t even put it into words sometimes. It’s like I’m trapped in a face, in a body, that doesn’t feel like mine..one I never asked for. I try to ignore it but it’s always there. In every mirror. Every photo. Every moment I’m reminded I’ll never feel at peace with how I look.
And recently I lost someone really important to me. They weren’t just part of my routine they were a piece of me. And now that they’re gone there’s this emptiness I don’t know how to explain. It’s quiet in a way that hurts. And it’s like everything else my loneliness my self hate..it just got heavier after that. Like tge one small comfort I had is gone too.
I just needed to let this out. Because carrying it alone all the time? It’s really starting to get to me.

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