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Hearty❣️ motivation... For just YOU 💪 #lucid_thoughts_inspire_me Just trynna share something about the things that make life 🥰😇🌷 ❦︎ Not just motivation... Relatable shit too :) Enjoy staying 🙃🎵🎶
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In today's world, people are stuck in a rut. Women are evolving finally getting around freely. Still... They're looked down. Chased. Demotivated.
Therefore.
Discipline breaks!
A woman is considered to be the embodiment of goddesses in India. Yet India is a place where women are molested, abused, raped, touched, sexualized in public at all ages.
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Waking up to realise that life goes on. No matter how big of a breakdown you had the night before. Sun rises and everything has to go the way it has supposed to. As of now keeping my sanity is the only option available for pretending everything is fine when nothing is actually fine. Even if it's not fine it has to be good and ok.
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The beautiful and eye opening story of egg 🥚, potato 🥔 and coffee beans ☕.
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A karmic relationship is often described as a connection between two individuals that is believed to be influenced by past life experiences or unresolved issues. These relationships can be intense and passionate but may also involve significant challenges and conflicts. The concept is rooted in the idea of karma, which suggests that actions in past lives can affect current life experiences.
Key characteristics of karmic relationships include:
1. Intense Connection: There is often an immediate and powerful attraction between the partners, sometimes feeling like they have known each other for a long time.
2. Lessons to Learn: Karmic relationships are thought to present opportunities for personal growth and self-discovery. They may bring unresolved issues to the surface that need to be addressed.
3. Repetition of Patterns: Individuals may find themselves repeating certain patterns or behaviors in these relationships, indicating unresolved issues from the past.
4. Emotional Turmoil: These relationships can be tumultuous, often involving highs and lows, which can lead to emotional pain and conflict.
5. Temporary Nature: While karmic relationships can be transformative, they may not last forever. They often serve a specific purpose in the individuals' lives before ending.
Overall, karmic relationships are seen as a way for individuals to work through past experiences and learn important life lessons, even if they are challenging.
Hearty❣️ motivation... For just YOU 💪
#lucid_thoughts_inspire_me
Just trynna share something about the things that make life 🥰😇🌷
❦︎
Not just motivation... Relatable shit too :)
Enjoy staying 🙃🎵🎶
Financial stress!!!!!!!!!!!
To get over it... You have to get out of your comfort zone... I'm always planning 🤔. Time for action
At the early stages, you're trying to figure out what's wrong. Not that anyone in school or college or university taught us about finances. So we can start somewhere by saving, investing, managing! 💰💵
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When a women here... Tries to live her life on her terms, make her own choices at home, career, finances... She's judged. The final statement and destination for allll women is GET MARRIED AND DO WHATEVER YOU WANT WITH YOUR HUSBAND.
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Say these when you finally close the chapter
1. I finally understand why I was never enough for you — you were never enough for yourself.
You didn’t need love.
You needed someone to distract you from everything you refused to fix in yourself.
And I was foolish enough to play that role.
2. You didn’t lose me. You let me go — over and over again.
With every ignored message.
Every “you’re too sensitive.”
Every time you laughed at my effort and praised my silence.
3. I gave loyalty — you gave conditions.
I stayed through your moods, your doubts, your cold nights.
But the one time I needed you to show up?
You made me feel like a burden.
4. You were addicted to being wanted — not to building something real.
You chased validation like a drug.
And I mistook your chaos for passion.
Now I see it for what it was: fear of being alone.
5. I kept waiting for you to change — until I realized I was changing into someone I hated.
I became quieter. Smaller. Nicer.
That’s not growth. That’s self-erasure.
6. You didn’t break me. You trained me.
To never confuse attention with care.
To never stay where I have to beg for basics.
To never explain to someone what respect looks like.
7. I walked away without hate — and that’s why it hit you so hard.
Because you were ready for the fight.
You weren’t ready for the silence.
That silence was my healing.
You don’t need to be colder. You need to be clearer.
No begging. No chasing.
Just one truth said with peace — and the strength to leave.
Save this. For the day you finally choose yourself.
No matter how many times she removes it or keeps aside
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Mein teri ahkoon mein rahata hoon
Tujhey pata na chale
Tere har pal mein guzra hoon
Tujhey pata na chale
Kare to phir kya kare
Tere bin kaise jiye
Ankoon mein pyar liye
Bolo kahan kahan phire?
Khafa to hum bhi hain tum bhi ho
Humein pata na chale
Judayi ka mujhey ghum bhi hai
Koi aesi khata na kare..
Kare to phir kya kare
Tere bin kaise jiye
Ankhoon mein pyar liye
Bolo kahan kahan phire?
Sajni paas bulao na
Ki dil aaj tuta hai aaj tuta hai
Sajan maan jao na
Ke woh aaj rutha hai aaj rutha hai
Koi use manae na
Jaane jaan..
Dil tujhey hi chahe na
Hooooo....
Humein dil se bhulao na
Yehi ab kehna hai ab kehna hai
Tum paas aao na
Aao naaaaa
Sajni paas bulao na...
Saajan maan jao na...
Sajni paas bulao na...
Sajni paas bulao na
Ki dil aaj rutha hai aaj tuta hai
Sajan maan jao na...
Sajni paas bulao na...
Saajan mana jao na...
We’re celebrating over 11 years together but half way through it got really messy 🫠
We broke up. But when we got back together, we agreed:
If we wanted a different outcome then we had to do it differently.
And it wasn’t about changing each other. It was about changing how we showed up to the relationship (especially as someone with a fearful avoidant attachment style 🙋🏾♀️)
Here are some of the things that helped us:
👩🏾🤝👨🏽 Weekly date nights: Not just to process problems, but to dream. To talk about what we’re excited about and what we’re looking forward to.
🏆 Personal and relationship goals: Naming what mattered to each of us and building something shared, which ultimately led us to buying our first home a few years later!
🦮 Daily walks with no agenda: Just moving our bodies and letting conversation unfold naturally. I would get anxious in space/silence so it was good for me to practice feeling safe in the silence.
🫶🏾Holding space instead of fixing: Especially during career shifts and depressive lows which we’ve both moved through since getting back together. We learned to let each other feel without trying to fix or change. Trusting in the others resilience to move through it, and holding a compassionate space for each other.
✈️ Yearly trips abroad: This has helped us reconnect to play and presence together. It gives us something to look forward to and has us making new memories together instead of just spiraling in old (less pleasant) ones.
🙏🏾 Consent before hard convos: This has been such a HUGE game changer in our communication, simply asking “Is now a good time to talk about something I’ve been holding?”
We didn’t get back together to stay the same.
We got back together to evolve.
If you’re in a cycle with someone, let this be your reminder that it CAN look different, but only if you do it differently.
✨If you’re ready to do relationships differently this time follow me and type “PODCAST” in the comments. I’ll send you my podcast where I share more about how we rebuilt trust in our relationship + the work to overcome relationship anxiety.✨
#codependency #womenempowerment #relationships #relatable #healing #relationshipadvice
Love is beautiful, but only for the brave,
Because real love doesn’t bloom in comfort, it survives storms,
When you love someone deeply, the world suddenly has an opinion,
People question your choices, your values, your path,
They remind you of caste, class, religion, family name,
Everything except the truth of your hearts,
They say, “Think logically,”
But how do you explain feelings in formulas,
They say, “It won’t work,”
But how do they know your love’s strength better than you,
They say, “It’s not practical,”
But since when did practicality define happiness,
You fight, not just with others, but with your own doubts,
You sacrifice, adapt, compromise, but never give up,
Because love that reaches marriage isn’t just about romance,
It’s about endurance, grit, loyalty,
It’s two people against every “no” they ever heard,
It’s tears behind smiles,
It’s holding hands when the world pushes you apart,
But it only works if both are fighting together,
If only one is holding on, it collapses,
Love can’t survive when one is tired and the other is absent,
It takes two hearts, one vision, and unshakable unity,
And when you finally make it,
After every argument, judgment, and fear,
That union becomes sacred,
Not just because you love each other,
But because you fought for each other,
Love like that,
That’s not a fairytale, that’s a revolution. 🤌🏻♥️
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Things to say yourself and him in a relationship
1. “I feel so secure and confident when I’m with you, because I know you can handle anything that comes your way.”
2. “I love the way you think, your ability to solve problems effortlessly always impresses me.”
3. “There’s something about your strength and determination that makes me admire you even more every day.”
4. “When you speak, I feel like you truly understand me, and that makes me feel so valued.”
5. “I’m so proud of everything you’ve achieved, and I love seeing how passionate you are about your dreams.”
6. “Your presence makes everything feel right; I never knew how powerful it could be to feel this kind of connection with someone.”
7. “I feel like I’m the luckiest woman in the world to have you beside me — you make every moment more meaningful.”
8. “The way you take care of things and handle challenges with calm and confidence makes me admire you more than you know.”
“What phrases make him feel admired and valued? Share your thoughts in the comments.”
#womenempowerment #relationshipgoals #mensupport #loveandrespect #powerofwords #relationshipadvice #strongconnection #trueadmiration #romanticwords #confidenceinlove #healthyrelationships #emotionalconnection #womeninlove #buildtogether #appreciationmatters #romanticquotes #relationshiptips #couplegoals #loveinspiration #strengthandlove #trustandlove #realconnection
THE REAL REASON WHY YOU CAN'T FIGURE OUT WHAT'S HAPPENING IN YOUR LIFE AND WHAT YOU WANT TO BE:
Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you figure it out:
Things couples need to do together:
CREATIVE ✨ 🎨 Paint each other’s portraits 💌 Write love letters & exchange them 🎶 Make a playlist of “your” songs 📚 Start a scrapbook together 🍳 Cook a new recipe side by side 🖼️ DIY a home decor project 📝 Write a short story together 📦 Make a 5-year time capsule 🖼️ Build a future vision board 🏰 Make a blanket fort like kids again
PHYSICAL ✨ 🧘♀️ Try couples yoga 🌅 Go on a sunrise walk 🕺 Dance in the living room 🎾 Play a sport (tennis, pickleball) 🌌 Stargaze all night 🚴♂️ Go for a bike ride 🥪 Picnic at a local park 🏊 Swim or relax in a hot tub 🧗 Try outdoor adventures 🚗 Take a scenic drive with no plans
SOCIAL ✨ 🍽️ Host a no-phones dinner 🎁 Plan surprise dates for each other 💖 Volunteer for a cause 👶 Share childhood stories 📝 Write a bucket list together 🍝 Plan themed dinner nights 🎤 Visit an open mic night 🐶 Play with pets at a shelter 💃 Take a dance class together 🎲 Host a friends game night
INTELLECTUAL ✨ 🧠 Play trivia or board games 🎥 Watch a documentary & discuss it 🔮 Take personality quizzes together 📓 Start a couples journal 🌍 Plan your dream vacation 📖 Read a book together 🌐 Learn a new language side by side 🎧 Listen to a podcast & share thoughts 🎓 Take an online class together 📝 Write letters to your future selves
RELAXING ✨ 💆♀️ Give each other massages 🧘 Try guided meditation 🙏 Share 3 gratitudes before bed 🍳 Cozy breakfast in bed 🍿 Movie night with no scrolling 🌇 Watch the sunset or sunrise 🧖 Spa night with face masks 😴 Nap and recharge together 🕯️ Candlelight slow evenings ☕ Slow morning talks over coffee
#dating #texting #couplegoals #relationships #advise #couplelove #relationships #relationshiphealing #relatable #couple #datenight #spendtimetogether
When a women exhibits anxious attachment in a relationship, she's bond to do things like correction, modification, resolving to the deepest levels.....
1. She’s not trying to control you — she’s afraid
When she texts over and over or suddenly checks in with worry, it’s not about control. It’s the fear of being left behind.Try responding with calm presence: “I’m here. We’re okay. I’m not going anywhere.”
2. She notices what you don’t say
A small shift in your voice or energy doesn’t go unnoticed. If something feels off, her mind may jump to the worst-case scenario.Be clear, be kind, explain. A little reassurance goes a long way.
3. She needs consistency more than surprises
Unstable communication makes her feel unsafe. She’s not craving drama — she’s craving steady connection. Show up when you say you will. Be reliable. That’s what helps her feel secure.
4. She rarely asks — because she’s scared to be “too much”
She holds her needs in, afraid of being annoying or clingy. But she feels deeply.When you gently ask what she needs or simply check in with care, she’ll feel safe to share.
5. She overthinks — not because she doesn’t trust you, but because her mind is wired for danger
If she seems anxious over something small, it’s not that she doubts you — it’s that her nervous system is trained to expect loss. A little patience and a soft word can calm that storm inside her.
6. She loves with her whole heart — but needs to feel safe doing so
When she feels secure, she gives fully: love, loyalty, support, warmth. She just needs to know that her heart is safe with you. When you hold space for her sensitivity, you’ll see the depth of what she brings.
#advise #couplelove #relationships #relationshiphealing #reallove #love #datenight #spendtimetogether #selfdevelopment #emotionalsafety #traumaresponse #healingfromtrauma #psychology #tips
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