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Being friends with God (2)
āIf you are pleased with me, teach me your ways so I may know you.ā Ex 33:13 NIV
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Here is more of Mosesā friendly talk with God: āIf you are pleased with me, teach me your ways so I may know you and continue to find favor with you.ā Moses is in a national crisis that could end Israelās relationship with God, and what is he praying for? Not, āGod, Iām in a tough spot. You have to resolve this for me!ā But, āteach me your ways so I may know you!ā Moses wants more than just to know Godās awesome works. His heart cries out to know Godās heart and what makes it tickāthe inner ways of God. āTo know Himā includes all the other things Moses could ever seek, including the solution to his problem. And God gave him what he asked. āHe made known his ways unto Mosesā (Ps 103:7). Here is more of that conversation: God responded, āMy Presence will go with you, and I will give you restā (v. 14 NIV). That āyouā in the Hebrew is singular. God promised to accompany Moses and give rest to him. Anybody else would have accepted gladly. Not Moses. His prayer was bigger than his own concerns. āIf your Presence does not go with us, do not send us up from hereā (v. 15 NIV). In other words, āLord, itās not for me Iām praying; itās for us!ā And God answered that prayer. Are your prayers bigger than yourself and your own needs? The Bible says, āFor God so loved the worldā (Jn 3:16). Do you pray for your town, nation, and the world? You have been called to and you should!
Being friends with God (1)
āI know you by name and you have found favor with me.ā Ex 33:12 NIV
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Moses talked with God like a friend, sharing what he felt and thought. And God wanted it that way. Here is how the conversation went: āMoses said to the Lord, āYou have been telling me, āLead these people,āā¦āYou have said, āI know you by name and you have found favor with me.āāā Moses is mirroring back to God what God had previously said to him. Remember saying to your spouse or your best friend, āYou were the one who saidā¦ā? Thatās what Moses is doing here: reminding God of His own words. And God wants you to remember His Word and to speak it back to Him (See Isa 43:26). Not because He needs to be reminded but because you do! And because His Word is the only Word that He is committed to fulfill (See Mt 24:35). When you pray using Godās Word, you are praying in His will, and youāre guaranteed to get a hearing. So, learn and memorize Scriptures that touch on your needs and desires, and when you talk to God, recall them, and pray them back to Him. For example, when you pray, āTherefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yoursā (Mk 11:24 NIV), God will acknowledge it! The more you learn of His Word, the more your prayer time will conform to His will and the more you will feel aligned with Him. Keep your Bible handy when you talk to God so that He can direct your thoughts to the words He wants you to pray.
Pick the right people
āThese wereā¦the mighty men whom David had.ā 1Ch 11:10 NKJV
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Success in any endeavor calls for surrounding yourself with the right people. Thatās why you should always seek Godās input in your relationships. Rehoboam should have listened to the advice of his father Solomonās wise and experienced inner circle. Instead he heeded the advice of those who agreed with his own opinionāand it proved fatal. David, on the other hand, chose people who helped make him great. āThese wereā¦the mighty men whom David had, who strengthened themselves with him in his kingdom, with all Israel, to make him king, according to the word of the Lord concerning Israelā (v. 10 NKJV). Notice four important things here: (1) David built a strong inner circle before he needed it. He started building his team long before he was crowned. (2) He attracted people with varied gifts. He reached for them, rewarded them, and wasnāt intimidated by those who had skills that differed from his. With the help of these āmighty men,ā David felt ready for anything. (3) He cultivated loyalty. He drew people close to him, shared his life with them, and in the end, they were willing to lay their lives on the line for him. (4) He delegated responsibility based on ability. Because he was secure in his own identity and calling, David wasnāt afraid to delegate authority and responsibility to those around him. In the beginning some of his mighty men were misfits, but he transformed this ragtag group into a winning team (See 1Sa 22:1-2). David made his inner circle great, and in turn his inner circle made him great. So, the word for you today isāpick the right people!
Donāt burn out (2)
āI give thanks to Him Who has granted meā¦strength and made me able [for]ā¦the ministry.ā 1Ti 1:12 AMPC
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Another form of burnout is ācompassion fatigue,ā and people helpers are the most vulnerable. Symptoms include the belief that youāre no longer effective, treating yourself and others with detachment, withdrawing from your responsibilities, avoiding social and interpersonal contact, and feeling ābeaten.ā If youāre a type-A personality to start with, youāre at even greater risk. One counselor says driven people often āsuffer from an āadrenaline addictionā and unconsciously look for ways to get little surges, similar to the high people get from alcohol, caffeine, and nicotine, except they get their highs from controlling people and making complex decisionsā¦Spiritual causes of stress include sexual temptation, anger, and despair, jealousy of other peopleās success, and anxiety about finances. Pastors are often placed on pedestalsā¦and these expectations canāt be met. So in an effort to please, they become too goal-oriented for their peopleā¦or too accommodating of their spiritual slacknessā¦they become perfectionistsā¦overdeveloping one side of their ministry or identifying so closely with their calling that it falls apart. Your body gives you warning signals; insomnia, digestive problems, headaches, fatigue, muscle tension, teeth grinding, and high blood pressure. Sadly, it seldom slows the victim downāuntil an ulcer, stroke, or heart attack occur. As a leader, you need to spend as much time with the strong as the weak; they give you strength and supportā¦they can be trained for ministryā¦and having more hands on deck enhances the spiritual and emotional health of your church.ā
Keep your hope alive (2)
āHope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit.ā Ro 5:5 NKJV
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Jon Walker says: āIāve struggled with my weight most of my life. Iāve dropped weight and put it back on. Iāve tried every diet, and made up some of my own. I maintained a friendly battle with weight until I became extremely ill, and for a year I was unable to walk beyond the mailbox. Needless to say, I gained more weight than ever and found myself facing a huge challenge. I needed to lose more pounds than there are days in a month. With age nipping at my heelsā¦it wasnāt as easy to drop the pounds as it used to be, and I found myself feeling hopelessāthe kind of hopelessness that makes you think, āWhatās the use? I might as well not even try.ā No doubt you can relate, not necessarily to the weight issue, but to the hopelessness. Maybe youāre in a stressful marriageā¦or facing health issues that have you thinking āWhatās the use?ā Or in a frustrating jobā¦or facing a difficult family situationā¦or wondering if youāll ever get good enough grades to graduateā¦or dealing with the death of the most important person in your lifeā¦or struggling through so many failed attempts to have a child. Hereās the truth: We serve a God of hope, and itās a hope that wonāt ādisappoint [us].ā Itās not based on feelings; itās rooted in a relationship with the One who can be trusted above all others. We wait together for this unseen hope, knowing the God of hope will not abandon or ādisappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit.āā
Fulfilling Godās plan for your life
āMake sure you understand what the Master wants.ā Eph 5:17 MSG
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To fulfill Godās plan for your life, you need to do these: (1) Map out your day. Plan your time and stick to your plan. Only one out of three people do that. One leadership expert says, āItāsā¦rareā¦that I get up in the morning wondering what Iāll be doing that day.ā Thatās why he is a leaderāand an expert! (2) Keep first things first. Goethe said, āThings which matter most must never be at the mercy of things which matter least.ā Most of us donāt get to our most important tasks until midafternoon. We complete low-priority tasks first so we will have a sense of accomplishment. Thatās unwise. And if you plan your day but donāt follow through, your results will be the same as those who donāt plan at all. As Dwight Eisenhower observed, āTaking first things firstā¦often reduces the most complex human problem to a manageable proportion.ā (3) Be focused but flexible. Expect the unexpected and learn to adapt. Conditions constantly change, and so must your methods of getting things done. (4) Learn to delegate. People fall into two categories: clingers and dumpers. Clingers refuse to let go of anything they think is important, whether or not theyāre the best person for the job. Their goal is perfection. Dumpers, on the other hand, are quick to off-load tasks without giving much thought to how well the job gets done. Their goal is to get it off their desk ASAP. Proper delegation calls for being wise, secure in who you are, and generous toward others. It also means the job gets done rightāand in the end, that is what you want.
The power of a shared faith
āCan two walk together, unless they are agreed?ā Am 3:3 NKJV
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If you want to know how the person youāre marrying will look twenty-five years from now, look at their parents and you will get a clue. Regular exercise and good diet will only take you so far, then Mother Nature and Father Time begin to take their toll. The truth is that looks may bring you together, but only commitment and a shared faith will keep you together! The Bible says, āDonāt team up with those who are unbelievers. How can righteousness be a partner with wickedness? How can light live with darkness? What harmony can there be between Christ and the devil? How can a believer be a partner with an unbeliever?ā (2Co 6:14-15 NLT). That doesnāt mean the two of you must hold identical views on every issue and practice your faith in similar ways. But you need the same values and views regarding the fundamentals of your faithāhow you view God, the role of the church, and personal practices. āCan two walk together, unless they are agreed?ā Faith is that indescribable strength, that secret weapon of the soul that allows us to persevere even when the facts seem damning and the truth unbearable. Itās what keeps us going when weāre not sure we can continue. Itās the light that leads us out of the darkness, and the map that guides our way. Without faith we would probably pull over to the side of the road, give up, and watch everyone else pass us by. But when we trust in the Lord and believe that He will guide us, there is almost nothing we cannot withstand and walk through together.
God can cancel your past (3)
āIt is finished!ā Jn 19:30 NIV
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One of Christās last declarations from the cross was, āIt is finished.ā That phrase comprises just one word in Greek, tetelestai, meaning āpaid in full.ā It was the word merchants wrote on a bill when it was canceled. It was also the word stamped on a document announcing that a prison sentence had been commuted. Jesus paid the price in full for every sin you have ever committed! āThere is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesusā (Ro 8:1 NIV). The question is, if God forgets your sin the second you confess it, donāt you think you should forget it too? How long do you think about an invoice you have paid? You forget it the minute you have paid it. Similarly, since Christ has paid your bill in full, you donāt need to remember it anymore. Paul, who once described himself as āchief among sinnersā (See 1Ti 1:15), wrote, āForgetting what is behindā¦I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenwardā (Php 3:13-14 NIV). We can short-circuit Godās power in our lives by not trusting that He has truly forgiven us or by deciding not to forgive ourselves. Why do we do that? Sometimes because of how we were raised. Our parents told us, āI forgive you,ā but they constantly brought it up. Good news: Your heavenly Father is different from your earthly parents. When He forgives your sin, He expunges your record, cancels your past, canāt remember it, doesnāt talk about it, and will never bring it up again. So, today accept His forgiveness. And if you need to, forgive yourself and move on.
God can cancel your past (1)
āHe canceled the record of the charges against us.ā Col 2:14 NLT
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Jesus ācanceled the record of the charges against usā¦by nailing it to the cross.ā The word ācancelā means to remove, to neutralize, to offset something. Have you ever gotten most of the way through a project and wished you could start over? Suppose you were painting the den, and you stepped back and looked at the color on the sample chart. On the wall, however, it doesnāt look the same. You wish you could redo it. Many of us feel that way about life, as one author describes it: āāIāve made so many mistakes. I wish I could just wipe them out and start over.ā Failures, problems, bad decisionsāwe have all suffered from them. But some people canāt let go of the past, and as a result, they let their past limit their present opportunities. They live in a constant state of regret, continually lamenting, āIf only I hadnāt done thatā or āIf only I had made these changes.ā They repeatedly second-guess themselves. And they are tormented by painful memories. āI blew it, and Iām going to be paying for it for the rest of my life.āā You may choose to carry guilt, but you donāt have to! The moment you put your trust in Christ, He ācancels the recordā of your past. Actually, you no longer have a past, you only have a future! You can lay down, once and for all, your heavy load of guilt, old hurts, and memories of mistakes. Jesus, ātook it away by nailing it to the cross.ā God has promised to āblot out your sinsā¦and will never think of them againā (Isa 43:25 NLT). You must too!
Stand in faith
āAll things are possible to him who believes.ā Mk 9:23 NKJV
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One day a distraught father came to Jesus and said, āMy sonā¦frequentlyā¦falls into the fire andā¦the waterā¦I brought him to Your disciples, and they were not able to cure himā (Mt 17:15-16 AMPC). Notice, he never once said, āMaybe my son inherited this problem from meā or āPerhaps if I had raised him differently.ā No, he dumped the responsibility onto the disciples, who were themselves in training. Whenever weāre in trouble, we like to blame the pastor, the church, our mate, our boss, our family, our looks, our social status, or find some other excuse. Weāre unable or unwilling to admit that we stuck our own hand in the fire or almost drowned by jumping in headfirst when we couldnāt swim. After Jesus healed the boy, His disciples asked Him, āWhy canāt we do the things you do?ā (See Mt 17:19). Thatās like asking, āWhy isnāt my marriage working?ā or āHow come Iām still in debt?ā or āWhy isnāt my life going as planned?ā Jesus replied, āBecause your faith is too smallā (Mt 17:20 NCV). Sometimes you need the kind of faith that makes you seem a little weird; the kind that doesnāt need other peopleās approval and doesnāt care whether or not you fit in. Thatās the kind of faith that made Noah say, āEven though there has never been rain and nobody in my generation believes, Iām still going to do what God said.ā As a result, he came out on top! Paul writes, āHaving done allā¦standā (Eph 6:13 NKJV). Stand on what? Stand on what God has told you in His Word, because ultimately, itās the thing that will work.
Your loved one is with the Lord
āTo be absent from the body and to be present with the Lord.ā 2Co 5:8 NKJV
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Try as we might to avoid it, and as reluctant as we are to discuss it, each of us must release the hand of the one we love into the hand of the One who loves us most. But what happens when you die? What happens to you between your death and Christās return? Paul answers, āWe donāt want you, my brothers, to be in any doubt about those who āfall asleepā in death, or to grieve over them like menā¦who have no hopeā (1Th 4:13 PHPS). Scripture is surprisingly quiet about what happens to us in the period between our death and the resurrection of our body. (It doesnāt give us enough information to satisfy our curiosity, just enough to whet our appetite). Paul writes: āFor to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain. If I am to go on living in the body, this will mean fruitful labor for me. Yet what shall I choose? I do not know! I am torn between the two: I desire to depart and be with Christ, which is better by farā (Php 1:21-23 NIV). Bible scholar Anthony Hoekema says, āWhat Paul is saying here is that the moment he departs or dies, that very same moment he will be with Christ.ā Ultimately, heaven is the greatest healing of all! Your loved ones had pain here but have no pain there. They struggled here but have no struggles there. You may wonder why God took them home, but they donāt. Now they understand. They are, at this very moment, at peace in Godās presence.
āI am disciplined and self-controlledā
āThe Spirit gives us power, love, and self-control.ā 2Ti 1:7 CEV
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In order to be happy in life, you must start doing the right things and stop doing the wrong things. And one of the first things you must do is stop saying, āI just donāt have any self-control.ā Self-control is a choice, and the more you choose it, the stronger it becomes. And here is the best part: The power of self-control comes from God, not you. āThe Spirit gives us power, love, and self-control.ā It happens automatically as you spend time with God in prayer and His Word. āListen carefully to my words. Donāt lose sight of them. Let them penetrate deep into your heart, for they bring life to those who find them, and healing to their whole body. Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your lifeā (Pr 4:20-23 NLT). God will give you the power to do this, but you must exercise that power each day. There is no quick fix form of self-control. Remember how many times in school you repeated your arithmetic tables before they became part of your thinking? Now you just do it automatically. Similarly, when you become educated to think as God wants you to think, you will be able to defeat the Devil and walk in victory. And the first step is to stop saying, āI just donāt have any self-control.ā You will never rise above what you say! As long as you believe youāre not a disciplined person, you wonāt be. So today, come into agreement with Godās Word and start saying, āI am disciplined and self-controlled.ā
Jesus is coming back again!
āCome, Lord Jesus!ā Rev 22:20 NKJV
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The last promise in the Bible is, āSurely I am coming quicklyā (v. 20 NKJV). The last prayer in the Bible is, āAmen. Even so, come, Lord Jesus!ā (v. 20 NKJV). Some Bible scholars believe a major prophecy concerning Christās return was fulfilled in 1948 when the nation of Israel was reborn (See Am 9:14). Since then, the clock of Bible prophecy has been ticking and the countdown is on. Cynics and critics sometimes say, āChristians have been telling us for hundreds of years that Jesus will return, but it hasnāt happened.ā That is additional proof of Christās return. āIn the last days scoffersā¦will say, āWhat happened to the promise that Jesus is coming again? From before the times of our ancestors, everything has remained the sameāā¦But you must not forgetā¦A day is like a thousand years to the Lord, and a thousand years is like a day. The Lord isnāt really being slow about his promiseā¦No, he is being patientā¦He does not want anyone to be destroyed but wants everyone to repent. But the day of the Lord will come as unexpectedly as a thief. Then the heavens will pass away with a terrible noise, and the very elements themselves will disappear in fire, and the earth and everything on it will be found to deserve judgment. Since everything around us is going to be destroyed like this, what holy and godly lives you should live, looking forward to the day of God and hurrying it alongā¦But we are looking forward to the new heavens and new earth he has promised, a world filled with Godās righteousnessā (2Pe 3:3-4, 8-13 NLT). Jesus is coming back againābe sure youāre ready.
Not self-control but Spirit control
āLet us follow the Spiritās leading in every part of our lives.ā Gal 5:25 NLT
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Do you have an out-of-control appetite when it comes to money, food, nicotine, alcohol, drugs, sex, orā¦(you fill in the blank)? Have your repeated efforts to gain control left you with a sense of shame, failure, and hopelessness? Have all your attempts at self-control failed? Try Spirit control! āLet the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you wonāt be doing what your sinful nature craves. The sinful nature wants to do evil, which is just the opposite of what the Spirit wants. And the Spirit gives us desires that are the opposite of what the sinful nature desires. These two forces are constantly fighting each other, so you are not free to carry out your good intentionsā¦But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-controlā¦Those who belong to Christ Jesus have nailed the passions and desires of their sinful nature to his cross and crucified them there. Since we are living by the Spirit, let us follow the Spiritās leading in every part of our livesā (Gal 5:16-17, 22-25 NLT). The secret of walking in victory is in realizing these two things: (1) Self-control is not something you do for God, itās something God does for you. (2) Self-control is not a one time work but a daily walk. Each time you say no to self and yes to God, His Spirit comes to your aid and empowers you. By choosing to obey God instead of your impulses, you activate the power that brings victory.
Donāt just pray, believe!
āYou can pray for anything, and if you believeā¦it will be yours.ā Mk 11:24 NLT
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The Bible says, āWithout faith it is impossible to please Godā (Heb 11:6 NIV). Godās greatest desire is to be believed. You can pray regularly and ritually, and even feel closer to God as a result, yet not expect Him to answer your prayers or for your situation to change. Peter had been put in prison and sentenced to death, and his execution was scheduled for the next day. So, the church prayed all night for his release. And it happened miraculously. God put the guards to sleep, opened Peterās prison door, and set him free. Yet when he appeared on the doorstep of the house where the believers were praying, they couldnāt believe it: āA servant girlā¦told everyone, āPeter is standing at the door!ā āYouāre out of your mind!ā they said. When she insisted, they decided, āIt must be his angelāā (Ac 12:13-15 NLT). Even the early disciples struggled to believe God would hear them. Even when the answer knocked on their door, they still hesitated. And we do too, donāt we? We struggle with prayer. We forget to pray, and when we remember, we rush through prayers with insincere words. Our thoughts disperse like a covey of quail. Why does this happen? You can pray anywhere, at any time, using your own words, and God promises to answer. So, whatās the problem? We need to realize the incredible power and potential of one praying believer: āOur weapons have power from God that can destroy the enemyās strong placesā (2Co 10:4 NCV). So donāt just pray; believe God for the answer. Then talk and act like you believe!
You canāt have a testimony without a test
āI willā¦test them as gold is tested.ā Zec 13:9 NAS
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If youāre being tested today, youāre in good company! Job, the most righteous man on earth, was tested beyond what most of us will ever have to endure. And when he emerged, he told God, āI heard about you from others; now I have seen youā (Job 42:5 CEV). In the heat of the furnace, you experience God up close and personal. Sheila Schuller Coleman says, āSome tests are intended to assess what weāve learned; others are intended to teach. We learn our most profound lessons when weāre testedā¦Like what weāre capable ofā¦where we need to growā¦and that thereās still more to learn! When your faith is being tested, the last thing youāre thinking about is learning a lessonā¦you just want to survive. But the lesson we learn from Job is that when we keep our faith in the most testing of times, weāll ācome out as goldā (Job 23:10 NAS). Think about it: Did you ever hear a testimony that wasnāt about someone surviving a test? James says, āConsider it pure joyā¦whenever you face trialsā (Jas 1:2 NIV). When we suffer, when people say hateful things, when we lose our homes, when we encounter rifts in our family, when the doctor calls with a dire diagnosisāthe last thing we feel is joyā¦If anyone could speak with authority on praising God in trials, it was Paul. He was beaten, thrown into jail, and run out of town. How does your week compare to his?ā When you get through this test, you will have a testimony to Godās strength and faithfulness, and be able to say, āThe Lord is my God.ā
Keep it simple
āI will give you shepherdsā¦who will lead you with knowledge and understanding.ā Jer 3:15 NIV
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Seeking to impress the congregation, a young seminary graduate incorporated the biggest words he could find into his Sunday-morning sermon. It was a disaster! Stepping down from the pulpit, he met an old preacher who said, āSon, you spoke over their heads.ā Irritated and defensive, the young seminarian said, āThen why donāt they stretch their necks?ā To which the old preacher replied, āJesus said, āFeed my sheep,ā not my giraffes!ā Whether youāre in a pulpit, a classroom, a board meeting, or talking to someone one-on-one over coffee, you must decide whether your goal is to impress peopleāor help them. God said, āI will give you shepherds after my own heart, who will lead you with knowledge and understanding.ā Your aim shouldnāt be merely to communicate knowledgeābut understanding. The measure of a good teacher isnāt what he or she knowsāitās what the student learns. Making things simple is a necessary skill if you want to connect with people. To put it in the words of Albert Einstein: āIf you canāt explain it simply, you donāt understand it enough.ā If youāre serious about trying to reach people, keep these four words firmly in mind: (1) Heart. To move someone, you must touch them on an emotional level. (2) Hope. By spelling out their potential and their possibilities, you will inspire them to try. (3) Help. Show them how to apply what youāre saying in a tangible way. (4) Humor. By laughing at your own mistakes, you let people know their problem isnāt uniqueāand to someone who is struggling, that can be the best feeling in the world.
Donāt burn out (3)
āIn returning and rest you shall be saved.ā Isa 30:15 NKJV
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Burnout is characterized by disengagement, and stress by over-engagement. In burnout, your emotions become blunted; stress makes them over-reactive. Burnout causes emotional damage; stress primarily causes physical damage. Burnout affects motivation and drive; stress affects your physical energy. Depression from burnout comes from loss of hope and ideals; stress-related depression comes from your bodyās need to conserve energy and protect itself. Burnout triggers helplessness and hopelessness; stress triggers urgency and hyperactivity. Burnout produces detachment; stress produces panic, phobias, and anxiety. Burnout may not kill you, but it makes life feel like itās not worth living. So, whatās the answer? God said, āIn returning and rest you shall be saved.ā Author Bev Murrill writes: āThose of us in ministry run on our own very āimportantā treadmills. And as the leader goes, so go the followers. Thatās an awesome responsibility. Those of us whose role is to influence others need to be aware of what we say and do because weāll ābe judged more strictlyā (See Jas 3:1 NCV). Weāre all sick of influential Christians falling into behavior that disempowers those who trusted their leadersā¦Whether it be sexual sin, anger, self-righteousness, or dishonestyā¦we need to examine ourselves instead of pointing and accusing. Spend time with the One who has the capacity to strip us down to the bare bones of our heartās cry. Itās easy to start believing your own publicity and taking the measurement of who you are from other peopleās opinionsā¦Only Godās opinion counts, and thatās hard to discern unless you take time to stop and let him tell you.ā
Donāt burn out (1)
āMany claim to have unfailing love, but a faithful person who can find?ā Pr 20:6 NIV
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Pastor Rowland Croucher writes: āThe children had gone to school, my wife was off to work, and I did something Iād never done before. I turned the phone down, put a note on the door, and went back to bed. I was burned out. Within two months I had resigned my ministryā¦Three out of four pastors report anger, depression, fear, and alienation. The reasons includeā¦a disparity between idealistic expectations and hard realityā¦lack of boundariesā¦workaholismā¦feelings of incompetenceā¦conflict between being a leader and being a servant at the same timeā¦āplaying it safeā to avoid upsetting powerful parishionersā¦and loneliness (pastors are less likely to have a close friend than almost anybody).ā Ministering in your own strength virtually guarantees you will end up as another statistic. Paul was able to go the distance and finish strong because he depended on God to give him the needed strength. One Bible teacher says avoiding burnout means (a) having a definite call on your life and a strong relationship with Jesus, (b) seeking His vision and being willing to do whatever He asks, (c) never losing sight of the people behind the work, (d) never taking your position for granted, (e) respecting the guy above you, and submitting willingly to authority, (f) knowing that youāre fulfilling Godās will and your reward is laid up in heaven, (g) having a servantās heart, (h) putting loyalty above personal feelings, and (i) never being too big to do small things, or too small to do big things. Practice these principles and you wonāt burn out.
Keep your hope alive (1)
āGrabā¦hope with both hands and never let go.ā Heb 6:18 MSG
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Does your situation look impossible? Are you getting ready to quit? Donāt! Emilie Batisse was seventy-nine when she was injured in a hit-and-run accident and wasnāt expected to live. When Norman Vincent Peale went to visit her, he noticed a row of brand-new poetry books that hadnāt been opened. When he asked her about them, she said, āI love poetry, but I havenāt read thoseā¦Iām saving them for my old age.ā Mrs. Batisse lived to read those books many times, and when she eventually died at ninety-one, she was planning a trip to Europe. Hope is wishing for something to come true; faith is believing it will happen. Hope is wanting something so desperately that despite all evidence to the contrary, you keep believing God for it. And the remarkable thing is that the act of hoping produces a strength of its own. When Cornell University conducted a study on the effects of hope, Dr. Harold G. Wolff reported that people with hope can endure incredible burdens. One group comprised twenty-five thousand soldiers imprisoned during World War II. Subjected to forced labor, bad food, and filth, many died while others showed only slight damage. Interviews with survivors revealed a far-above-average ability to hope! How were they able to keep their hope alive? By drawing pictures of the girls they planned to marry, designing their future homes, and organizing business management seminars. Hope not only kept them well, it kept them alive! Itās easy to see why Paul describes hope as āan unbreakable spiritual lifeline, reaching pastā¦appearancesā¦to the very presence of Godā (v. 19).
Your handbook for life!
āThe commands of the Lord are clear, giving insight for living.ā Ps 19:8 NLT
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The marquee outside a little country church read: āJesus saidā¦ā Thatās itānothing else! Obviously the custodian was interrupted before finishing the job, leaving the incomplete message for passing drivers to fill in the blank. Doubtless, some would drive by giving it little thought. The more biblically minded might search their memory for the right answer. Some might think the custodian missed an opportunity to proclaim words that can transform lives. Jesus said, āEvery word Iāve spoken to you is a Spirit-word and so it is life-makingā (Jn 6:63 MSG). The words of people can inform us, but only the words of God can transform us. David understood the awesome benefits of Godās Word. In Psalm 19:7-11 NLT, he tells us itās essential for these: (1) āReviving the soul.ā Godās Word is inexhaustible, but weāre not! We wear down with time and effort, and need restoration and revitalizing. (2) āMaking wise the simple.ā Godās Word gives you insights for crucial, everyday decision-making. A high IQ isnāt required; the Bible is for regular and ordinary people. David said, āI have more insight than all my teachers, for Your testimonies are my meditation. I understand more than the aged, because I have observed Your preceptsā (Ps 119:99-100 NAS 1995). (3) āBringing joy to the heartā (Ps 19:8 NLT). Happiness is dependent on having the right people and circumstances in your life. But ājoyā is different; itās an inside job that comes from living by the principles of Scripture. (4) āGiving insight for living.ā When you have a problem in your personal life, homelife, or working life, Godās Word offers you āinsight for living.ā Itās your handbook for life!
Kids and kites
āA man shall leave his father and mother.ā Mt 19:5 NKJV
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Letting go of our children is one of the toughest phases of parenting. Erma Bombeck compared it to flying a kite. āMom and dad run down the road hoping to catch a breeze. Eventually, and with much effort, they manage to hoist the kite a few feet in the air. Just when they think it is safely underway, great danger looms. It dives toward electrical lines and twirls perilously near the trees. It is a scary moment. Then, unexpectedly, a gust of wind catches the kite and carries it upward. Mom and dad begin feeding line as rapidly as they can. The kite then becomes difficult to hold. Parents reach the end of their line and begin to wonder what to do next. The little craft demands more freedom. It rises higher and higher. Dad stands on tiptoe to accommodate the tug. It is now grasped tenuously between his index finger and thumb, held upward toward the sky. Then comes the moment of release. The string slips through his fingers, and the kite soars majestically into Godās beautiful sky. The kite is now a mere pinpoint of color in the sky. The parents are proud of what they have doneābut sad to realize that their job is finished. It was a labor of love. But where did the years go?ā Parenting is an exhilarating and terrifying experience, and one that was ordained from the beginning. With the ultimate release, and for this season, your task as a parent is finished. The kite is free, and so, for the first time in twenty years or so, are you. Whatās next? Ask God; He has a plan for your life.
God can cancel your past (2)
āI will forgive their wickedness, and I will never again remember their sins.ā Jer 31:34 NLT
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Have you ever watched children playing with an Etch A Sketch? If they make a mess of the picture, all they have to do is turn it over to erase it; then they can start all over again. This is how God handles the mistakes you have made; He wipes the slate clean. āI willā¦remember their sins no moreā (v. 34 NIV). This has to be one of the most wonderful statements in the Bibleāthat āGod forgets.ā When we admit our sins and ask God to forgive us, He cancels our past. He chooses to forget our wrongs, errors, and failures. Even if we died tonight, stood before God in heaven, and asked Him about a sin we committed yesterday, He would say, āWhat sin?ā When you deny your sin, you deny God the joy of forgiving you. When you try to excuse your sin, God permits the consequences to become so painful that you will want to turn from it. But when you confess your sin, āhe is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousnessā (1Jn 1:9 NIV). The prodigal son broke his fatherās heart, squandered his inheritance, and ended in a pigpen. But his is a comeback story! His turnaround began with these words: āWhen he finally came to his senses, he said to himselfā¦āI will go home to my father and say, āFather, I have sinnedāā (Lk 15:17-18 NLT). And what his father did for him, God will do for you today.
Donāt compete, and donāt compare
āHe alone decides which gift each person should have.ā 1Co 12:11 NLT
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In Scripture, the church is never described as a democracy. Certainly every person deserves equal treatment in terms of kindness, love, and respect; but as our God-given assignments differ, so do our gifts. āIt is the one and only Spirit who distributes all these gifts. He alone decides which gift each person should haveā (v. 11 NLT). Pay close attention to the words āHe alone decides.ā As a parent, you want to see all your children succeed in life. But you recognize that just as their individual talents differ, so do their unique destinies. Thatās why itās a mistake to compete with or compare yourself to somebody else. The Bible says, āGod was validating it [the message] with giftsā¦as he saw fitā (Heb 2:4 MSG). Donāt question and second-guess God; He knows what He is doing and never makes mistakes. Even among His twelve disciples, Jesus had an inner circle. He took Peter, James, and John up the Mount of Transfiguration and sent the others into town to work. He didnāt feel obligated to take everybody up the mountain so nobody would feel slighted. Does that mean He loves one person more than another? No, the experience Peter, James, and John had on the mountaintop that day was part of their training for the assignment Jesus was calling them to. There is a lesson here. You have to move beyond other peopleās opinions. God made you for a special purpose; He has a job for you that nobody else can do as well as you. When you know that something is right for you, do it and trust God to vindicate you in the eyes of others.
Donāt be a mudslinger
āThe slingers surrounded and attacked it.ā 2Ki 3:25 NKJV
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In Old Testament times, āslingersā were people who enjoyed going around blocking other peopleās wells by throwing mud and rocks into themāwells of water that were essential to their survival. Today, mudslingers are people who make malicious attacks against others. Now, chances are that you may have encountered some āmudslingersā yourself, and even suffered at their hands. What should you do? Avoid them because theyāre dangerous. You canāt mud wrestle with a pig without getting dirty. Not only will the pig wināhe will enjoy the fight! And if you yourself have become a slinger, here is a portion of Scripture you would do well to read and keep in mind: āIf you stop making trouble for othersā¦then your light will shine in the darkness, [you will begin to get attention from and have influence with the right people]ā¦The Lord will always lead you [you will begin to make the right moves]. He will satisfy your needs in dry lands [He will give you success in the most unlikely places, and in spite of adverse circumstances] and give strength to your bones [cause you to live a long and healthy life]ā (Isa 58:9-11 NCV). Now there is a benefit package worth working for! So, guard your thoughts because they become your words. Guard your words because they become your actions. Guard your actions because they become your character. And guard your character because it determines the level of Godās blessing in your life. So, here is the word for you today: Donāt be a mudslinger.
When God Gives You a Vision (2)
āI was not disobedient unto the heavenly vision.ā Ac 26:19
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When God gives you a vision: (1) It will interrupt you. Sometimes God will speak in a voice you canāt tune out. Other times, like Jonah, God will let you go to the bottom to get your attention. Either way, things wonāt go right until you say yes to Him. (2) It will illuminate you. You may not like what God says. Ananias didnāt like going to pray for Saul of Tarsus, a man with the power to put Christians to death. But God said, āGo, for he is a chosen vesselā¦I will show him how many things he must suffer for My nameās sakeā (Ac 9:15-16 NKJV). Notice the word āsuffer.ā The Devil isnāt going to send you a congratulatory telegram because you have decided to do Godās will, so be prepared for attack. (3) It will inspire you. You will accomplish things you never dreamed possible. Look at Gideon. When God found him he was hiding in a winepress (See Jdg 6:11 NKJV); not exactly a promising start. When the angel called him āa mighty man of valorā (v. 12 NKJV), he replied, āI am the least in my fatherās houseā (v. 15 NKJV). When the angel said, āThe Lord is with you,ā he replied, āIf the Lord is with us, why then has all this happened to us?ā (vv. 12-13 NKJV). When he finally took the job, he wondered, āHow can so few of us defeat so many of them?ā Yet at that very moment his enemies were having nightmares about him (See Jdg 7:13-15). The secret of victory lies in knowing: āIt is God working in meā (See Php 2:13).
When God Gives You a Vision (1)
āI was not disobedient unto the heavenly vision.ā Ac 26:19
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Paul had a āheavenly vision.ā But there are those who āspeak a vision of their own heart, not from the mouth of the Lordā (Jer 23:16 NKJV). So you must be sure you are operating according to Godās plan, not your own, or somebody elseās. The story of the Tower of Babel teaches us two things: (1) When people make up their mind to do something, they often succeed. (2) Succeeding doesnāt mean that youāre in the will of God. The word babel (confusion) means others can think youāre right, yet youāre wrong. You ask, āBut isnāt it okay to make plans and set goals?ā Yes, but your plans and goals should come out of a vision that God has given you. When Paul said, āI was not disobedient unto the heavenly vision,ā he meant that thereās only one acceptable response to Godās planāobedience! Partial obedience, selective obedience, or delayed obedience are still disobedience. William Carey, who is considered the father of modern missions, gave up comfort and fortune to go to India and introduce the gospel. One of his more memorable quotes is: āAttempt great things for God, expect great things from God!ā But you can only say that with confidence when you know what God has called you to do. What He ordains, He sustains! When you set your own goals you lack a heart-deep confidence that God is doing the work, so you wear yourself out thinking itās all up to you. However, when you know God has given you a vision for your life, you trust Him, even when you canāt see any way to bring it to pass.
You can overcome your fears
āFear not [there is nothing to fear], for I am with you.ā Isa 41:10 AMPC
The first lady to win a Nobel Prize was French physicist Madame Marie Curie. She said, āNothing in life is to be feared, only understood.ā So: (1) Get the facts about what you fear to take away the mystery and misinformation from it. (2) Instead of focusing on your phobia, focus on Godās promises: āFear not [there is nothing to fear], for I am with you; do not look around you in terror and be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen and harden you to difficulties, yes, I will help you; yes, I will hold you up and retain you with My [victorious] right hand of rightness and justiceā (v. 10 AMPC). Note the words āI will strengthen and harden you to difficulties.ā As your faith in God grows stronger, the threat of your fears will grow weaker. (3) Relax. Imagine yourself peaceful and free of the bondage of fear. Envision the positive effect on your life when you are delivered. (4) Confront each one of your fear-triggering circumstances with baby steps. Every single hurdle you conquer strengthens you. So, commit yourself to overcoming the fears that have wreaked havoc on your peace of mind. Jesus said, āMy peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraidā (Jn 14:27 NKJV). Note the words ālet not.ā Donāt let fear rule you! Become proactive and arm yourself with the promises of God. Run toward your fears as David ran toward Goliath, knowing that in the name of the Lord you will win.
God has a good plan for you
āI know the plans I have for you.ā Jer 29:11 NLT
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Read this Scripture: āI know the plans I have for you,ā says the Lord. āThey are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. In those days when you pray, I will listenā¦I will end your captivity and restore your fortunesā (vv. 11-12, 14 NLT). The Israelites went through a long period of suffering because of their sinsāseventy years of captivity. But God said, āI still have a plan for you.ā Have you sinned and gone through a season of correction and now youāre wondering if God has turned His back on you? God may correct you, but He will never reject you! Two chapters later, God says to the same group of people, āI have loved you, my people, with an everlasting love. With unfailing love I have drawn you to myself. I will rebuild youā (Jer 31:3-4 NLT). Note the word ārebuild.ā Your life may have fallen apart, but God can rebuild it. The Bibleās theme is restoration. King David committed adultery and murder, but when he repented, God fully restored him. And the Bible says, āAfter David had done the will of God in his own generation, he died and was buried with his ancestorsā (Ac 13:36 NLT). How would you like to have those words on your tombstone? You can! The Prodigal Sonās older brother was angry with their father because he forgave and restored his younger brother. But his father restored him anyway. You cannot undo the fact of your past sins, but God can heal you from the effects of them. Just come to Him today; take that first step!
Your prayers can change the situation
āRemember the solemn promise you made.ā Ex 32:13 CEV
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If youāre not sure your prayers can change the situation youāre in right now, read the story of Moses interceding with God not to destroy the Israelites because of the golden calf and committing idolatry: āMoses tried to getā¦God to change his mindā¦Remember the solemn promise you made to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. You promised that someday they would have as many descendants as there are stars in the sky and that you would give them land. So even though the Lord had threatened to destroy the people, he changed his mind and let them liveā (vv. 11, 13-14 CEV). Moses was on his face one minute, and in Godās face the next. For the lives of his people, he was on his knees, pointing his finger, raising his hands, crying tears, tearing his cloak, and wrestling like Jacob at the brook. Notice how he prayed. He reminded God of His covenant promises. He stood on the Word! And if there is one thing that will get Godās attention and cause Him to respond to your needs, itās standing on His Word. Godās word in the matter is always Godās will in the matter. āWe are confident that he hears us whenever we ask for anything that pleases him. And since we know he hears us when we make our requests, we also know that he will give us what we ask forā (1Jn 5:14-15 NLT). You are similar to electric wire through which Godās power and presence can flow into any situation, and in prayer you flip the switch. So instead of complaining about the situation, begin to pray about it.