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You are in control of you. And you are different from every other person. There is no one who can do exactly what you can do. You have your own superpower with your own unique ability to contribute. And that’s what you’re going to do.
🌹23. Take the shot every time.
“If I fail more than you, I win.” — Seth Godin
You miss every shot you don’t take. And most people don’t want to take the shot. Fear of failure paralyzes them.
The only way you can become unstoppable is if you stop thinking about it. Just take the shot. Don’t do it only when it’s convenient or when you feel ready. Just go and make whatever adjustments you need after the fact.
🌹24. Don’t get caught up in the results of your success. Always remain focused on what got you those results: the work.
When you start doing noteworthy stuff, there are benefits that can become distractions. It can get easy to “ride the wave” of your previous work. Keep practicing. Perfect your craft. Never forget what got you here.
🌹25. Think and act 10X.
“When 10X is your measuring stick, you immediately see how you can bypass what everyone else is doing.” — Dan Sullivan
Most people — even those you deem to be “world class” — are not operating at 10X. In truth, you could surpass anyone if you radically stretch your thinking and belief system.
Going 10X changes everything. As Dan Sullivan has said, “10X thinking automatically takes you ‘outside the box’ of your present obstacles and limitations.” It pulls you out of the problems most people are dealing with and opens you to an entirely new field of possibilities.
When you take your goal of earning $100,000 this year and change it to $1,000,000, you’re forced to operate at a different level. The logical and traditional approach doesn’t work with 10X. As Shane Snow, author of Smartcuts: How Hackers, Innovators, and Icons Accelerate Success, has said,“10X progress is built on bravery and creativity instead. Working smarter.”
The question is: Are you willing to go there? Not just entertain the thought for a second or two and then revert back to common thinking. No. Are you willing to sit with 10X thinking? Are you willing to question your own thought processes and open yourself to believing an entirely different set of possibilities?
Could you convince yourself to believe in your 10X potential? Are you willing to undertake goals that seems lunacy, to you and everyone else? Are you willing to take the mental leap, trusting “the universe will conspire to make it happen”?
10X thinking truly is hard to fathom until you experience. Once you experience it, you realize it not only possible, but even possibly conservative. Going from six figures to seven figures can happen within a few short years. If you think big enough, and are willing to act boldly and intelligently enough, it’s not that crazy.
All the tools are in place in our global world. And if their not, then build them. There’s plenty of people doing it. You have no excuse, only that you don’t really want it, and are thus not willing to pay the price.
🌹26. Set goals that far exceed your current capabilities.
“You need to aim beyond what you are capable of. You need to develop a complete disregard for where your abilities end. If you think you’re unable to work for the best company in its sphere, make that your aim. If you think you’re unable to be on the cover of TIME magazine, make it your business to be there. Make your vision of where you want to be a reality. Nothing is impossible.” — Paul Arden
If your goals are logical, they won’t force you to create luck. Being unstoppable means your goals challenge you to be someone more than you currently are. As Jim Rohn has said, “Don’t wish it was easier, wish you were better.”
🌹27. Make time for recovery and rejuvenation.
“Wherever you are, make sure you’re there.” — Dan Sullivan
When you focus on results, rather than being busy, you’re 100 percent on when you’re working and 100 percent off when you’re not. This not only allows you to be present in the moment, but it allows you the needed time to rest and recover.
Most people stay close to the ground, where it’s safe. If they fall, it won’t hurt that bad. But when you choose to fly high, the fall may kill you. And you’re OK with that. To you, there is no ceiling and there is no floor. It’s all in your head. If something goes wrong — if you “fail” — you adjust and keep going.
🌹9. Don’t compete with others. Make them compete with you.
Most people are competing with other people. They continuously check-in to see what others in their space (their “competition”) are doing. As a result, they mimic and copy what’s “working.”
Conversely, you’ve left all competition behind. Competing with others makes absolutely zero sense to you. It pulls you from your authentic zone. So you zone out all the external noise and instead zone in to your internal pressure to produce.
🌹10. Never stop learning.
Ordinary people seek entertainment. Extraordinary people seek education and learning. When you want to become the best at what you do, you never stop learning. You never stop improving and honing your skills and knowledge.
Your unparalleled preparation is what gives you power. No one else is willing to pay the price you’ve paid.
🌹11. Success isn’t enough — it only increases the pressure.
For most people, becoming “successful” is enough. However, when you’re relentless, success only increases the pressure to do more. Immediately following the achievement of a goal, you’re focused on your next challenge.
🌹12. Don’t get crushed by success.
“Success can become a catalyst for failure.” — Greg McKeown
Most people can’t handle success, authority or privilege. It destroys them. It makes them lazy. When they get what they want, they stop doing the very things that got them there. The external noise becomes too intense.
But for you, no external noise can push harder than your own internal pressure. It’s not about this achievement, but the one after, and the one after that. There is no destination. Only when you’re finished.
🌹13. Completely own it when you screw up.
“Implementing extreme ownership requires checking your ego and operating with a high degree of humility. Admitting mistakes, taking ownership and developing a plan to overcome challenges are integral to any successful team.”―Jocko Willink
No blame. No deception or illusion. Just the cold hard truth. When you mess up, you own it. And as the leader, you own it when your team fails. Only with extreme ownership can you have complete freedom and control.
🌹14. Let your work speak for itself.
“Well done, is well said.” — Anthony Liccione
Cal Newport’s book, Deep Work, distinguishes “deep work” from “shallow work.” Here’s the difference:
Deep work is:
• Rare
• High value
• And non-replicable (i.e., not easy to copy/outsource)
Shallow work is:
• Common
• Low value
• Replicable (i.e., anyone can do it)
Talking is shallow. Anyone can do it. It’s easily replicated. It’s low value.Conversely, deep work is rare. It’s done by people who are focused and working while everyone else is talking. Deep work is so good it can’t be ignored.
🌹15. Always work on your mental strength.
“Mental resilience is arguably the most critical trait of a world-class performer, and it should be nurtured continuously. Left to my own devices, I am always looking for ways to become more and more psychologically impregnable. When uncomfortable, my instinct is not to avoid the discomfort but to become at peace with it. My instinct is always to seek out challenges as opposed to avoiding them.” — Josh Waitzkin
The better you can be under pressure, the further you’ll go than anyone else. Because they’ll crumble under pressure.
The best training you will ever do is mental training. Wherever your mind goes, your body follows. Wherever your thoughts go, your life follows.
🌹16. Confidence is your greatest asset.
You’ve heard it before: Running a marathon is far more mental than physical. A person’s ability to run a marathon — or do anything hard — is more a reflection of their level of confidence than their actual ability.
Your confidence determines:
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"you are the master of your destiny. you can influence, direct and control your own environment. you can make your life what you want it to be."✨🎯🙏💐
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"The most important form of wealth is the RESPECT, HONOUR, DIGNITY and LOVE that you earn through your work!"
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*The significance of Makar Sankranti (Uttarayan) Unlike other Hindu festivals which follow the lunar motion, Makar Sankranti follows the movement of the sun. ... It is a festive day all over India. Each region celebrates its own local form of this festival.*
*In most tradition across India the special food prepared is essentially Khichdi (Lentil & Rice preparation) both Sweet (traditionally with Jaggery) and Spicy varieties. The festival traditionally involved eating sweets made of Sesame-Jaggery. No matter what you call by name the festival is celebrated all over with similarity.*
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*Happy Makara Sankranti* -_(AP , Karnataka, Kerala, Goa, Maharashtra)
*Happy Pongal* --(TN & Pondicherry)
*Happy Lohri* --(Punjab & Haryana)
*Sakraat & Makraat* -- (Bihar, UP, Uttarakhand)
*Happy Uttarayan* -- (Gujarat, Diu, Daman)
*Happy Suggi* -- (Karnataka)
*Happy Magh Saaji* --(HP)
*Happy Ghughuti* --(Kumaon)
*Happy Makara Chaula* -(Odhisha)
*Happy Kicheri* ---(Poorvanchal East UP)
*Happy Pousha Sankranti* -- (Bengal & NE)
*Happy Magh Bihu* --(Assam & NE)
*Happy Shishur Sankraat* --(Kashmir )
*Happy Makara Vilakku* -- (Kerala and other southern states)
*Happy Maaghe Sankrant* -- Nepal
*Happy Tirmoori* -- Sindh Pakistan
*Happy Songkran* -- Thailand
*Happy Pi Ms Lao* -- Laos
*Happy Thingyan* --Myanmar
*Happy Mohan Songkran* -- Cambodia
*Unity in Diversity*
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“If you know deep down that something doesn’t feel right—if you know you’re not meant to be with the person you’re with, in the job you’re in, or doing the work you’re doing—then walking away from it does not make you a quitter, my beautiful friend. It makes you empowered. It means you have guts. It means you are strong enough and tuned-in enough to listen to yourself. It means you’re following your intuition. It means you know your time and energy is best spent doing something else. It means you know you’re on the wrong path and you’re brave enough to take action to change direction.” ~Natalie Edwards
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Life is short, and you only live once. Past are lessons and future are hopes. Most importantly is to love and respect yourself, and treasure worthy people around you. You can't change your past, you can't predict your future, but you can live everyday to the fullest, the happiest with what you presently possess and lovely people around you.
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Nothing will change your future trajectory like habits.
We all have goals, big or small, things we want to achieve within a certain time frame. Some people want to make a million dollars by the time they turn 30. Some people want to lose 20 pounds before summer. Some people want to write a book in the next six months. When we begin to chase an intangible or vague concept (success, wealth, health, happiness), making a tangible goal is often the first step.
Habits are processes operating in the background that power our lives. Good habits help us reach our goals. Bad ones hinder us. Either way, habits powerfully influence our automatic behavior.
The difference between habits and goals is not semantic. Each requires different forms of action.
“First we make our habits, then our habits make us.”
— Charles C. Nobel
🖌🖌🖌The difference between habits and goals is not semantic. Each requires different forms of action. For example:
We want to learn a new language. We could decide we want to be fluent in six months (goal), or we could commit to 30 minutes of practice each day (habit).
We want to read more books. We could set the goal to read 50 books by the end of the year, or we could decide to always carry a book with us (habit).
We want to spend more time with our families. We could plan to spend seven hours a week with them (goal), or we could choose to eat dinner with them each night (habit).
Your inner voice will ultimately guide you to say and do the right things at the right time.
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overnight. It comes in
installments; you get a little
bit today, a little bit
tomorrow until the whole
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day you procrastinate, you
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कैसे बने रहें - चिरयुवा
1. फालतू की संख्याओं को दूर फेंक आइए। जैसे- उम्र, वजन, और लंबाई। इसकी चिंता डॉक्टर को करने दीजिए। इस बात के लिए ही तो आप उन्हें पैसा देते हैं।
2. केवल हँसमुख लोगों से दोस्ती रखिए। खड़ूस और चिड़चिड़े लोग तो आपको नीचे गिरा देंगे।
3. हमेशा कुछ सीखते रहिए। इनके बारे में कुछ और जानने की कोशिश करिए - कम्प्यूटर, शिल्प, बागवानी, आदि कुछ भी। चाहे रेडियो ही। दिमाग को निष्क्रिय न रहने दें। खाली दिमाग शैतान का घर होता है और उस शैतान के परिवार का नाम है - अल्झाइमर मनोरोग।
4. सरल व साधारण चीजों का आनंद लीजिए।
5. खूब हँसा कीजिए - देर तक और ऊँची आवाज़ में।
6. आँसू तो आते ही हैं। उन्हें आने दीजिए, रो लीजिए, दुःख भी महसूस कर लीजिए और फिर आगे बढ़ जाइए। केवल एक व्यक्ति है जो पूरी जिंदगी हमारे साथ रहता है - वो हैं हम खुद। इसलिए जबतक जीवन है तबतक 'जिन्दा' रहिए।
7. अपने इर्द-गिर्द वो सब रखिए जो आपको प्यारा लगता हो - चाहे आपका परिवार, पालतू जानवर, स्मृतिचिह्न-उपहार, संगीत, पौधे, कोई शौक या कुछ भी। आपका घर ही आपका आश्रय है।
8. अपनी सेहत को संजोइए। यदि यह ठीक है तो बचाकर रखिए, अस्थिर है तो सुधार करिए, और यदि असाध्य है तो कोई मदद लीजिए।
9. अपराध-बोध की ओर मत जाइए। जाना ही है तो किसी मॉल में घूम लीजिए, पड़ोसी राज्यों की सैर कर लीजिए या विदेश घूम आइए। लेकिन वहाँ कतई नहीं जहाँ खुद के बारे में खराब लगने लगे।
10. जिन्हें आप प्यार करते हैं उनसे हर मौके पर बताइए कि आप उन्हें चाहते हैं; और हमेशा याद रखिए कि जीवन की माप उन साँसों की संख्या से नहीं होती जो हम लेते और छोड़ते हैं बल्कि उन लम्हों से होती है जो हमारी सांस लेकर चले जाते हैं
• The size of challenges/goals you undertake
• How likely you will achieve those goals
• How well you bounce back from failures
If you’re not confident, you will never put yourself out there in the first place. When you’re confident, you don’t care how many times you fail, you’re going to succeed. And it doesn’t matter how stacked the odds seem against you.
🌹17. Surround yourself with people who remind you of the future, not the past.
When you surround yourself with people who remind you of your past, you’ll have a hard time progressing. This is why we get stuck in certain roles, which we can’t break free from (e.g., the fat kid or shy girl).
Surrounding yourself with people who you want to be like allows you a fresh slate. You’re no longer defined by your past, only the future you are creating.
According to “the Pygmalion Effect,” the expectations of those around you in large measure determines how well you perform.
🌹18. Let things go, but never forget.
The science is clear: forgiveness improves not only your emotional health, but also your physical health.
Being unstoppable requires carrying no unnecessary mental or emotional baggage. Consequently, you’ll need to immediately and completely forgive anyone who has wronged you. However, forgiveness doesn’t mean you forget. And it doesn’t mean you have to do further business with those who have wronged you.
🌹19. Have clear goals.
“While a fixation on results is certainly unhealthy, short-term goals can be useful developmental tools if they are balanced within a nurturing long-term philosophy.” — Josh Waitzkin
According to loads of psychology research, the most motivating goals are clearly defined and time-bound.
Your goals can either be focused on your behaviors (e.g., I’m going to write 500 words per day) or on the outcomes you’re seeking (e.g., I’m going to get published on The New York Times by June 1, 2017).
For most people, behaviorally-focused goals are the better and more motivating option. But when you crave the results so much that the work is irrelevant, your aim should be directed straight at the outcomes you want. However, results-focused goals are better when short-term and grounded in your long-term vision and philosophy. When your why is strong enough, the how will take care of itself.
🌹20. Respond immediately, rather than analyzing or stalling.
“He who hesitates is lost.” — Cato
Anticipation of an event is always more extreme than the event itself — both for positive and negative events.
Just do it. Train yourself to respond immediately when you feel you should do something. Stop questioning yourself. Don’t analyze it. Don’t question if it came from God or from yourself. Just act.
You’ll figure out what to do after you’ve taken action. Until you take action, it will all be hypothetical. But once you act, it becomes practical.
🌹21. Choose simplicity over complication.
“If you can’t explain it simply, you don’t understand it well enough.” — Albert Einstein
It’s easy to be complicated. Most of the research and jargon in academia and business is over-complicated.
Cutting to the core and hitting the truth is hard, because it’s simple. As Leonardo da Vinci has said, “Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.”
Very few people will give you the truth. When you ask them a question, it gets mighty complicated. “There are so many variables” or “It depends” they say.
T. S. Eliot said it best, “Where is the wisdom we have lost in knowledge? Where is the knowledge we have lost in information?”
Wisdom is timeless and simple. Learn wisdom and choose it.
🌹22. Never be jealous or envious of someone else’s accomplishments.
Being unstoppable means you genuinely want what’s best for everyone — even those you would consider your competitors. Jealousy and envy are the ego — which operates out of fear.
The reason you are happy for other people’s success is because their success has nothing to do with you.
🌱🌱🌱Are you unstoppable? 🌱🌱🌱
A lot of people are good at what they do. Some are even elite. A select few are completely unstoppable.
Those who are unstoppable are in their own world. They don’t compete with anyone but themselves. You never know what they will do — only that you will be forced to respond. Even though they don’t compete with you, they make you compete with them.
Are you unstoppable?
🌹1. Don’t think — know and act.
“Don’t think. You already know what you have to do, and you know how to do it. What’s stopping you?” — Tim Grover
Rather than analyzing and thinking, act. Attuned to your senses, and with complete trust in yourself, do what you instinctively feel you should. As Oprah has said, “Every right decision I have ever made has come from my gut. Every wrong decision I’ve made was the result of me not listening to the greater voice of myself.”
The moment you start thinking, you’ve already lost. Thinking swiftly pulls you out of the zone.
🌹2. Always be prepared so you have the freedom to act on instinct.
“Just as the yin-yang symbol possesses a kernel of light in the dark, and of dark in the light, creative leaps are grounded in a technical foundation.” — Josh Waitzkin
Become a master of your craft. While everyone else is relaxing, you’re practicing and perfecting. Learn the left-brained rules in and out so your right brain can have limitless freedom to break the rules and create.
With enhanced consciousness, time will slow down for you. You’ll see things in several more frames than others. While they’re trying to react to the situation, you’ll be able to manipulate and tweak the situation to your liking.
🌹3. Don’t be motivated by money or anything external.🌹
Having nice things is, well, nice. But for you, it’s never been about the money, prestige or anything else outside of you. Take these things away and nothing changes for you. You’re still going to be pushing your personal limits and giving it your all. Give these things to you and they won’t destroy you like they do most people.
🌹4. Never be satisfied.
“The drive to close the gap between near-perfect and perfect is the difference between great and unstoppable.” — Tim Grover
Even after you achieve a goal, you’re not content. For you, it’s not even about the goal. It’s about the climb to see how far you can push yourself.
Does this make you ungrateful? Absolutely not. You’re entirely humbled and grateful for everything in your life. Which is why you will never get complacent or lazy.
To quote Jim Rohn, “The way to enjoy life best is to wrap up one goal and start right on the next one. Don’t linger too long at the table of success, the only way to enjoy another meal is to get hungry.”
🌹5. Always be in control.
Unlike most people, who are dependent on substances or other external factors, you are in control of what you put in your body, how you spend your time and how long you stay in the zone.
Act based on instinct, not impulse. Just because you could doesn’t mean you do. And when you do, it’s because you want to, not because you have to.
🌹6. Be true to yourself.
Although 70 percent of US employees hate their jobs and only one in three Americans report being happy, relentless and unstoppable people purge everything from their life they hate.
Have the self-respect and confidence to live life on your terms. When something isn’t right in your life, change it. Immediately.
🌹7. Never let off the pressure.
“Pressure can bust pipes, but it also can make diamonds.” — Robert Horry
Most people can handle pressure in small doses. But when left to their own devices, they let off the pressure and relax.
Not you. You never take the pressure off yourself. Instead, you continuously turn-up the pressure. It’s what keeps you alert and active.
🌹8. Don’t be afraid of the consequences of failure.
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अवश्य देखें🤠🙏✨
🎯⬆️Regardless of the hardships in the war of life, the person who does not give up in life is called a warrior. ✨🎯💪
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जीवन रूपी नदियाँ जिन दो किनारों के बीच होकर बहती है, उसका एक छोर असफलता तो दूसरा सफलता है। कुछ लोग असफलता वाले किनारे पर बैठकर जीवन में आने वाले उतार-चढ़ावों के द्वंद्व में फंसकर तनाव, चिन्ता के शिकार हो जाते हैं। दरअसल, ऐसे लोगों में इच्छाशक्ति का पूरी तरह से अभाव होता है।
असलियत में इच्छाशक्ति का अभाव ही व्यक्ति के जीवन में निराशा को उत्पन्न करता है। आम तौर पर निराशावादी दृष्टिकोण वाले व्यक्ति असफलता को अपना भाग्य व नियति मान लेते हैं जबकि दृढ़ इच्छाशक्ति वाले व्यक्ति सदैव उत्साह व उमंग से लबरेज(परिपूर्ण) रहते हैं।✨👍
Want to know which companies to invest in in 2018, or which sectors will boom, or what career move you should make? Then here are the top 10 trend predictions for 2018 by 'Ruchir Sharma', who tells you how the world will look like in the coming year:
http://www.kyabae.com/consumerawareness/top-trend-predictions-2018-ruchir-sharma/
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🎯👆Starting is definitely one of the biggest factors in making your dream happen, but it's not the ONLY thing you need to do.
You have to be consistent with your effort, you have to persist, and you have to have a standard of excellence.
Change has to begin with you making a decision that "normal" and "average" is simply not enough anymore.
You have to want more out life and have the commitment to make it happen!
Never stop giving it your 100%!
Good morning & Have A
Happy Sunday! 💐😊
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मेरी मंज़िल मेरे करीब है,
इसका मुझे एहसास है,
गुमां नहीं मुझे इरादों पे अपने,
ये मेरी सोच और हौंसलों का विश्वास है!!✨💪🎯
Never forget how far you’ve come. Everything you have gotten through. All the times you have pushed on even when you felt you couldn’t. All the mornings you got out of bed no matter how hard it was. All the times you wanted to give up but you got through another day. Never forget how much strength you have learned and developed.
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“Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.”
— Confucius
🌱🌱🌱The Benefits of Habits🌱🌱🌱
“Habit is the intersection of knowledge (what to do), skill (how to do), and desire (want to do).”
— Stephen Covey
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Once formed, habits operate automatically. Habits take otherwise difficult tasks—like saving money—and make them easy.
The purpose of a well-crafted set of habits is to ensure that we reach our goals with incremental steps. The benefits of a systematic approach to achievement include the following:
Habits can mean we overshoot our goals. Let’s say a person’s goal is to write a novel. They decide to write 200 words a day, so it should take 250 days. Writing 200 words takes little effort, and even on the busiest, most stressful days, the person gets it done. However, on some days, that small step leads to their writing 1000 or more words. As a result, they finish the book in much less time. Yet setting “write a book in four months” as a goal would have been intimidating.
🌱🌱🌱Habits are easy to complete🌱🌱🌱
As Duhigg wrote,
Habits are powerful, but delicate. They can emerge outside our consciousness or can be deliberately designed. They often occur without our permission but can be reshaped by fiddling with their parts. They shape our lives far more than we realize—they are so strong, in fact, that they cause our brains to cling to them at the exclusion of all else, including common sense.”
Once we develop a habit, our brains actually change to make the behavior easier to complete. After about 30 days of practice, enacting a habit becomes easier than not doing so.
Habits are for life. Our lives are structured around habits, many of them barely noticeable. According to Duhigg’s research, habits make up 40% of our waking hours. These often minuscule actions add up to make us who we are. William James (a man who knew the problems caused by bad habits) summarized their importance as such:
All our life, so far as it has definite form, is but a mass of habits — practical, emotional, and intellectual — systematically organized for our weal or woe, and bearing us irresistibly toward our destiny, whatever the latter may be.
Once a habit becomes ingrained, it can last for life (unless broken for some reason).
🌱🌱🌱Habits can compound🌱🌱🌱
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Stephen Covey paraphrased Gandhi when he explained:
Sow a thought, reap an action; sow an action, reap a habit; sow a habit, reap a character; sow a character, reap a destiny.
“First forget inspiration.
Habit is more dependable.
Habit will sustain you whether you're inspired or not.
Habit is persistence in practice.”
— Octavia Butler
Your reputation is what people think you are; your character is what you are.
You want your reputation and your character to match, but concentrate on your character. You may be able to fool others about the kind of person you really are for a time, but it seldom lasts for long. The surest way to make sure your character and your reputation are the same is to live your life in such a way that nothing you do would embarrass you if it were printed on the front page of the newspaper. Good character means not ever taking ethical shortcuts, even though everyone else may be doing so. You build good character by doing the right thing because it’s the right thing to do.
Desire
A burning desire to be and to do is the starting point from which the dreamer must take off. Dreams are not born of indifference, laziness, or lack of ambition.
🦋🦋🦋7 LIFE LESSONS TO LEARN FROM A BUTTERFLY🦋🦋🦋
We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty -Maya Angelou
1. Don’t settle for little when you have potential to do much more. Just, like butterfly didn’t limit itself to be a caterpillar.
2. Don’t give up. The struggle you are in today is developing the strength you need for tomorrow.
3. Sometimes, struggles are exactly what we need in our lives. If God allowed us to go through our life without any obstacles, it would cripple us.
4. Sometimes a “breaking down” must occur in order for restructuring to begin
5. Be open to change. Be willing to be transformed. Without change, nothing beautiful would happen. You have to give up who you are to become who you might be.
6. Life is like a butterfly — we go through changes before we become something beautiful. No stage is permanent. When bad things happen, we should say, “This too shall pass.”
7. Don’t harm others. Butterflies pass through so many painful stages of their life then also they don’t harm others but simply live their life. Similarly, if we can silently endure our hardships without hurting others then that adds beauty to our hardship and above all makes us a better human being.
Enjoy Reading. Have a great day ahead....🦋🦋🦋
🌱🌱🌱Achievement will never be as fulfilling as the journey.🌱🌱🌱
It is one thing to set and goal and enlist the help of others to see its achievement through.
It is entirely another to sacrifice your own well-being, and the well-being of those around you, for that goal and its achievement.
The high at the end is never worth the emotional strain that takes place to get there.
If you are not able to enjoy the journey with those around you, then the end goal will become meaningless.🌹🌹🌹