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Can there be anything bigger than betrayal?
She is the most perfect thing happend to me
i love her so bad , the idea of losing her terrifies me .. i got a bad temper and i have to say she is baring with my issues but iam scared she cant tollerate me nomore
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I tried to be happy...all that was required was to see you happy. I thought I did everything right this time. I thought for the first time, after all my mistakes, I had taken the time, figured it out and was ready to give you my all. It was to be my last time of this; I had gone through headache, heartache and pain but I thought you were worth it.
Months later, after all the cards are out on the table, you decide that the time you thought was right, you said it felt right, you said it was right for months, now it wasn't.
No explanation, no warning...
So now, I'm told to just go back to how things were...how they were BEFORE we made the decision. How the Hell? Do that, and expect to see everything just be like that part of our life didn't happen? Yeah, I think I"m good.
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I get told that I'm too cocky, too arrogant but it only gets worse as I grow business and develop. The flip to this, is that I use sarcasm, smart ass comments and everything else to hide my feelings. Feelings that are just wanting to be happy and not have to think about 10000 things everyday from sun up to sun down.
Jacked it in the mindfulness room at work
Know that I’m not the first one to do it. was overstimulated and overwhelmed and it helped ground me a little. Went to the room for lunch and felt like I couldn’t leave. Had a dissociative episode. Checked for cameras before I did it, but god I pray that there were no cameras. If they audit me what the fuck would I say.
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Soo well In mid 20s age the choas is about managing your relationship and Your priorities like family siblings study life....
So basically I love someone but I don't know how deeply I love him...I want no fear in loving someone... but in real I have like If my parents do not accept him...if my feelings have an end for him...I want to spend my time without him to see do I really love him Orr in flow of feelings I felt special for him couple of month ago....what do you think ?
Nobody Noticed…
Ever since I moved away from my home town, my life got extremely quiet. So quiet, i fear if i disappear no one would notice for months.. I guess this is just the dark truth about adulting, no one truly cares unless it benefits them. Im 25F and just didn’t imagine my life going this way at all. It’s lonely and freeing all at the same time
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My royal fuck up
So I have DID (used to be called multiple personality disorder), and I had this friend. Things were going great between us — we got along really well and even liked each other. At some point, we started opening up and sharing secrets. When I told her about my condition, she didn’t judge me or push me away. She actually took the time to get to know the others, and everything seemed fine.
But then, one of them ended up telling her something real — a truth she didn’t know about. I didn’t expect it, and I don’t think she did either. Now she’s hurt, she’s been crying, and she blocked me. I’ve just been sitting with this feeling like I messed everything up. I feel like a complete screw-up today.
I got a thing for older dudes and it makes me feel weird.
I have had crushes on multiple older guys but would never actually get with one. The fact that I have romantic feelings towards them tho makes me feel weird as the people who I hang around with see it as something disgusting. None of them knows I'm like this and I just feel like the odd one out.
I could totally be a motivational speaker... as long as the motivation is to nap more and avoid all responsibility.
Miss my dead dog
I miss my dog.
Had her for fifteen years .
She died last year in September.
She had a seizure.i took her to the vet.
She seemed calmer.i went out to check on her in her room around 1am and she was dead.
Seeing her lifeless body broke me.i was going through a lot emotionally when she passed so I couldn't grieve properly.
Every time I think of her my chest hurts and I regret all the times I didn't take a few extra minutes to play with her
What can I do now? I ruined my life through 1xBet gambling addiction and now I'm drowning in 60+ lakhs debt with no income
Started gambling on 1xBet in June 2024. Won ₹1 lakh, then lost over ₹50+ lakhs including savings, credit cards, loans, and even my family’s FDs. Now I'm buried in EMIs (~₹1.5 lakh/month) with no income while doing MTech at NIT. Out of desperation, I even sent a fake death certificate to avoid recovery calls.
📅 Timeline of How My Life Went Downhill
June 2024: The Beginning
Started playing 1xBet casually.
Won ₹1 lakh early on.
Got addicted fast.
Shortly After: The Fall Begins
Lost ₹2 lakh in a single sitting.
I still had ₹4–5 lakh personal savings — lost all of it in one night.
Mid-2024: Debt Spiral
Used credit cards (₹10 lakh total limit) — maxed them all.
Took out loans worth ₹15 lakh from banks and NBFCs.
I avoided CIBIL reporting initially to keep borrowing.
Next 2 Months: Chasing Losses
Lost everything again trying to recover.
Out of panic and obsession, broke family FDs worth ₹30 lakh.
Continued gambling and lost that too.
Feb 2025: Reality Hits Hard
Family found out — but couldn’t help, the amount was too massive.
₹1.5 lakh/month EMIs started piling up.
No income, just doing MTech from NIT.
Harassment and recovery calls started.
Out of desperation, I sent a fake death certificate to stop the calls.
💔 Where I Stand Now
Over ₹50 lakh in debt (loans, credit, FDs lost).
No job, no income, just surviving while doing MTech.
Constant anxiety, shame, and hopelessness.
Lost family’s trust and security.
Legally and ethically in deep trouble due to that death certificate.
🙏 What I’ve Learned (The Hard Way)
Gambling is a trap — it never pays off.
Hiding things and taking on more loans only makes it worse.
Once you lose credibility (financial + personal), it’s very hard to rebuild.
You can't lie your way out of debt. It always catches up.
🔄 What I’m Trying to Do Now
Finish MTech and look for any kind of job.
Thinking of approaching a debt counselor or legal advisor.
Might have to declare insolvency or bankruptcy — still exploring.
Trying to stay alive and sane, one day at a time.
💬 If you're reading this…
If you're even thinking about gambling — just don’t. It’s not worth the pain.
If you're already in the trap — talk to someone. Don’t go deeper. Don’t take more loans. Don’t lie to your family.
Your future matters more than a short thrill.
Ah, the joys of saving the world while everyone else tries to keep up with my brilliance.
My boyfriend kisses me in his sleep every night
During the night I tend to move a lot trying to get comfy my boyfriend is a very deep sleeper so he never notices. Everytime I lay on his chest he gently kisses the top of my head and wraps his arms around me. Ive mentioned it to him but he never has any recollection of doing this but it always makes me feel so loved. Im so lucky to have him in my life
New Confession
Has it ever happened to you that people leave you at the mercy of God? Especially those who you love and who claim to love you?
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For the men out there, understand that you too have a voice. I understand some of you might have been brought up to respect a woman...NO MATTER WHAT, but that doesn't mean you have to sit around and be physically and mentally abused.
A good friend of mine, he came over this past weekend, we watched some football and he was kind of complaining about his back, said he "pulled something". A little later he gets up to use the restroom and I notice a stain of liquid on the back of the chair...he comes back out, and we look at his back and it's bleeding. He lifts his shirt up and has cuts, bruises and all kinds of just horrible marks, with very shitty done bandaging.
Go to find out his wife, who has loved dearly since they met in the 10th grade and they are now 50, has been getting so violent that she was slashing at him with knives, throwing things at him, hitting him with wire brushes and a plethora of other items. Dude had knots on the back of his head, defense bruises and marks on his arms and body, it was crazy. The most gentle man I've ever met just been standing there taking it because of love and their kids.
So Men, to be blunt, just because you are a man doesn't mean you are supposed to just take it and be fine. We all have our breaking point. Don't let years of anger and fear cumulate into a fireball of chaos all because you just "took it" far longer than you should have. Get out, get help and speak up!
Finally left a 6 year abusive relationship, and I want to go back
I know, it’s pathetic.
It’s like I found my voice and my strength to stand up and walk away and life just keeps throwing one thing after another with my health and its terrifying.
Haviing your own voice is fucking terrifying.
Everything feels so big and overwhelming and it’s not that I miss the violence, but i mean of course you miss someone after any breakup in someway. But right with all my health issues and trying to piece my life together- it all feels so huge-, everyone looks at me for answers about what the fuck is happening or going to happen. It just makes me really miss being small
barely a person
This is eating me from 4-5 years
When I used to be in my School I used to have a crush on girl who is the cutest in the whole school i used to have huge crush on her I was average looking guy but for some reason I used to doubt that she used to have some feelings about me she always comes infront of me when I used to passby she used to smile.i never got a chance to get close with her nor got a chance to speak with her this is my biggest regret in my whole life so now after 4-5 my feelings and regret were same as back then I am having a huge trouble cannot make past correct but,still i know her house atleast randomly could speak i tried to reach her by instagram she didn't even accept my request i was angry that she doesn't even know me i this feeling so bad when you love someone so much but they don't even know me it hurts but mostly.i am not that much insecure person but i still have a belief that she would have some feelings about me so I just want to do something i know her house but it make be inappropriate as she used to be junior (I guess she may not even remember my name or face) ,not in contact,she is other college i have mutuals but i doesn't want them get involved this is my biggest confusion
New Confession
I think I'm broken when it comes to romantic love. I don't feel scared of losing my partner who am in love with. It just feels like I'm a tourist in their lives who is only interested in the stories they have to tell. The scary part is I know deep down that is not how it should be. I hope to meet someone one day who can help change that.
I'm so good at dating, I should just start a support group for all my exes.
What have I been doing on telegram?
✔️ /channel/t_ink/170
I downloaded Tinder and only swipe left
I have no idea why I do this. But I downloaded tinder recently as I moved to a new area and wanted to start meeting people. I’m single so open to dating as well but I realized quickly that people just use tinder to hook up, which I was not looking for. So I kinda just started going on it every few days and only swipe left. Even if I think the girl is pretty or we share interests I just swipe left. Nothing happens. They don’t know I swiped left and I havnt ended up talking to anyone on the app. That’s it, that’s my story
Im such a fucken loser
Im tired of the silence in my room so i escape it by enjoying the silence from my backyard i spend hours their just to escape listening to that ceiling fan in my room im chopped as shit and fat and got like no friends
My coworker did something very attractive to me, and I can't stop thinking about it
I cannot figure out how to word this title better to explain what happened, but bear with me. I'll make it short, I hope.
We're both in our 20s, both women, I'm new-ish to the company and she's not. She's my work bestie, I'm probably not hers but maybe close to it. We get along well and always chat and laugh at work. No idea if she likes women too and I'm not romantically attracted to her, but today made me feel a way I hadn't felt before...
She was in a meeting, I was sitting a couple yards away doing something else. I heard my name get mentioned, and then out of nowhere she just *pulled* my wheelie chair right next to hers so I could wave to the camera. Like, just aggressively but playfully yanked me over while I was in the middle of doing something, and just pointed at the screen. I laughed, waved to the person, and went back to my desk.
Right after it happened, I could not focus anymore. That small interaction gave me butterflies and I felt so giddy. Sure, it was a friendly funny thing, but it felt so?? I don't know how to describe it ughh. Maybe I just yearn to be thrown around by someone, I don't know.
It's been hours since then and I can't stop thinking about it.
Not after advice, it was probably just a playful friendly thing given that we're both girls. I just really badly needed to put this into writing somewhere. It's been killing me not being able to express these feelings to someone.
🔞 my boss hits on me sexually and he has a wife…
i my boss hits on me ALL THE TIME at my work (chipotle) and it’s really upsetting. i talk about a guy i’m talking to and i get the impression that he’s jealous. he says things like “yk i could eat you right- i mean treat you right” and “you should get a tattoo that says daddy for me on your neck” and more things like “u should keep a bush down there i don’t like hairless cats” and he looks me up and down ALL THE TIME it’s really annoying and i want to quit but i love all my other coworkers and i do like my job and the customers minus the old ppl that give me a hard time but i don’t want to quit i make decent money but i hate getting sexualized all the time. im never alone with him and im super careful but its so annoying to have to deal with this EVERY SINGLE TIME I COME TO WORK and apparently he only hired me cus im pretty which kinda makes me feel like shit cus i’m a really hard working person i shouldn’t be judged based on my looks. what should i do? should i stay or should i go?
@Bluntly.. it's tragic. Sometimes we learn the hard way but I'm sure others who think making money is easy! No it isn't. The least it takes, is your hard work..
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I always strive to make a good first impression. That way, people are even more disappointed when they get to know me.
I secretly root against my best friend’s relationship.
I (25F) love my best friend. She’s amazing. But her boyfriend is… not it. He’s controlling, belittles her in front of people, constantly makes “jokes” at her expense. She says he’s “just like that,” but I can see she’s smaller when he’s around.
Every time they fight, every time she says “I think I’m done,” my heart leaps. I imagine us celebrating her finally being free of him. But she never leaves. She always forgives him.
I feel like a bad person for hoping her relationship fails. But I just want her to see what we all see.